Most people do their life half-assed, build half-assed projects, hoping that doing that they can have what they want: success, love, fulfillment… but that is not the way to go.
I can see it in every area: they go for the wide and the shallow, the puddle. In love they never go deep, instead they get bored. They want more so they start with another partner, and never experience love, partnership. Or just stay on that superficial level… No depth. I measure th
Today finally I found out why the holidays lower your vibration.
Why I never knew it? Because for the past 42 years I have had no family, so I wasn’t obligated to participate in any of the festivities.
So there there, the first reason: it is not an invitation. It is like death and taxes. Unless you go, you are disinherited.
But somehow until today I wasn’t feeling it. I wasn’t feeling that there was no choice.
The tyranny of family.
I didn’t know that that is what it was when some 20 years ago I was TAKEN OUT to dinner by my brother and his wife. I ordered a pasta dish and it arrived stone cold. So I called over the waiter and asked him in very low voice to take it back and heat it up.
Resignation and desperation are the dominant moods in the world nowadays.
It’s late fall. The trees have shed their leaves in the Northeast where I live, the heat has been on for weeks now, and already we get up in dark, and end work in dark.
And people are sitting on their fat asses… doing nothing. Have given up. Resigned.
When they look, the future is gloom and doom.
Humans tend to be happy, if the future looks better… Resignation means: the future doesn’t look good… and today it looks that there is nothing that can make it better.
David Thoreau said: the mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation. What is called resignation is confirmed desperation.
Today I learned television was invented and had live broadcasts in 1927. in Europe and in America.
In Hungary I saw my first television, the machine, not even a program when I was seven years old, in 1954. The television was in the Prime minister’s house. Her daughter was in my kindergarten class. The whole kindergarten class walked to their house and ogled the television.
I lived across the street from the school.
So when it was the famous and exciting broadcast, space travel, I think showing the sputnik, the whole class came to our apartment. I lived closest to the school.
I have vivid memories of those times. And most of those me
Millions of pages quote this meme, but everybody understand it differently. Because we, culturally defined humans, we have no idea what is the game, and how we play it. No clue what to pay attention and what is relevant to the how.
No distinction.
The dude who coined the meme, Grantland Rice was a sports writer. He made more money that the people he wrote about. Was he happy? Was he fulfilled? Hell no. Couldn’t be…
Wrestling back the steering wheel of your life from ADD, frustration, depression, anger, and more
“It is not what you do for your children, but what you have taught them to do for themselves that will make them successful human beings.”
Of all the 10 starting point measurements, the most telling is your TLB score.
It tells me, and it tells you, how much discomfort you are able to experience and not run away mentally, emotionally, or physically. And therefore it tells you whether you can have the good life, health, wealth, love and fulfillment… or not.
Its activating mechanism is below your conscious a
Most of the things that make sense are wrong: optimism, hope, big desires, motivation…
It’s the last day of 2014, and there is an undue optimism in the air. A stranger even said hello to me in the street…
Even more than at the beginning of spring… the calendar is telling you that hopefully 2015 will be different.
You will lose the weight, you will find the job of your dreams, you will get out of debt, you will start that business, you will find the love of your life.
Pie in the sky, if you ask me.
What?! Am I raining on your parade? Yeah, I am.
All your dreams start in the mindset: wrong, wrong, wrong, all your goals are fixing goals, and what you are building on is a solid experience of yourself of being full of
The ground of your being is the dominant way you are… to which you return, like returning home.
Religion, spiritual teachers have been duping you. They say that the ground of your being is “being a spiritual being, having a human experience.” That is horse shit, and largely the reason no one has been able to carve out an enjoyable life with that principle.
Some issues cannot be fixed. One such issue is your identity, the identity you built and have been polishing. The ground of your being. The dance floor of your life.
When I ask you what you are most proud of about yourself, we ge
When human arrogance sticks its feet in the door truth escapes
The average truth value of medical and body science is 3%. The 97% combines what we don’t know, and what arrogance says… and is not true.
Today I had luck on my side, and I was taken to a site and to a ‘technology’ that has a higher truth value. It is a whopping 10%. Which means 90% is b.s.
And what about its efficacy? That is its effectiveness, I measured, is 3%.
Or often the foot in the door effect. They will say: everything is energy. Then they’ll jabber about Nicola Tesla… and now you are hooked.
If anyone talks about Tesla in a sales presentation, you can be 100% sure that they are using the food in the door effect… or as you can al
In my first incident, my defining incident, I was stupid.
That is what was wrong with me. That is why what happened happened to me. Because I was stupid.
And to my utter mortification, this morning I discovered that it just went underground, but it still operates me a lot of the time. Maybe not always, but enough.
So what’s wrong with that? After all being smart is good, isn’t it?
Finally I decided to end hope and start a side-hustle… or why you aren’t growing.
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