Unless it’s your job to give advice, don’t.
Why? Because giving advice comes from your shadow side, from your dark side.
How? When you give advice, you place yourself above the other person. Giving advice is asserting your superiority.
Have you noticed that you can get fired for that? Even if your advice is right on the spot…
By the way: this is true for healers, coaches, salespeople, helpers, charity volunteers, everyone.
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Soul Correction: I am such a giving person, why do people hate me?
Now that You don’t have to be perfect, You can be good… and alive
You are hardwired to be bad and pretend to be good or better than others
Review of Gary Douglas and Access Consciousness… Scam? cult?
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if you feel especially bad today…
If you feel especially bad today, please know that the feelings are not yours. What causes success?