First let me set the context for this article: For the past almost 30 years I have been mainly a mindset coach, and secondarily a healer.

It seems that in today’s climate, in today’s low vibration, low consciousness climate my work is not appreciated.

So instead of blaming anything, my job is to pivot.

When faced with the reality that life is short, these women pivot, and alter their current paths, by way of a series of impulsive, ill-advised and self-indulgent decisions. 

This above is a quote from Wikipedia about a show called Pivoting…

Pivoting is using a pivot… a fixed point in reality, and turn around it to a new direction.

In my case,

‘when faced with the reality that my business is on a failing path, I will pivot, alter my current path, by ways of considered decisions and tests…

and won’t make any permanent decisions until the new path will prove to be both enjoyable and profitable enough for me to pay my bills.’

So this article is pointing to one of those possible new paths:

I am starting a new series in this article.

A series to answer why almost all techniques cause some change in your happiness. Some change in your health. Some change in how you feel about yourself, even though their truth value is low or very low. Even though the energies that they claim don’t exist. Even though the practitioner may have a low or very low vibration.

Huh?

Yeah.

I am starting with the Healing Codes and Dr. Alex.

Can we order lunch first?

That’s a line from Office Space (1999). Jennifer Aniston’s character asks that… before they sail away into lala land… or Kung Fu land as it may.

History:

Originally, back in 2011, my site generated thousands of ‘hits’ a day. Why? because I was writing about other sites, other practitioners.

And my reviews, instead of those being a sales piece, like everyone else’s ‘review’ written to get commissions gushing how great it is. Instead I dealt with what I call ‘assessments’… Assessments that I muscle tested and that was that.

Surprisingly in all these 10 years I only had one person who asked me to remove my ‘review’ of her from my site.

This new series, starting today, is going to be assessments with a different angle.

As I said above, I am curious why all or most of these modalities, etc. work, in spite of my low ratings of them.

Eventually I want to assemble a series of interviews with the people I feature… Interviews where they can fully express what they do. why THEY think their program is effective, why they think it is worth the money they ask for.

This on the shoulders of my ten years when I was sure that what I do and what I teach is the best… but the ‘world’ voted with their pocketbook… so I am humbled.

I still think it can be the best, but if no one is doing it, who knows? Maybe I am asking the fish to climb a tree, or the bird to swim…

Albert Einstein supposedly wrote, Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid.

By which I mean that maybe I have been asking people to do and succeed in something they are not capable of doing.

And although doing what I asked them to do, taught them to do would make them happy, successful, healthy, and fulfilled, maybe even liked, they cannot do it.

So I am willing to eat humble pie, and look what other modalities, other teachers, other practitioners and coaches have been asking of their constituency that is more in line with what the clients can actually do.

So back to the Healing Codes.

I bought the Healing Codes, expensive ($2000), big, huge heavy binder… but I had a problem and I wanted it be gone. I had an angry red growth on my arm…

It looked that it was preparing to kill me…

I started practicing the ‘codes’ and on the fourth day, when I looked, the thing was less red, less angry, and smaller. You could see the white of skin where it was before.

After another few days it just fell off, leaving a white footprint.

The ‘code’ that most tormented me was ‘kindness’.

So suddenly I was a raving fan.

I recommended the program to hundreds of people, and many have taken the leap. I personally ‘mentored’ a few of them.

I had already been an energy practitioner at this time, and a good one at that. Strong energies, clear mind… This was after the two hemispheres of my brain decided to join forces… and start to regrow brain function that I lost in my 1998 surgery.

Anyway… What is the Healing Codes about?

why it works if it works, when it works?The modality is, in my humble opinion, is not energetic, it is more consciousness raising.

It gives people enough time to ponder about love, or kindness, or wrong beliefs to suspend what is there… whatever is causing disease or unhappiness.

It works best if and when a person is willing to put their attention on what they are doing.

Here is a comparison:

My Big Bundle is an energy. If you play it, even at a very low volume, so low that you can play it behind anything, a movie, a video, phone call, straight into your ears, it talks to your brain and it tells your brain to pay attention to how the body is working.

The audio only has the command to Source… so it can be whisper quiet. The energy comes straight from Source.

My nighttime equipment is broken, so I can only expose my brain to the energy playing headset from my PC. And yet it works, dramatically.

I only get conscious of the audio playing a very few times on any one day, and yet it is working.

It has brought me from death’s door twice now… and now I commit that I will play it every day, so I won’t get to deaths’ door anytime soon.

In contrast the Healing Codes:

You actually have to spend time with it. It is tiring for the arms, because you have to hold them to your head… And while you are doing it, you have to be present to what affirmations, what ‘energies’ you are supposedly conducting.

Moreover: the Healing Codes cannot activate a human capacity that isn’t already there.

Although, to be fair, it activated the IDEA of kindness for me, and an intense sadness for not having been kind.

I am still not very kind.

Nietzsche considered kindness and love to be the ‘most curative herbs and agents in human intercourse‘.

The essence of kindness is that it takes one’s eyes off oneself, at least for the duration. In that regard it is the capacity of caring, without the outward signs and symptoms.

But caring can only be activated at the vibrational level of 540, above even where love becomes available.

At the present time people are not even going for it.

Today’s ‘kindness’ is 90% for show, 90% to make another or others see… and for the ‘kind’ person to have the right for virtue-signaling… only 10% from any inner reasons.

I have students who have modulated their voice to sound kind… but inside they are anything but… And they know it.

I choose to see what people suffer from. Choose to see what amount of help will make another be able to rise above their current station. And mete out kindness, sparingly.

And just so you know: I am well aware of my self-interest in the matter. And I ‘own it‘.

Kindness given away to everyone cheapens it.

Just look at social assistance. When have you seen ANYONE who made something of themselves because they got that assistance? I guess: NEVER.

If you give someone a crutches because their leg is broken, eventually they lose the crutch.

But if you give someone a crutches and money to live on, but take them away if they start to walk: they will hold onto the crutches…

It is clumsy and limiting to use a crutch to get around, but you are getting ‘paid’ to do that, so you do.

But you won’t even consider getting off the crutch and do what is your heart’s desire, because you never learned how to do that, how satisfying that is: you only see the inconvenience of ‘having to’.

There is a brand of psychology that calls this ‘learned helplessness’.

Muscle test says it is not ‘helplessness’ necessarily. It is more like learned smallness?

Yesterday I watched Office Space, the cult movie, where employees in the Initech company clung to their employment, and didn’t rock the boat… hobbling around on the crutches that employment provides.

Anyway, The Healing Codes can be an excellent tool to do two things:

• 1. Increase your ability to direct your attention, to keep it on what you intend to keep it on, to return it from wandering.
• 2. Bring your attention to where you are not the kind of person that can succeed and have a good life.

I think I’ll write an article only on kindness… maybe.

Anyway, my life is very weird with its coincidences.

I just got an email from a client who has some bothersome tumors. I meditated deeply to see what would, what could help her get back to health. I muscle tested some modalities, among them the Healing Codes: it tested 10% yes.

That result clued me in that the issue with those tumors is probably a spiritual issue of stinginess, self-concern, greed.

It does sound weird, doesn’t it?

So if I want to help her, I’ll need to prescribe a curriculum for her with energies. Energies that change the stinginess, the self-concern, the greed. All in the Second Phase Activators Course…

Want to know if those activators would work for your problems too?

Ask me. Pay for a brief evaluation… You can ask any health or spiritual question that concern you.

I will provide you with an answer. It may be one of my products, a product from someone else.

It can be just one energy or two from a product of mine. How more customized can you get?

Had the Healing Codes provided this level of service back in 2005, it would have cost me 200 dollars instead of $2000. That is what I paid…

Ask your brief questionPS: Most people try to change not by pivoting, but by scrambling, flailing… and of course nothing changes.

You need to find a fixed point in reality to be able to pivot.

100% of attempts to change without a pivot point are doomed to fail.

In the context workshop we use your default context as a pivot… It is totally fixed… so it won’t slide and shift and wander…

Was it Archimedes who said: give me a fixed point and I will move the whole world?

No fixed point… no leverage.

Read the original article: Pivoting. You can’t pivot in your head. Only in reality

I woke up this morning. Felt a sore throat. I started to get dressed. Put on my socks, my thick padded pants, and… went back to bed.

I slept a little, pondered a little during that hour.

I am reading a book by Neal Stephenson (Termination Shock) that is dealing with global warming. It is a tome… 720 pages. Very interesting, albeit nothing much is happening, at least not as far as I have read, 75%.

But Neal Stephenson always takes you for a sweeping view of life and I am happy to go where he takes me.

So I asked the question:

Is he happy? And Source said through my fingers… No. Boggles the mind.

He writes exactly like another author I read everything from. He, for example published about the same amount of pages, but in many books, The title of the first book is Sick… The whole series: spectacular.

One author is not happy, the other one is… Brett Battles is happy. I link to a video of him sharing his journey as a writer… Watch it to see if you can see how and why he is happy. And above I link to an interview with Neal Stephenson… compare the two men. Do this after you read this article… again, and see if you see what I see. Please. for your own sake.

Most people are not happy, 8 billion. And a 1000 are happy.

What is the difference between them? Wouldn’t you want to know?

I am one of the happy ones…

Are dogs happy? They certainly feel happy? Yes, says Source.

How about cats? Are they happy? No.

I can see that too. They always go and try to do their own thing, ignoring the world… They don’t feel happy. They feel that they put up with a bunch of fools… incompetents, because they don’t have a thumb and can’t open the little tins with the food.

At least that is what I felt from my cats when I had cats.

So what is the secret?

It is simple, and it is on many memes:

Interestingly, 99.99% of memes say the opposite…

Here is what Charlie Munger has to say:

The secret to happiness is to lower your expectations. …that is what you compare your experience with. If your expectations and standards are very high and only allow yourself to be happy when things are exquisite, you’ll never be happy and grateful.

There will always be some flaw. But compare your experience with lower expectations, especially something not as good, and you’ll find much in your experience of the world to love, cherish and enjoy, every single moment. ~ Charlie Munger

Charlie Munger is one of the 1000 happy people.

There are two ways to be happy: improve your reality, or lower your expectations.” ~ — Jodi Picoult

Jodi Picoult is one of the eight billion. Not happy.

When you want to ‘improve’ your reality, it means it is WRONG.

It is not what it is. No. It is wrong, needing fixing, improving, or it remains wrong.

Charlie Munger accepts things as they are, neither wrong, nor right, and some of them he can even love. enjoy, cherish.

Much like a dog. It doesn’t particularly like to behave the way you want him to behave, but he can. He doesn’t hate it. And some parts of life, chasing after a ball or a Frisbee. Fun, lots of fun.

Dogs like the chase… but that chase doesn’t IMPROVE anything for the dog, the dog is already happy.

The dog doesn’t say: when I catch the Frisbee I’ll be happy. When I can jump seven feet in air to catch the Frisbee I’ll be happy.

It also doesn’t say: I want an owner who throws me the ball… or I’ll be unhappy.

You can train a dog to be unhappy…

To become dependent on getting attention at the expense of destroying the dog and its happiness.

I have a couple next door who did that. Just like the previous couple was training their 2-year old.

In a relevant way all today’s parents do this thing to their children.

The natural way for a child to develop is to be happy. The standards, the expectations are set by the parent.

Back in 1996 when I first participated in the Wisdom Course (Landmark) I did one of the assignments for the course, the Autobiography.

It is a book you make of your life. Each year is a page (or more). You list major events, who was there, pictures, and what was the things you said.

Given my circumstance, I didn’t have access to many pictures, so maybe it was easier for me to see, that in spite of how I remembered it…

I was a happy child.

I explored, I did things, I got hurt, I won some, I lost some, but I was happy.

After age 14, I started to become gloomy.

I think it began with my father’s innocent remark: all women who wear glasses are ugly.

I took it personally. He didn’t mean it that way.

Recently I realized that my father loved me. I didn’t expect love, I didn’t expect anything. But the idea that somebody loved me brings pain, bring tears, I don’t quite know why.

Anyway, I started to see that statements of lack, statements of wrong started to creep into my vernacular, and I started to descend into unhappiness.

It took me about 40 years to return to happiness.

It took putting myself in a situation where I didn’t, couldn’t expect much.

In 1998 I went through a surgery that went bad… and I came out of it with major brain damage. Interestingly only certain parts of the brain got damaged, parts I used and needed when I was younger.

I could continue doing some of the work I did before. My coaching clients didn’t notice anything. But I could not add up numbers, it is still difficult for me, and my dyslexia tripled… it’s a miracle that I can write articles given my dyslexia.

Anyway, I was in an emotionally abusive relationship with a dude. I had left my livelihood, my support system in New Jersey and moved to Syracuse NY with him.

He was an alcoholic. We slept in separate rooms. He dominated me as much as he liked… Like one dominates a servant.

And to my surprise, I could assume the mental stance: it is what it is. He is the way he is. I am the way I am. And I was fine.

Then by some miracle my brain decided to look and discover that it was damaged and do something about it, in 2003, I saw that it was time for me to go out on my own and leave the safety of that relationship.

I managed to take my ‘it is what it is’ attitude with me, and one could say, I have been happy ever since.

I didn’t know I was happy, by the way.

The standard for happiness in this world is to jump for joy… and that is not my nature.

Not until I distinguished that happy is when things are the way they are, and not the way they shouldn’t be.

Werner says: happiness is accepting the world and people the way they are and the way they aren’t.

It sounds so high-minded, but ultimately it is not accurate.

There can’t be happiness if things, people aren’t in some way… In reality there is no no, things are always the way they are… and they are never in any way ‘not’, or ‘missing’, or any of that human b.s.

Realizing that my father loved me is so painful, because somehow it brings a ‘no’ into my reality. Something I could have known.

But the reality is that my father was the way my father was, he said the things he said, and that was that. Neither wrong, nor right.

Because the moment I say ‘my father loved me’ a whole unreality of all the people that didn’t, and ‘should have’…

People should do what they are doing because that is what they are doing.

I could make peace with Hitler, the Nazis, Trump, because they did what they did. What happened happened.

Nothing wrong, nothing to fix.

But you, you are a dog with a bone!

The moment you bring that ‘bone’ into unreality, then of course you can be unhappy about a million things… because… why really? Because you have an expectation that things are going to be the way they are SUPPOSED to be… and then you are unhappy.

All that unhappiness you feel is because you said: it is supposed to be different. I am supposed to be different.

And now you are unhappy.

So what do you need to alter your worldview, because don’t be mistaken, this is what worldview is!

In the context workshop we dig down to the core, and attempt to distinguish unreality, so you can choose.

Of course choice is only possible if and when your DNA is adjusted… so I will diligently adjust people’s DNA who are in the course, so they can choose.

I am not blind therefore I can see that I could choose to call things wrong… I can see it. And then I don’t.

It seems that I have less and less people willing to join me on my path. So I have been looking what else I could do to make a living.

Not because it’s wrong to not make a living, but because it is fun to make a living with something other people like, and want to spend money on.

Yesterday I found something that I think I could do, although I haven’t checked if it can be profitable… Yet. but I will.

When I am clear, I’ll choose to go that way, or look more.

Why am I so lighthearted about it? Because to me nothing is wrong. EVER. Even when I get frustrated or angry. It’s not wrong, and they are not wrong.

Anyway, you have two more days to sign up to the live course.

I record every session, but the recorded course doesn’t automatically have the frequent DNA adjustment, it is not practical.

But if you get the recorded course, you can email me as frequently as you want to ask me to adjust your DNA.

It is very obvious to you when you lose your adjustment. You become like you were before, fuzzy, confused, dull, and sluggish. At least that is what people tell me.

I don’t include email coaching in the course: if you want handholding between the sessions, you have to be in my Hero program, or buy email coaching…

To be accepted to the Hero program, you need to have a project. It is not a chatting app… about whatever. If you buy email coaching, you can chat… I will handle it.

Anyway, here is the link to register in any version of the course…

…and you even have an opportunity to apply to the hero program, if you wait after you paid… a page will come up with the offer.

All sessions are on a Saturday. All times are EST… New York time. Noon in New York is 4 pm in London, 6 pm in Paris, 7 pm in Bucharest.

This coming Saturday, December 11, 2021, 12:00 PM – 03:00 PM EST
Dec 18, 2021, 12:00 PM – 03:00 PM EST
Jan 8, 2022, 12:00 PM – 03:00 PM EST
Jan 15, 2022, 12:00 PM – 03:00 PM EST
I will schedule more sessions when I see how many more we’ll need to take you to your new ‘floor’ to happiness, and trust that it will stay.

PS: The interesting thing is many of Neal Stephenson’s characters are happy… at least when it matters.

What do I mean? When you are happy, when you can be in reality without having to label everything as good or bad, wrong or right, you are effective. Effective with the things, effective in you life.

The moment you relate to anything as shouldn’t be, you are in unreality and you are scr-ewed. Not effective, and unless you can recover fast, you or your life will become ordinary: which means unhappy… the new normal for life.

Read the original article: Are dogs happy? Are cats happy? Are humans happy?

Intelligence is what makes you able to

• navigate the treacherous world of humans,
• see things for what they are, be able to
• compare things even if they aren’t in front of you, and
• find what is more primary and what is secondary so you can do things in order, and lastly accomplish things.

If we look at it with our strait and narrow method, where intelligence is that narrow body of water separating two lands, then any spot we find on land isn’t intelligence, and any spot we find in water is. [note]

• –I am an empath…
• –I am an architect…
• –I am an independent thinker…
• –I am a business woman and
• –I am a musician.

All of these are fueled, or made possible by intelligence. The kind of intelligence that you need, no matter what you want to do with your life.

But the most important part of intelligence: knowing what is the order of things is my weakest… even though without that intelligence, without that capacity fully functional, nearly all I do is spinning my wheels. I have been working on that capacity to open fully for the past 10 years… Now it’s 90% open… Those 10 percents are missing for me to be fully intelligent.[/note]

Intelligence [note]Definition of intelligence

The number shows to what degree you can create and live the good life for yourself. And this article will attempt to point to the missing at the root level… so you can start there, instead of where all those books and articles out there tell you to start. So you can succeed.

Here are the four linchpins that unless they are present, your intelligence is lacking… and you won’t live the good life.

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Pardon for mixing my metaphors… but…

I am downloading five movies that people on Reddit reported watching more than seven times.

These movies are part of the culture, and I have missed it.

I am seeing, again and again, that I came to this party late… It was already going on. Continue reading →

There are many ways to deal with the Universe, with reality, and most of them are ineffective.

The more effectively you “deal” with reality, the more you get out of your life.

Billionaires Warren Buffet and Charlie Munger, Bill Gates, read books on physics, the ice ages, and the shorelines of our planet… and I see how it helps them in dealing with reality. this is what this article is about.

The Anna Karenina Principle applies here. That is what a principle is: it applies everywhere.

A principle is a pattern. Big pattern, small pattern, it IS a pattern.

[note]If you don’t know what a pattern is, what a fractal is, please look it up. This article AND life won’t make a lot of sense… and if you really look, it hasn’t made sense to you, has it?

The reason I am looking at billionaires is because billionaires are rare enough to represent the people who are able to make sense of the world, through patterns and fractals.

I don’t mean to sound haughty… but unless you start learning about the world, about reality, unless you come out of your mind where you have Tree of Knowledge… none of it yours, life will not start to make sense, and you’ll never understand why things are the way they are, why your actions are fruitless, and why you don’t manage to get from A to B.

Don’t say I haven’t warned you.[/note]

“Happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.” By that, Tolstoy meant that for a marriage to be happy, it had to succeed in several key aspects. Failure on even one of these aspects, and the marriage is doomed . . . the Anna Karenina principle also applies to ecological risk assessments involving multiple stressors.

One of my students suggested that the linchpin capacity that humanity isn’t exercising is allowing. The 12-step programs say: Let go – Let god…

I have been pondering this ever since I got the email with the suggestion. At first I didn’t see the beauty of it, but it is growing on me.

Yeah, if you could let life be life, the Universe be the Universe, spring be spring, the weather be the weather, if you stopped fighting it, trying to fix it, tame it, control it, then you would be able to fall into a rhythm, a harmony, a flow. Continue reading →

The biggest problem we have in life is ourselves. You’d think it’s others, but it is really you.

We’ve met your enemy and it’s us. Get out of your own way! You are your worst enemy!

The sayings abound, because ultimately until you change, nothing will change. But how to change? Continue reading →

Warning: this article is a stream of consciousness article, and you need to read it like a poem, or it probably won’t make a lot of sense. On the other hand it is very important to read, if you want a chance at having the rest of your life not a continuation of the life you have had… That predictable download spiral.

When your whole life experience is that others are more loved, more supported, more appreciated

I had a dream last night that rocked my world. Not in a good way… by the way.

I dreamed that my older brother achieved what I worked, unsuccessfully, to achieve for 26 years… and it took him only a few months.
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I am able to tell how your life is working from your answer.

Your life is like a tree adjusting to the slope of the ground, striving to grow straight up towards the sky. Read on, I’ll explain later…

I woke up three times last night.  Each time it felt it was too early to get up… but the third time was close to the time I set on my wakeup alarm… and yet, I didn’t get up.

I went back to sleep a little bit, dreamed, woke up again, and then again and again.

Every time I woke up I conjured up an idea, an image, a thought that would actually make me lift the blanket, and swing my legs over the edge of the bed and get up.

Nothing worked, until I thought: I will forever hate myself…

Then I found my hands move for the corner of the thick blanket, my legs were swinging…

So what happened? What was going on?

I tell you.

We are, all of us, are unconscious of what actually moves us.

The word ‘motivate’ simply means a force that moves… From there comes the expression: motive power.

We all have it, but we all don’t know it.

After all it could be so many…

Newton said that an object in rest will not move until a big enough force is applied to it to move it. And an object in motion will stay in motion in the same direction it’s moving, unless a big enough force changes the speed or the direction.

Obviously I paraphrased Newton’s law for us to see clearly that we are either in rest or we are in motion… and most of those states won’t take us to where we want to go.

Pay attention that the ‘want’ is inert. It is about as important in moving the object, you, as it is important how much face-paint you have on. Not.at.all.

Same with the other three imaginary movers, having to, needing to, and should.

So finding out what moves you, what has enough energy to move you or to stop you, move you and change your direction, is mandatory if you want to be your own person.

If you want to accomplish anything. If you want to have some semblance of power in your life.

Life, your base nature, others, are already providing a lot of forces… and for you to have an experience of being a person, you will need to have a say where your ‘ship’, where your life is going.

The two main inner forces are the move towards (attraction) and the move away repelling, or deterring forces.

But I am starting to see that you have a base nature, and those forces combine.

Your base nature is like a slope in the ground. It is not moving you to where you can be the best or where you can have your best life. In fact it is moving you down the slope… ugh.

Your base nature comes from your soul correction…

Let’s not argue if there is a soul or not. Let us not argue that if there were a soul it would be perfect.

Please consider the soul correction just an expression of an actual issue, a slope in the ground… a slope in the direction of being wretched. In the direction of never amounting to much. In the direction of desire for the self alone… the only evil there is.

I am not saying it’s the truth, I am saying that if we said that, a lot of, maybe all of what a human does, would start to make sense… about the fight of the different forces that results in the life you have.

My job is to help people counter the slope in the ground so they can have a life they love and a life they live powerfully.

The slope in the ground, I say, tends entirely toward avoiding pain, or towards pleasure.

You remember, humans don’t do anything that is motivated by anything other than pleasure and pain. In fact no living thing does.

But humans complicate this because they have this pesky ability to create a personal reality with words.

That is the only difference between other living things and a human. That ability to create a fake reality with words. And humans consider this fake-reality reality… and therefore act on imagined pleasure and imagined pain, never on the real thing. Nothing is real in the fake reality.

For decades I have been attempting to teach people how to see reality as it is, and how to live there.

It’s not working.

Remember The Matrix, the movie? The number of people who take the red pill and are willing to live in reality is minuscule compared to the number of people who live in the Matrix, the fake reality.

And in this regard the movie is an accurate depiction of human life.

The glop the humans eat in reality is a lot like the glop the big-brained people eat in the movie Defending your life…

But if you look, most humans eat a mirage…

A mirage that is maybe 7% food, the rest is toxic to the person. And then they spend most of their energy detoxifying it and getting rid of it… the 93%. They have no energy, and they can only allocate 1% of their energy to using their brains to do something useful.

But more than the food, and more than the brain not working, humans have to deal with the fallout of the fake reality they made up and their base nature… getting angry, resisting, avoiding, forcing, dominating, explaining, justifying, looking good, sounding smart, being right…

These are the behaviors that like food, 93% toxic, not nourishing, not getting them anywhere.

Intelligent species? My ass!

Not intelligent. Talking. That is not necessarily intelligence.

And yet, my job is to take some not very intelligent specimens, and try to modify their fake reality such that they will do more things that are in their self-interest, and less of those toxic, non-nourishing things. Things, actions that are not getting them anywhere near a life they can love and live powerfully.

A shitty job but someone has to do it. Why? Because the Source of The Design. the Designer needs this information.

What design? The design of a finally intelligent species that won’t annihilate itself.

How many quasi intelligent species have been? Seven so far, says Source. We are the seventh.

My work is so the eighth can be closer to being actually intelligent.

Some indications exist that the second quasi intelligent species had a few members that survived… but don’t take my word for it.

Does that mean that our species can have a few members that can survive? I think so. Who? My hunch is that the 1000, the ones that consistently live in reality, make decisions from reality, and cause themselves not from the slope in the ground, but from what can create the best life… those 1000 can survive the events that will cause the rest of humanity to perish.

Of course if they’ve chosen a spouse who is not part of the 1000, then the chances that their offspring inherited the 1000 DNA are slim.

I have access to pictures of some of the children of Charlie Munger, who is a 1000.

I have found one of them is also a 1000. Charlie Munger has six children… His wife was not a 1000.

My father was a 1000.

His wife, my mother wasn’t. My two brothers aren’t. I am… but I am childless. Who the heck in their right mind would want to bring children to this world we live in?

One of the ways people pick a spouse is because, like puzzle pieces, they are attracted to someone who is their opposite in some regard. The most frequent genetic opposite is the predatory genes… Charlie Munger was born with 1 predatory gene, his second wife with 10.

All the members of the 1000 were born with zero or one predatory gene. Predatory genes override reality. They convince a person that dominating, and force is a good policy for life. It isn’t.

OK, back to our original issue: how to stop the moving to the wrong direction or how to create some good movement from rest?

Your base nature wants you to avoid pain, and your base nature wants you to seek pleasure.

I am most moved by, my actions are moved by what I don’t want, what I can’t tolerate even to imagine.

The pain of ignonimity, shame, not mattering. Having created nothing. Not being noteworthy. Not having done what was mine to do. Having not made a splash with my life. All horrible, intolerable things for me.

I avoid these, so even the idea of any of these will get me out of bed, keep me up at night, make me forego pleasure.

I am a shouldn’t person. Both in my base nature and in my actions.

Interestingly there are a lot of people who are basically the same type, but behave as a should person.

Why? Because they live in the fake reality. In the fake reality pleasure is more important, ease, comfort, avoiding discomfort, avoiding domination of anything is more important. Avoiding looking bad, avoiding to find out that you are not smart enough, that you don’t have what it takes.

In the fake reality, in the Matrix avoiding the pain of reality is a strong motivation… And that results in a life that doesn’t amount to anything, isn’t enjoyable, exactly what the person is supposedly trying not to experience.

In yesterday’s article I wrote about the greatest motivator of all: tiny doses of being inspired by who you are.

Not by what you do, but who you are.

Why is it a great motivator?

Because, I think, it works both for the should and shouldn’t types.

Even the most worthless, most inert underachiever does something worth being inspired by, occasionally.

For me it is a steady flow of small actions, confirming that I am a worthy person. Worthy how? Intrinsically…

It moves me, until it doesn’t.

When it doesn’t, when I am stuck in comfort, I’ve ultimately managed to say something that made it clear to me, in the moment, that the path I was on, the path of comfort was the path to ignonimity, the path to worthlessness.

Ignonimity is deep personal humiliation and disgrace. I don’t want to feel guilty, I don’t want to feel shame. So I get up, get going, snap out of it.

So I use being inspired by who I am to keep going, and ignonimity to change direction or to get going… Ignonimity is the big hammer for me.

By the way, there is no worthless in reality. I say I am worthless… And that is my guidance… to not be worthless.

I use a lot of shaming in my classes. It’s not working.

When the spirit is dead inside, when the slope in the ground is stronger than anything I can offer, I feel like giving up. Quitting. Dying.

My work is to find a way to turn homo sapiens into human being… or prove that it can’t be done.

Said in another way, bring people out of the Matrix to where their actions are effective, because they live in reality.

So far I have been proving that it can’t be done.

So given that: what can I do for people who come to me?

I am told by clients that even glimpses of reality, even a little ability to rise above the slope in the ground, above the incessant urge to avoid, to force, to dominate, to justify makes it worth the effort and the money for people to take my classes, get my energies.

And although I can’t take you to reality… because you can’t or won’t come, I can increase your ability to be effective, productive, and happier and healthier in the Matrix.

And although that is not what I really aim at, as a side effect you can get it and I know you appreciate it.

Could I teach the side effect (to become more effective, productive, happier and healthier)? I could. But would I be as effective at it as I effective am giving you the side effect while I am attempting to teach you something else? I don’t think so.

Context is decisive.

When your context and your content are the same, you are utterly ineffective.

When your goal with making money is making money, when with looking for love is getting love, when with speaking is to speak… you are ineffective.

The context needs to be larger, maybe a lot larger. Then you can be effective.

Crafting a context is an art and a science.

Unfortunately, you cannot lie… you won’t believe yourself.

So crafting a context starts with taking a mercilessly honest look at what is there…

A one-time client of mine asked this question this morning: would asking the responsibility questions increase our ability to spot deceits and scams?

My answer to that was; ‘as long as you are a deceiver and a scammer, that is all you will get.‘

to which she responded: ‘oh wow this kinda knocked me conscious. I need to see how I’m perpetuating this being duped/scammed because I’m a deceiver myself.‘

Yes, this could be the beginning of a life coming from a bigger context… My prediction: it won’t. But it could.

And that is the essence of creating a context: it can work, but it isn’t guaranteed. It is still up to you.

In my current live course I teach how to create a context that will make your life start working, your projects moving, and your results coming easier and faster.

I am repeating session 1 this coming Saturday, so although the course started a week ago, you haven’t missed anything. You can also have the class recording… so you’ll get a good start.

I expect only one person to register… I have room for three.

Embark on this journey to take back your powerClasses are at noon (New York time) on Saturdays, and run around 3 hours each. They are workshops: you work 90% of the time, I talk only 10%. Holiday weeks there is no class.

The course will take as long as it will take.

You can also buy the recorded version at the same link.

Life is a dance if you take the steps: one step, then another. ~ Anonymous

Read the original article: What motivates you? Is it positive or negative?

This morning I am looking at the tremendous difference between high vibration and low vibration. My head is spinning… wow.

One can say, that vibration is a number that measures how much of reality you see accurately.

• What you see, of course, depends on what you know, what you can distinguish from everything else… accurately.
• What you see, of course, depends on where you are when you are looking. How high, and how wide and how deep you look.
• and what you see, of course depends on what you’ll consider as relevant… we’ll consider this your grounds of being.
• and lastly, what you see will depend on your attitude aka what is driving the looking.

All these, of course, are nearly invisible for the looker. the person whose vibration we measure…

I am saying “nearly invisible” because unless you pay attention to what you see, to where you are looking from, to what you consider relevant and to what is your attitude… these factors are unconscious and therefore not seen. Invisible. Continue reading →