Bits and Pieces of Love and more… Personal stuff, love activator

Hidden stuff, suppressed stuff, when it has a chance to spill out, has a tendency to reek (smell bad) and wreak havoc.

I am reading a book that heals by digging out such stuff… it doesn’t stop there, you’ll see.

Anyway, I am reading it, and obviously the mind has a tendency to dig along with the clients, dig along with what you read… no, my mind has the tendency to dig along, after all, I know the value of digging.

So, I must have dug quite a little, because I didn’t want to get up today. Then I had a digging conversation with a friend I wanted to start a business with and decided not to pursue the business. Then I read an email request for a private session outside of my schedule and the s**t hit the fan.

I felt offended, I felt violated, I was irate. After all people should ask for a time slot I have available, not something else… right?

The reaction was off the wall disproportionate to the trigger: after all I know how to say no, right? Baaaah!

Oh ho, somethi

When you see how Life came about, you can live better

There are probably many origin myths. Every group has one, because curiosity is as innate with humans as wanting the best life possible.

An origin myth explains why humans are the way they are… and in a way it also serves as a ‘how to play this game of life’ instruction book.

I am familiar with the ‘god created everything in six days and on the seventh he rested’ myth. Unfortunately, when I look, it doesn’t explain anything well, and it gives instructions that need a PhD to understand, let alone follow. So no, I don’t buy this myth, even though billions of humans do.

I like the Kabbalistic origin myth because in my work of penetrating the invisible I haven’t found anything that doesn’t seem to fit. This includes science too.

Read the original article: When you see how Life came about, you can live better

If you knew the rules of life, would you be doing the same?

If you go and search for the search term ‘rules of life’ you’ll see that everyone and their brother consider their rules THE RULES.

And you’ll notice that there are hardly any overlaps…
Does Life have any rules? Rules that would make a difference for you to know?
We were all born into a life that has been going on for a long time. None of us was handed a rule book or a manual.
We all made up a rule-book our own…
….independent from everyone and everything, and now we consider that our rule-book contains the right rules, and everyone should obey those rules we made up.

This distinction is probably the biggest accomplishment of the book ‘The Art of Hunting Humans’. When you get, truly get, that you have made all the rules up, and your rules are different from the rules other people made up, you suddenly understand why you are so annoyed with people. Why you think they are wrong, while you are right.

What no one seems to ask: are there rules that weren’t made up by peopl

The Martyr Syndrome: do you have it?

There is a new insight I have gained from my recent experience on the connection calls.

Some people (maybe all, at one time or another) have a breathtaking, breath blocking, experience, a feeling, or better said a bundle of feelings, that the Heaven on Earth (HOE) can’t eliminate.

I have been wondering what it is. Why is it so recognizable, almost like a signature: I can recognize from the “feeling” the person who has it. Same location in the body, same type of pressure, or sharp pain, or a gnawing sensation.

Read the original article: The Martyr Syndrome: do you have it?

Guiding feelings. Are you guided to look away? Run?

Do you know the difference between a feeling and an emotion? You don’t? I hadn’t, until recently.

So I would have never thought of asking this question prior to reading Margoczi’s books, Feelings and Words a few years ago.

Before, I learned in Landmark Education that regret, remorse, resentment, the ‘infamous’ three R’s are useless, and harmful.

But today I dare to differ.

Read the original article: Guiding feelings. Are you guided to look away? Run?

Remorse, regret, and self-recrimination…

Remorse is the ability to humble oneself and healthily repent for past mistakes ~ Ryan Fan

I read an article yesterday about Scientology children who left the ‘mother ship’.

I am left with just one thing from the article: in Scientology they train you to have no feelings, no expression.

I remember being in a Landmark program, years ago, that railed against the 3 R’s… regret, resentment, and I don’t remember the third. But they were wrong.

I have more time nowadays. I have more room for bad feelings too. And I don’t think they shouldn’t be.
I don’t hurry and run away from bad feelings.

Read the original article: Remorse, regret, and self-recrimination…

Who Has The Power?

Who Has The Power?

I had this deep deep, who knows where it came from feeling, from the time I was conscious of my thoughts, that the problem with the world is that people’s power is kept away from them.

When I observed people, I saw that they had very little control over what they did on any given day.

It seemed that their day was scripted, and most of what they did, I would not choose to do.

In my family, for example, it seemed scripted to wait for my mother to come home, bring groceries, cook them while we were hanging out, eat and then watch TV.

On Sundays we would go out to eat, often, or eat at home, but go out for dessert.

I was born with an imperfect digestive system, maybe because I was a preemie, was born with a two-pound body weight, less than a loaf of bread, a bottle of milk, tiny.

Then my mother refused to feed me by holding me to her breath, though I did get pumped breast milk…

I had colic, I vomited, I was an overall pain in my mother’s but. I

A World Asleep And A World Awakened… Can you help?

 Dear Reader, I need your help.

I am finding that the Spirit is shackled in my students, it has even stopped dreaming about soaring.

Much like as if you had an eagle, and it would choose to stay grounded, no roof, no cage, just enough food for the eagle to not go hungry, and it would say:

“I have enough. Soaring is not my job, it’s a lot of work, let someone else do it.

“Maybe the government. Maybe the doctors. Maybe the demonstrators, charity organizations… but I am OK with where I am, I have food, I have a home, I have everything I need.

“So what, that I was borne to fly? That doesn’t mean I must. Freedom? Highly over rated, if you ask me. It d