Let’s build a high vibration person. let’s build a skill, let’s build some skills
I am starting a new series that also shows a new direction I am taking my teaching/coaching practice.
The new direction is skill-building.
Obviously, if you are like most people, you have no idea what a skill is. You may say some inane things, but you still don’t know. Even if you read the “what color is your parachute” famous book that has been published and every year for 48 years, with over ten million copies sold.
I have taught it. I have lead the workshop. And I can safely tell you that in all those years, there wasn’t one person who learned from me, or from the book what a skill really is, and then develop skills that would take
I love, have always loved that movie. There is something magical about it, regardless of its fantasy ending. But what?
After all Bob is a slob, a never do well, an uncoordinated big slab of a guy. He gets his vocational and relationship guidance from a hamster. Not who you want your students to be… would you?
There has been a huge lie I’ve been repeating… unaware that it’s a lie.
I first heard it and have been repeating it from Robert Scheinfeld a long time ago.
The lie is subtle. It hides a fundamental truth behind itself, a truth I didn’t become aware until earlier this week. It promptly took the wind out of my sail, maybe forever.
The lie is: from the limited perspective of the human mind…
The truth is: the human mind never looks. So it can’t have a perspective, limited or otherwise.
The truth is that each person’s ‘personal reality’ is based on an upset 3-year old’s ‘knowledge’ that was never based on any kind of looking in reality. The clueless mode of living as a human. The dominion of the eight billion.
Oxygen. Just google “air oxygen content historically” without the quotation marks, and be amazed how much you don’t know.
Humanity, life, evolved to a certain mix of conditions on Planet Earth, long long time ego. Billions of years? Long time.
Billions of dollars I may understand… 1-2-3 and I count to billions. But billions of years? So between 1 and 2 I have to wait a year? lol… I can’t fathom that. So a long long time ago is enough for me.
How anyone has ever taught is wrong… and how it has lead to a humanity to being unhappy chasing happiness…
In this long and life threatening situation of mine, where I still can’t see the end of it… I have truly lived my invented purpose: ‘living on the edge, generating distinctions of transformation for humankind’.
Source says I saw more than the two I’ll share in this article, but alas, I can’t remember those. I guess i was too sick to retain those beyond the two.
I could be present 10% of the time… the rest of the time has been like a madhouse… scripted by mad TV writers, like loud obnoxious TV dramas I hate with a passion. There has been nothing I could do other than moan.
We all live in a ditch-like space that gets deeper and maybe even narrower as we go along.
A ditch is like a tunnel except that it is open to the sky.
People don’t know they live in a ditch. Why? Because all they know is the ditch. It becomes everything because the only thing that would distinguish the ditch is ‘not-ditch’. But because a person in a ditch can only see what is in the ditch and the dirt that is its wall, ditch can’t be distinguished from the inside of it.
My job, in this article, is to cause you to SEE, aka distinguish your ditch so you can have more than just that in your life.
I remember a few years ago a person shared that doing the Landmark Forum allowed her to experience more elbow room. Because in a narrow di
After I almost fell off the face of the planet… people asked me: how can I help you? What can I do for you?
And until now I have answered: there is nothing you can do, thank you very much for offering.
But upon looking at my bank account balance, I decided to ask for something. Something like a win-win.
Not money… my philosophy is ‘if I didn’t earn I don’t eat’. But I learned something a long time ago, heard it again many times since. But unfortunately sometimes it takes 20-30 years to move on something.
One day a Zen master told his students that he was going to teach a new technique of shooting an arrow.
He instructed his students to cover his eyes with a cloth and then he shot his arrow. When he opened his eyes, he saw the target with no arrow in it and when he looked at his students, they looked embarrassed because their teacher had missed.
The Zen master asked, ‘What did you learn?’
They responded, ‘We thought you would show us how to shoot at the target without looking.’
The Zen master smiled, ‘No, I taught you that if you want to be successful in life, don’t forget