Why do some people make millions, but not you?

Why are some people happy, but not you?
Why are some people successful, but not you?

This article could create a turning point for you and your life… By using the method I teach here.
Realizing value is, maybe, the fundamental distinction that is missing.
What does it mean: realize the value of something.

Realize means: make it real. It is a real thing.

For example, a blueprint, the plans of a house have no value. Only when the house is built according to the blueprint does.
An idea has no value. An insight has no value, until it is realized.
So is an activator. It has no value until the person starts doing the activity that it enables.

So is any teaching.

You may have been in a situation where you were in a class with many others. One of those ran with an idea and made a lot of money or made a lot of something with it, while you did nothing.

The difference between people is what they do with what they get.

Taking something from mere words, mere information

The first signs of an infection by the Dark Side

I first encountered this phenomenon in Israel 30 years ago.

Women kept on saying “Ein li koah…” which translated means “I don’t have (enough) strength, I don’t have (enough) energy.”

I remember being disgusted, appalled at the time. I had never heard anyone say anything like that, not in Hungary, where working around the clock is the norm.

Then, some 20 years later I heard myself say: No matter how hard I work, it is not working… Luckily I was listening to myself, and heard that I was lying.

The particular thing I was talking about not working: I didn’t put a lick of work into it, the resignation, the disempowerment, the fatalist view of “no matter how hard… ” came IN

When you give a new name, it changes your relationship to it

Turning things around… creating a turning point
I have a potential turning point for how I teach and what I teach… I saw it yesterday.

It’s a potential turning point, because I am not sure I can do it. After all I would be teaching something I did not learn myself. So I don’t even know if it is teachable. But at least now I understand what is going on. Why the results are sporadic.

I’ll explain later, after the story… but let’s start with a story, OK?

I’ve been cooking regularly since I was eight or nine years old. Don’t remember the age, I only remember what I screwed up then. So I am a veteran when it comes to cooking.

Something happened a few weeks ago.
I learned a new word.
Aromatics. I knew this word from Organic Chemistry… Yes, I went to school, and yes I learned what they taught. Didn’t you?

Onion, garlic, celery, even carrots… spices, herbs. All aromatics.
Aromatics refer to vegetables and herbs that add flavor and aroma to a dish. When cooked t