That wasn’t the exact expression… I said: “Everything you know is in the way of being creative…”
I said this to the first person I coached in the United States. It was 1986, and she volunteered to be my ride to and from Landmark… ((of course at the time it was called Werner Erhard and Associates))
She worked as a sales person in her parents’ Janitorial supply company, selling toilet paper and such. S
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What kind of deserving is in that title?
Systemic? Extrinsic? Intrinsic?
In the past four months that I have been able to turn on individual capacities for people, I have received no request to turn on trust.
Why is that?
After all people, rightly, asked me for self-trust. But self-trust won’t be enough.
So what can be the current world view with regards to trust, that trust doesn’t come up as number one to turn on.
Because, whether you know it or not, without trust there is no winning. Without trust there is no flow. Without trust there is no fulf
I am reading Richard Dawkins’ The Selfish Gene. The genes that use humans as vehicles, and are only interested in procreation, and not in the life experience of the vehicle.
But, as I have said before, there are 160 intangible capacities, mostly dormant, in the human DNA. The ones that we are going to look at in this article are the capacities (genes) of generosity (altruism) and trust.
Trust and generosity seem to be at odds with the selfishness of the genes… but they don’t have to be.
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The knee jerk reaction is, universally, to want to fix what doesn’t work, what doesn’t please us.
“It’s wrong and it needs to be fixed.” you say…
This fixing thing has brought you more misery with every attempt to fix it. The more fixing you do the more unbearable life becomes, and the further the life you wanted to live has moved.
It’s not a mirage, it’s how it is. Not only seem that way. You get deeper into the bind all your fixings caused you.
But yet, every time you see something that doesn’t work as well as you’d like it, you have a new opportun
I am getting feedback that the 67 steps program sounds like a get rich quick scheme. It is nothing of the kind. It’s not even about money! It is a deep spiritual inquiry and an education. The education you didn’t get from your parents, the education you didn’t get from school, and definitely not from living. In the right hand it’s like the magic wand… 67 times waved to get to a higher vibration, a higher awareness, a higher consciousness… on your way out of your unfulfilling life…
I am a little under the weather.
It’s not a cold… it’s more like… let me tell you what happened.
As you know I put myself into this daily wakeup call, daily “knock you conscious” program, the 67 steps.
This past week, I don’t remember which day, the question was: how many people will be at your funeral when you die? Or that is what I heard.
I think it was more like: Have you passed the funeral test… anyway, I have been dealing with that question. Not well.
I am a hermit. The few people I actually know, would not come to my funeral… probably would not even know abou
The most popular image I have on Instagram says: Arrogance is weakness disguised as strength.
Now, why this is worth writing about?
Because it is the tip of the iceberg of something really important.
We have spoken about the selfish gene. For the gene you are a survival vehicle only. And a person, who is not related to you, is competition, rival… and in your gene’s way to make more copies of itself.
I know this is unfamiliar territory, but please bear with me, because where it is taking us is worth going to… so patience… you don