I talked about negative emotions as early warning signals. But negative emotions have another function: they are placeholders, reminders of unfinished business. We go through life, and sustain injuries to our bodies, our self-esteem, our pride. All or us. And … Continue reading → Related Posts: Talk back to me: When I allow myself to […]
Ideas are like babies… the process you need to honor to be happy, healthy, and successful
This is one article, with two separate yet connected parts.
Part 1: Flashes of brilliance
Growth is not linear. By that I mean that you don’t grow a little bit every day. It is much like evolution: something tiny changes, and it creates a dramatic shift.
When things feel linear, it also means that you are simply stirring the soup… no growth. It’s OK.
Yesterday I had a glimpse at something that I had never seen: I saw that if opportunity favors the prepared… then I am in trouble: I am not prepared for any opportunity.
I am not prepared to roll with the punches that t
Want to avoid negative emotions? Stupid move!
Why you must go through emotional phases, no matter how high your vibration, or how successful you are You imagine that when you’ll have raised your vibration sufficiently, you won’t have sadness, hopelessness, despair… frustration, hate, spite, resistance, and such. … Continue reading → Related Posts: Talk back to me: When I allow myself to […]
Destinations and directions… or the “cheap closure now” phenomenon
You are encouraged, by mainstream, to imagine the life you want in vivid color, in minute details. But that gives rise to the “this is not it” and “somewhere else is better than here” way of living. It also gives … Continue reading → Related Posts: Do you want to become smarter? Slow down! Updated: […]
The deepest TED talk I have heard… and loved.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P2AUat93a8Q
It’s about cheating and affairs.
But it talks to all people… it talked to me, made me weep, opened my eyes… Please watch it.
Read the original article: The deepest TED talk I have heard… and loved.
5-ways-to-pinpoint-your-strengths so you can move towards the good life: success, health, happiness
Politically correct living, living for someone else’s sake robs you of seeing who you really are. I am talking about everybody. Empaths are a special case… they really don’t know until they become conscious empaths. Life cannot be lived authentically, … Continue reading → Related Posts: How You Do Anything Is How You Do Everything […]
Should you strive for leaving a legacy?
This is continuing the theme I started in my last post, looking at your life and priorities. This is a politically incorrect article… The footnotes are really important in this article, don’t miss them.
Let’s take a near posthumous look at your life… so you can see what was important, and do it while you still have time.
If you are afraid of death: this is especially for you. ((Fear of death is a foolproof way to see a life not well lived.))
Someone who lives fully and does what is important to them, isn’t afraid of death. They weren’t afraid of life, they aren’t afraid of death. That doesn’t mean they want to die… they are just not driven to panic by the sight of an life that never happened.
Yesterday I spoke about wanting to get my work out… but upon further examination, I realized that I fell for the cultural, societal mumbo jumbo, that i
How to detect lies… even your own…
One of the things I am starting to check if the person who wants to work with me, closely, is in the habit of lying or not. So yesterday I told an applicant that she was a liar. I muscle … Continue reading → Related Posts: Why you are not confident… Why you don’t trust […]
A different way to look at priorities
I just had a flash… A big bang.
We all have projects, and we all give it lip service, but don’t really do it… don’t really pursue our projects.
So, when a student of mine said: she needed to set priorities, I sent her this
I like the sound of setting priorities, but what is the principle of choosing priorities… what is the goal, the context of your life, that if you don’t achieve it, you’ll have regrets when you die?
Then it hit me: unless you have the context of your entire life and what you would regret, right bef
Your weakness is the fulcrum around which your life can turn around
Turning disadvantage into an advantage…
Another book written by Malcolm Gladwell deals with the deficit, the weakness of a person, that becomes the catalyst for them to become the best.
Of course, this is not automatic.
99% of dyslexics can’t read or write well, and are left behind in society.
But a disproportionately large percentage of exceptionally successful people are dyslexic.
99% of dyslexics are kinesthetic learners, perceive the world kinestheticly. It is another hindrance, being