Are you disappointed with yourself for not being higher minded, and achieving more in life?

be an empty spotFor years I’ve seen that humans, humanity, are stuck in a place where happiness is impossible, accomplishment is not predictable, and health is touch and go. I’ve had big hopes, selfish hopes, that I will be the one to unstuck … Continue reading “Are you disappointed with yourself for not being higher minded, and achieving more in life?”

Is the fixed mindset a sign of courage deficiency? Can you turn on courage?

If you can’t measure it it doesn’t exist. The world’s population is divided. A small part tries to get results through effort, and the large part is trying to sail on their innate abilities alone. People in both parts have … Continue reading “Is the fixed mindset a sign of courage deficiency? Can you turn on courage?”

Updated: When you don’t hurry, time doesn’t hurry either. When you are prepared you can afford to not hurry

Hurry is a reliable sign of the Fixed Mindset. Fixed mindset and growth mindset describe the underlying beliefs, the invisible part of the iceberg of your beliefs that crash the Titanic! you have about learning, effort, and intelligence. When you believe they can get smarter, you may understand that effort makes you stronger. Continue reading

When the mind takes over perception: you see only what the mind allows you to see

change-the-way-you-look-at-thingsYour mind, your IT, your “I” in the fixed mindset won’t allow you to see what is not favorable to your self-image. This results in you living the life of an underachiever, without any sense of self, without any sense of adventure, Without any sense of being alive. you are thing in the world of things… pushed around. Coaching can unstuck you… Continue reading

Smart people don’t have to look… Creativity is genetic… and other bullcrap from the Tree of Knowledge

I have started to put my old videos on my video site I also listened to one… how you lose your creativity, how to get it back… Brilliant. I mean the video. I like it. I talk about how you … Continue reading “Smart people don’t have to look… Creativity is genetic… and other bullcrap from the Tree of Knowledge”

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How to find your real self… instead of honoring your false self as yourself

As I have written before, the book I am reading now is the Metaskills. The author is a designer, and looks at life through a designer’s glasses. The article “You live in a world of your own design” is one … Continue reading “How to find your real self… instead of honoring your false self as yourself”

Silencing your mind-chatter. The counter-intuitive path. Teaching pigs to fly

if someone else did it, your can do tooToday I am tired. I am in and out of bed, I need my rest. Why am I so tired? I lead a session of the From Upset To Communication course/workshop, an experimental course with no curriculum, except my commitment … Continue reading “Silencing your mind-chatter. The counter-intuitive path. Teaching pigs to fly”

It ain’t what you don’t know that gets you into trouble, It’s what you know for sure that just ain’t so

Concepts are the part of beliefs that make beliefs not changeable.

All the “gurus” who promise you to help you get rid of your beliefs are liars. They are selling you oceanfront property in landlocked Montana.

And you are buying them.

But Tree of Life words, your internal conversation can easily be seen as untrue or b.s. or a lie.
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How a collage is a diagnostic tool

the field of admirer-admired collage“What does it matter how many lovers you have if none of them gives you the universe?” French psychoanalyst Jacques Lacan posed that question. I invite you to put it at the top of your list of hot topics to … Continue reading “How a collage is a diagnostic tool”