The lotus is the symbol of coherence… it grows from mud… incoherent… and turns it into beautiful coherence.
If you lotus could speak it would say: ‘I want the world to be the way the world is’.
OK, so what is coherence and what is incoherence?
Oh… and why should you care?
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beingness is created by WORD. Landmark calls it a possibility, but whatever you call it, it was created by word or WORD.
When you are sneaky, entitled, cowardly: that is beingness
When you are generous, caring, loving, that is also beingness.
Beingness is not good or bad… it is either default or created.
I have found that until your conscious WORD creates, you are stuck with your default being, and pretending to be someone other than who you really are… your default being. Resistant, scared, hesitant, arrogant… thousands of beings you want to hide.
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attitude: a settled way of thinking or feeling about someone or something, typically one that is reflected in a person’s behavior.
“she took a tough attitude toward other people’s indulgences”
synonyms: view, viewpoint, outlook, perspective, stance, standpoint, position, inclination, temper, orientation, approach, reaction; More
opinion, ideas, convictions, feelings, thinking
“you seem ambivalent in your attitude”
a position of the body proper to or implying an action or mental state.
“the boy was standing in an attitude of despair, his chin sunk on his chest”
synonyms: position, posture, pose, stance, bearing
“an attitude of prayer”
Attitude is the same as beingness or being. In Hungarian, attitude equals: your relationship to something, your thinking that you bring to it.
The North American usage of the word is designed to cover up that you always have an attitude, because you always have a relationship to what or who you are dealing with. Attitude is neither good, no
without going into a scientific paper here, your reticular activator is an aspect of you that takes your serious requests seriously. It makes you see what you are looking for, everywhere… even under a rock, behind a half closed door, behind you.
How? I don’t know, I only know that you need to seriously look at and identify what you want to see…
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In the famous marshmallow experiment by Walter Mischel. He said that the 30% of the kids that didn’t eat the marshmallow, didn’t even look at the marshmallow. They kept doing other things, keeping their eyes off the marshmallow. Consciously, intentionally, and purposefully.
The marshmallow is ‘the thing’, the goal people want… and it is what actually causes them to jump the gun, to quit pursuing it prematurely.
I have read a lot about that experiment, I have even written about it, but I didn’t know that the ‘winners’ avoided looking at the marshmallow. that piece was missing for me, until now.
One of the challenges I face with my students and clients is their high desire number, and the Desire Trap…
This discovery I stumbled on, by accident, is the missing piece in helping my students with that challenge.
Watching that TED talk yesterday opened up something inside, that is still full of swirling fog, ethereal figures, and yet, I know that something from the invisible has bee
you hear everywhere, consciousness this, consciousness that, but it is not clear what consciousness is.
This is not a scientific definition, this, the glossary, this is how I mean consciousness in my articles, in my webinars in my courses.
Consciousness is a combination of what you are aware of, what aspect of you is looking, or aware of what you are aware of, and where you are standing when you are aware.
Therefore consciousness is an in-between and how, instead of a thing.
It could be said that there is lower consciousness and higher consciousness, depending on this relationship between the aware part and the thing of which that part is aware of.
If you are aware with a part of you that is intent on making you look better than you are, obviously we could assess that that is lower consciousness.
The highest consciousness is when the aware part is your Observer, when the relationship is proactive and not reactive, and when you are in a position where you can also see
At any moment you are either growing or you are dying… but how do you go from dying into growing again?
You can plan for survival, and you can plan for growth
The most important difference, from your point of view is this:
When you plan for survival, every setback threatens you with death, or poverty, lack, illness or shame.
When you plan for growth, every setback is a new opportunity to use your skills to now grow from this new level.
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Aikido is a certain style of Japanese martial art, more a way of living that anything.
Here are the principles of aikido: pay attention, it is an amazingly sound way to live:
Extending Your Mind: The extension of ones mind is directly connected to the extension of Ki. A person who extends their mind becomes aware of everything around them and naturally extends Ki. A person who extends Ki, naturally extends their mind.
Know Your Partner’s Mind: To know your partners mind is to know your partners “intentions”. This can only be achieved with the free extension of Ki.
Respect Your Partner’s Ki: From a self defense stand point, respecting your partner’s Ki would be to blend with an attack rather than meeting it head on. In daily life you can think of this as respecting someone’s opinion and not dismissing them out of hand. (In evolutionary language, this is cooperation instead of competition, leading to both surviving, instead of both dying.)
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Principles of Aikido
True Victory is Victory Over Oneself
One must first learn to control oneself before attempting to harmonize and control others. Without a good balance and control of oneself, one can neither avoid an attack nor apply an effective technique on others. It is through self-control that one can learn to enjoy a harmonious way of life.
Principle of Oneness
In order to harmonize with the laws of nature, we must first learn to develop and maintain the right attitude of training. We must always keep the attitude of becoming one with every situation. This is an attitude of respect for all things at all times. Regardless of the situation, friend or foe, one must always be ready to harmonize. The right attitude greatly affects the efficiency of the action. It is not how strong, but rather how correct you are that counts. This concept of oneness will make it possible for anyone regardless of age or sex to perform the arts efficiently.
Principle of Circular Motion
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allowing means: put up NO resistance. Liking or not liking, loving or not loving have nothing to do with resistance. Resistance is activated by fear and self-preservation, including the false self: your opinions, your world view, what you think of yourself and the world.
Allowing means: to make room for, let it in. It doesn’t mean agreeing with it. It doesn’t mean changing yourself or your views to accommodate it. It means: making room for without trying to kill it first.
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