Self-trust… do you earn it or do you just have it?

I wrote this article about two years ago. It is as valid as it was then… As I unlock more and more abilities for people, as more and more abilities get activated, I am starting to see something new emerge. When one ability is suddenly available, like the sight, other abilities that were already there […]

You are infected with memes.

Humanity is infected with memes. The infection accelerated when the internet began, and is now almost 100% with smartphones in every hand. But some people didn’t get infected. What is their secret? OK, let’s start at the beginning. What is a meme? What is the mechanism of a meme? What does a meme do? Who/what […]

A telltale sign that you are self-referential. Is that the main cause of your misery?

ADMIRE AS MUCH AS YOU CAN! “Admire as much as you can. Most people do not admire enough.” – Vincent van Gogh Admiring people who are worthy of our admiration doesn’t cost us anything. Same with admiring animals and plants and natural phenomena: no pain involved. Same with admiring great accomplishments by our fellow humans: […]

What is the opposite of entitled?

Every generation is more entitled than the previous one. Why? Let me explain… If appreciative is the opposite of entitled… does that mean that all those people who are not appreciative are entitled? Entitled is a worldview. It is a ground-of-being phenomenon, invisible, like the floor. An unexamined truth. To you. But for the other, […]

What do you want to be acknowledged for?

I am lucky. Life always offers me plenty to write about. People say I am prolific, and if you look at my results: I write a lot. But… but if you asked me what I want to be acknowledged for, I wouldn’t say: for the number of articles. The number of articles only shows the […]

“People don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care”

As you know, I am a mad scientist. Mad, because I test things other people wouldn’t. Scientist because I talk, then test, then share it. In thousands of experiments I have developed a sixth sense. What you would call the truth sensing ability. It is a feeling that only develops after knowing a lot… I … Continue reading ““People don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care””

Good relationship? Abundance comes from mastery. Relationship mastery for relationship

This is what I have been trying to avoid all my life… Everyone and their brother says that connecting with people is the area of life where you have the most pleasure and happiness, and the most discord, and unhappiness. Given my childhood, I am afraid of people, I am afraid of pain, and I […]

Love feedback or else… Make it a feedback loop…

The way to find the strait and narrow of happiness (See The Anna Karenina Principle) is to watch the feedback … and self-correct. Yesterday I added integrity to the starting point measurements. so far all people I measured ranked on 3 out of 100. Wow. I had an exchange of text messages with a guy, […]

What are you building with that?

What are you building with that? This question was my absolute favorite in Landmark Education’s Communication Course… I have tried to ask it of people outside of Landmark, and the answers I always got was puzzled silence. So, what am I asking here? Well, you are always building something. A more popular but less precise […]

Remembering the future meditation… for self-trust

Some people are afraid to make a mistake. They are paralyzed, or procrastinate… and in the end often don’t take action… and hate themselves for it. I am one of these people. And some of my clients are like this too. In this article I will attempt to teach something I myself need to learn …