I’ve been sitting here, unable or unwilling to do anything… Unfamiliar feeling. I finally asked the question: why?
And then it hit me: I am either feeling Dark Side emotions transmitted, or you are not breathing.
What’s going on?
It feels like you are waiting for something to blow over… like a storm.
Anything I don’t know about? You can’t pay your rent? Your mortgage?
Is it Christmas? I feel it is about money…
Please talk to me…
Read the original article: What’s going on?
According to Malcolm Gladwell: life skills, social skills, winning skills you learn through living with people who use them.
My mother didn’t have them, and my brothers, especially my younger brother didn’t get them…
I did get some from my father: my father came from deep… mother died of starvation, he was bounced between families, getting an education without going to school, walking from one country to the other to save his skin…
I didn’t see any of
People who have meaningful work, want to work more… they work willingly, study willingly, grow willingly. ((Meaningful work means you see the results of your work readily.))
What could you do to steal meaning into your life? So you can have a meaningful life?
The new year is coming. It is customary to make inventory, and to set direction for the new year around this time of the year… even though you are busy planning for Christmas.
Christmas is the right time… With your Observer, with your Witness, watch your level of abundance, your level of grace and ease, your level of love wit
Why don’t you use the new stuff you buy, your new course, your new capacity?
What happens when you get anything new?
Is it always good news?
After all it’s shiny, after all it’s new… and yet… you are not using it.
Why? Are you crazy?
No, actually you may be intelligent.
New things, a new relationship, a new baby, a new job are disruptive to your current life… disruptive is a good word to use here.
And you are not ready to disrupt, you are not willing to be disrupted.
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In life you are either a nerd or you are a floater
Are you a nerd? ((One description I found on the internet is this: a NERD is an individual of vast intelligence and curiosity coupled with a natural knack for academics and discovery. You not only appreciate technology, biology, and all the other ‘ology’s – you know what they mean and how they work, too! While Geeks are busy flooding comic-cons and using the internet while pretending to know how it works, you are busy coding the damn internet and earning your Masters or Doctorate (if you don’t already have it/both). Of course t Waking Up From your Employee Hypnosis, waking up from your passenger hypnosis.
The Law of Action
Power tip: locate yourself… in reality
One of the things that immediately de-fuses an explosive situation, being frazzled, stress, etc. is accurately identifying what is going on, where you are at.
You may have made promises without consulting the people you live with, and so your are out of integrity
You may be trying to prove that you are special… so you are in greed The most generous thing you can ever do…
I wrote in the last article that guiding anyone, including yourself with the positive statement is the fastest way to misery… Positive statements, including affirmations, don’t define anything. Cinematherapy: what does it do? It teaches you to feel.
Movies with good actors do it better…