I am not religious, so this article will be a thought experiment.
In any universe there needs to be a fixed point around which the universe can unfold.
In our universe that is the untouchable rule of human free will. Continue reading
A Wretched Quote or what is the ultimate evil?
Wretched = (of a person) in a very unhappy or unfortunate state.
“It’s not enough that I should succeed — others should fail.” David Merrick
or how to be wretched, be on the competitive plane and be miserable, succeed or fail… Desire to receive for the self alone
According to Kabbalah, the Light can give you anything, as long as it doesn’t already belong to someone… The Light will not take away something from someone to give it to YOU.
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Does your speaking create reality… a reality you don’t want?
I am a watcher. I watch people… I keep a tab on them. I am like a watchdog.
I watch about 30 people. Why? I keep my finger on the pulse of the world this way.
One of these people has been my hero for about a decade. I won’t say his name.
Recently he got married. His vibration promptly dropped 120 points. His reality is now shaped by the new wife and her speaking.
Interestingly while they just lived together, she held her tongue. But once there was a ring on her finger, she started to talk.
What alerted me is the sharp change in his business behavior, in the new way he runs his business. He has gone from hard working, high vibration, high dynamic behavior to someone playing with his kaka. Playing small. Not inspiring to me. If he continues this way, he will have no business.
In this article I will look at this phenomenon… It is not rare, in fact every time someone forms a new alliance, they change… and so far they mostly change to less. I’ll help you look at the principle.
Will the DNA adjustment take you to expanding human being?
What is it like to be a DNA adjusted human?
It’s happening, albeit slowly.
It is clear that the child genes are what keep one in the Matrix. And as long as they are on, even just one of the two, a person cannot even THINK being cause.
Causing anything, themselves, their actions, their lives.
As long as they think something else is cause, magic, god, parent, society… no chance.
As long as they look by the ‘machine orders’, the having to, the needing to, the wanting to, the should… all child genes in action. Continue reading
Context, Mindset, Backdrop… why should you care?
Context, Mindset, Backdrop… why should you care?
This is going to be a mind-bender, and at the end of it you’ll come up a lot smarter, and with a lot more power over your life… interested?
It is all about mindset! Context is decisive… and what the heck is a backdrop?
Let’s start with backdrop. Why? Because it’s the easiest to see what’s going on.
I say that the backdrop is more important than what happens in the foreground.
- Someone says something to you and you are hurt.
- Your boss assigns someone else to an important assignment.
- Your experiment at making money with your first product is a flop.
- You continually have trouble and emergency in your life.
The above statements are the foreground.
Depending on your mental attitude (mindset) you say it’s bad, or it’s good, or you have no opinion.
So far so good… are you still with me? Good. Continue reading
More on what would be emotional intelligence
The first thing we need to tell apart, distinguish, is the difference between a feeling and an emotion.
Nothing in reality creates an emotion. Emotions are not in reality…
They show up in your personal reality only. Something happens, real or unreal, and you say something about it, consciously or unconsciously. Mostly what you say: good/bad, right/wrong. And then the feeling you have, having said that, is going to match what you said: good/bad, right/wrong. Continue reading
Do You Feel Stuck?
Do you feel stuck? Are you trying to do everything but you still are stuck at the miserable place instead of where you are your best?
If so, you are not alone.
One of my clients used to be in constant survival.
He could see that he wasn’t doing what he really wanted to do with his life.
He knew he loved to learn. He knew he loved to be in conversations about deep issues where he could distinguish, for himself and another what they were looking at, deeply, precisely and in a way that it altered life. He loved that.
And he loved teaching.
These were the activities he loved to do, and he hoped that people would, at some point, pay for it. Continue reading
Teaching the way a fig tree grows… from the top down
For 17 miserable years I was an architect in three countries. Unfortunately I brought myself with me…
I was, for a time, part of a team that introduced a new building method: building from the top down…
I won an architectural competition with it, I also won an award of excellence for a building built that way.
The method may work in architecture, and it definitely works for the fig tree… Continue reading
Stuck in a rut? Would you like to find your way out?
Stuck in a rut? Would you like to find your way out?
First off: You are not alone.
My coaches, mentors, teachers, friends, and clients are stuck too, from time to time.
Take one of my teachers: she has been dealing with some downward spirals, that completely felt as something that has no solution.
Their expensive, and almost brand new RV suddenly needed major repair, and the funds weren’t there.
To add insult to injury, there started to be some legal issues, then health issues… so it looked bleak, and devastating.
In our conversation I went through a series of tools I have in my tool-box… and when I got to the question: do you know the 9-dot exercise, the light bulb went off for my teacher, and she came up with a solution that, if not solved it, made the situation bearable.
So what is this tool box, and what do the 9 dots mean? How can YOU use this to get out of a predicament, a situation that seems to have no solution:
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You don’t do well because you major in minor things
One of the distinctions I have never heard anywhere else is this “Majoring in minors” [note]There is a very interesting article I just read while I was looking for some picture for this article. It brings up an area of life where people major in minors: religion. I am quoting it here fore you, the bible part:
Why Do We Major in the Minors?
from R.C. Sproul on https://www.ligonier.org/blog/why-major-minors/
The Pharisees distorted the emphasis of biblical righteousness to suit their own behavioral patterns of self-justification. Jesus frequently confronted the Pharisees on this point. Jesus said to them, “You tithe mint and dill and cumin, and have neglected the weightier matters of the law: justice and mercy and faithfulness” (Matt. 23:23a). On numerous occasions, Jesus acknowledged that the Pharisees scrupulously obeyed some points of the law. They paid their tithes, they read their Scriptures, they did a host of things the law required-and Jesus commended them for their actions, saying, “These you ought to have done” (Matt. 23:23b). However, it was the emphasis that was out of kilter. They scrupulously tithed, but in doing so they used their obedience to this lesser matter as a cloak to cover up their refusal to obey the weightier matters of justice and mercy. That distortion occurs today.
[/note] distinction. It’s from the 67 steps.
It is about choosing to invest time, energy, money into something that is not going to return a big benefit.
If we look at any area of life, the biggest difference between astute people and the rest is how they invest their time, energy, and money.
Obviously, if you fritter away your time, energy, and money on frivolous or low-benefit activities, your life will be below what it could be. Continue reading