There Is Something Wrong Here… The Human Virus

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This article has proven to be very useful to our readers and they come back regularly to keep abreast of the latest developments. While the subject remains an important subject, it’s always an added bonus when you can be enlightened, and even amused by being shown the other side of the issue. Some things are not always what they seem. Read on for more insight.The article below about the subject has received a lot of interest, more than any other on our site. We believe it’s because it pulls no punches. Yet, while it’s an important issue, it’s not all doom and gloom, there is another point of view that some find quite unorthodox, but workable.

This is a loose translation of what the bible says.

When we look at ourselves and our lives, this is a nonsensical statement: we don’t feel perfect after our kind, we feel flawed, our lives don’t work, or at least not the way we want it, our bodies don’t work the way we envision perfection.

So what’s up with that statement? How can it be true and so wrong at the same time?

Let’s look at what’s going on through an analogy.

Let’s look at human being through the analogy of a computer system.

A computer system is made up of several basic elements, these are:

the hardware: your body, your physiology
the operating software: the desire to feed itself, to eliminate, to procreate, and to cause life to be bigger, better, and satisfying.
task specific software
input aka data: what you do and what you say
output: the quality of your life

Our computer’s hardware is perfect after its kind. Proof? Human beings are still around after so many centuries. And they are getting better and better.

The base operating system is perfect after its kind, just like Windows is perfect for a PC, and Mac operating system is perfect for a Macintosh. It runs the machine perfectly, to produce the desired output.

The bridge between a perfect computer and the desired output is the task specific software and the input.

Let’s look at these, because these two are where the cause of our life’s failings can be found.

The whole computer exists for one reason, and that is to give you the perfect output, i.e. the perfect life. But…

The whole system has a ground rule: the operator has free will about installing task specific software, and allowing or entering input.

The input comes through the keyboard, or nowadays, through the internet.

If you look, the analogy is really great, because there is your own speaking, the keyboard, and there is the cultural conversation, the internet. I’ll include your parents, your family, your teachers, media under the umbrella of internet, because it makes it easier to see.

Who decides what gets downloaded onto your computer is you. And unfortunately you don’t see the big picture, because your eyes are not high enough, your perception is clouded, and therefore your decisions are faulty.

There is something wrong here

One of the results of that is a download that you got on your computer at an early age is: “there is something wrong here”
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Who Were My Teachers in Transformation and Mindset… ?

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Well, this could be a real long article, even a book. I won’t go there… writing a book is way too long for my ADHD personality. But there is one teacher, who I admire, Colin Wilson (of “Outsider” and “ The Mind Parasites ” fame, who wrote a book, “ The Books In My Life ” where he strung about 15 essays into a book, and I learned more from the writers he speaks of than I would have learned, had I read the original books. So this is definitely a worthwhile endeavor, and I’ll see if I can do something on a much smaller scale. (Colin Wilson wrote 84 books in a short 30 years… I have written articles that would fill one book… Now you have it.) Anyway, one of my teachers is Colin Wilson himself, another one is Robert Fritz . I was also in Landmark Education for 20 years, the Kabbalah Centre for almost 5 years, T. Harv Eker for the past 3 years, Pam Ragland for the past year… To be continued… ADHD kicked in… I’ve got to go 🙂 But before I go… who were the teachers that you would like to share?

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Reality: collective hunch at best

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There is a reality out there… most likely. but what it is? who knows… Our filter or translator between reality and our mind is words. What we can’t put words around, we can’t see. The natives could not see the Santa Maria because they didn’t have a word for sails, or big ship… they had word for ripple in the ocean, but it didn’t translate to potential enemies landing and slaughtering them… The original IQ test measured largely our capacity to mirror the world with words. Even the logical tests can only be done if and when someone has a concept of triangles, or sequential numbers… all words. What happens when your vocabulary is tiny, and you use a word that you have but isn’t the correct word to express what others see… you end up with a picture of reality that leaves you vulnerable, alone, isolated, and incapable of living in society. Seriously abused children, when they grow up, become like this: always ready to be hurt. If, by the grace of God, they manage to re-learn reality by adding new words and connecting them to what they see differently, they can integrate into society and can be very successful and very useful for others. Most people learn their language from healthy, well-adjusted people, and thus don’t have to go through this upgrade, but many do. If your history included being unloved, unwanted, you may have associated yourself with garbage… I myself called myself disposable, and throw-away, but luckily not garbage. Healthy thinking includes: one man’s garbage is another’s treasure: and there you have it, you have options, even if you thought you are garbage: you can become another’s treasure, so garbage is not a definitive term for useless, it is a relative term. One of the most important things a person can do, is increase one’s vocabulary by consciously reading. Not just the dialogue, especially not the dialogue, the thoughts, the descriptions, the associations. The richer your vocabulary the easier you can unplug unhealthy and limited meanings, and can more successfully maneuver in the “real” world. You’ll notice that I give you a lot of writing assignments. This is the reason. Your vocabulary, your richness of expression limits who you can be. Limits who you can successfully influence. Limits your life. Living in a foreign country with a native is not very helpful. Make sure you create your own microcosm by reading, reading, reading. Good literature. Good non-fiction. Read to create new pathways in your mind. Read to create a new future for yourself.

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Do You Think You Can Tell WHAT You See?

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Most of us are sure we can. We make decisions based on what we see, and our decisions and actions take us to live the life we live. Most of us live a life of quiet desperation. It was true at the turn of the last century, and it is true now. There was a discipline and coaching paradigm I studied and used about 9 years ago. It is based on axiology , the Nobel Prize nominated work of Robert Hartman. Axiology is the study of value or quality. It is the science that deals with what is good and what is not. Beyond and independent of subjective judgment. The test ( Value Profile ) we ran in axiology had 4 parameters by which we could map out the potential for success of any individual. One of them relates to the title. The parameter is called “clarity”. We all think we are clear. Yet we can be a lot less than clear if our life is not a symphony and a victory of the human power and spirit. (Got it? That means you and me and even many of the so called demi-gods of our times.) Clarity is the relationship between your view and reality (like a percentage) or how well what you see and what you think you see overlap. I like to use an analogy from my publishing/printing background: In order to print a continuous tone, like a photograph, you need to break up the original to dots. The measure is called dot per inch, which means how many dots, each direction, you can print on a paper without the dots touching each other and therefore causing a blotch instead of a clear picture. Newsprint paper is porous, so the density of of dots on that type of paper is maximum 75 dots per inch. Semi glossy magazines and brochures are printed at about 105-120 dots per inch. Playboy is printed at 150 dots per inch. When you look at a newspaper picture, sometimes you are not sure if the person has a mole or just there is a shadow or maybe a blotch of ink where you thing the mole is. Glossy brochures are better, Playboy is really really really good. I use this dot per inch analogy to show that we normally see the world in certain level of clarity (dots per inch). In order to be clearer, one thing we can do, is to add dots where there are not dots. Another is to remove the blotches, that in clarity’s terms are the misconceptions: societal, familial, or personal. Adding dots is a simple learning process coupled with friends of colleagues that can help you with. (Critiquing is an important tool, though most people hate it… sorry to say.) Removing blotches is harder, and this is my specialty. Distinctions are the major tool for tha. Distinctions are those invisible things that once they become visible, lots of blotches disappear. Read my other posts an sites on that or And come back for more… I am the Distinctions Queen, so all my posts will take you deeper into this rabbit hole.

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Internet Marketing Beginnings

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I had an inspiration this morning: I woke up early. I made myself a cup of tea, went back to bed, and read a little. About an hour later I woke up from a dream of writing THIS article. Here it is, just the way it came to me in my dream: Each great thing that was ever built started with something that had the greatness, as a potential only. Most didn’t look like the start of something great. Many times it was a comedy of errors and their correction that took someone to something big. But, you say, we are always told to create with the big picture in mind… Oh yes, that one. I know that well. The misunderstanding of that notion has robbed me of many successes… The misunderstanding of that principle has rendered me undecisive, unresponsive, tentative, or jumping from one sure thing to another. Imagine if the tree thought that every seed it is producing must become a big tree… it would be so afraid of living, it would start to shrink and refuse to go to seed. The prospect of so many wasted seeds would kill the tree’s aliveness and creativity. No, greatness is a potential, dormant in every little seed, and with enough great little seeds produced, one of them may become a big tree… Let’s look at MY story. Back in 1988 I found myself unemployed from architecture, and unemployable at the same time… don’t ask me why, I won’t tell. I was spending quite a few months depressed, going to self help programs, 12-step, Werner Erhard and Associates, etc. … barely having 3-day worth of work a month to live on. I couldn’t think of anything to do… I was too entrenched in being an architect. At some point, I did an exercise from the “What Color Is Your Parachute” and found that what I wanted to do, that caused me pleasure, is “put ink on paper and communicate.” I took it literally at the time, and thought advertising or publishing. I didn’t know much of either. I went and apprenticed (free) with a small printer for a while, and learned some stuff, bought a letter press with some letters, wrote advertising in mail order magazines… to sell some pyramid schemes… and then when I really needed some money to earn, I wrote a letter to the two throw-away magazines in my area, asking if they had a job opening for publisher’s apprentice. One of them called and said that such a job didn’t exist but I could start selling advertising. No “draw” (salary), only commission. Does that put me closer to publishing, I asked, and the guy said yes. I took the job. I was trained by another salesperson. We visited a few stores in my town–typical advertisers in that paper. We sold 5 small ads that day. I say “we”, but I think it was her. That day completed my training. Next day I walked back to the business area of my little town, and found that by the time I got there, the training salesperson had driven there and sold them, or attempted to. I had no wheels, and soon I had no hope. I called the other magazine, and bragged that I had sold 7 ads my first week for their competitor… they were impressed. They gave me a 200 dollar advance, and a beat up car with a gas card. I worked my butt off, sold ads, delivered magazines, partook in every office meeting, went to the printer, went to the typesetter, collected monies… two months later, I was put in charge of designing the ads and laying out the magazine. Two more months later I was offered a partnership in the magazine. Still, my best week I made $400… I didn’t have many good weeks. I worked 20 hours a day 7 days a week… I was bossy, I was certain, I was “dynamic”, I was disrespectful… 5 months later I was offered the choice to resign, or… blackmail. I resigned. No-brainer. That same evening I called all the advertisers in my care, the typesetting company and the printer with the same question: Would you take a chance on me for one issue? They all said yes, so next day there was a brand new magazine born, printed and delivered. I made money with the first issue, and with every issue thereafter. More than $400 a week. 🙂 That magazine, through the time, became 90-thousand circulation strong, and I published it for 11 years. Now, there are two lessons in this story: 1. I first looked what it is that I love so much that I would do it for free (putting ink on paper and communicate) and 2. I was willing to fumble through phases that didn’t seem to go anywhere, and I was rewarded through small corrective steps, with a business I loved. When I watch internet marketing, I see many thousands who never get started. They got attracted to the visions of greatness (millions of dollars) but are unable or unwilling to start where one needs to start in fear of starting at the wrong place. I have had coaching clients that were so afraid of making the wrong move, that they never got started… that is until I made them do stuff… I have had coaching clients that wanted to do internet marketing, but hated every aspect of it… and sucked at it too… of course. I have had coaching clients that thought that without any skills they can make millions and they never actually learned anything… Remember, childhood was to learn skills, without the significance. At least in most countries… of course, in the US kids must perform early on, sports are not skill builders, but opportunities to be big… which teaches us early on that we were supposed to be born with the skills we need, and if we weren’t, then we are doomed. The same applies in business. You need to play first in the sandbox, and build some easy structures, without the significance. Write an article here, a blogpost there, a salesletter here, make a video there, copy and rewrite an ebook, just to practice the structure… Just to get a feel what you like to do. What you are good at. Every guru you meet started that way. My current favorite, Eben Pagan, wrote an ebook, full of typos, and that’s how he started his now 20 million dollars a year empire, 7 years ago. He wrote about something he knew something about: seduction. Something that he was personally very interested in… he desperately wanted companionship… He has made it big. With a topic like that. He learned as he went. He had mentors, teachers, mastermind partners every step of the way. It wasn’t a straight path… not in the least. You can do it too. Just start getting that every tree came from a seed sometimes as tiny as a pinhead, and then grew. It went through the phases… It didn’t come out a tree at once. It was a seedling for a long time.

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Failure? Consider instead: It doesn’t hit the mark

If you wanted to hit a target with a gun, what would you do? You probably keep on shooting at it until you hit it… If you were more sophisticated, then you would make sure you track in which direction you missed it… left, right, down or up. The next shot would be to compensate for the miss… and then after a little while of compensation you would be able to hit the target, reliably, and every time. What happens if you react to your first miss because someone says… “that’s garbage” by becoming depressed, withdrawn, giving up, sulking… however you react other than starting to bracket to find the target with your bullet. Game is over. Right? Or maybe you are going to do this with another target, miss it, go into the reaction, maybe try a third target… and the story goes on and on. I want you to be sophisticated, and consider, that no matter what anyone says, missing the target is just that: Missing the target. which should be your clue of starting the process of bracketing, compensating, until you get it right. You may have to do this with anything new you do, but there are only so many new things… and before you know it, you’ll be successful.

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What do car thieves and computer hackers have in common

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I just read a very interesting article, that you want to read… Though it has nothing to do with the recent iframe hack, because it effected every style of site, not just wordpress blogs, the article has a lot of good points, and you want to read it… Trust me?

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What is "Natural Growth" and how to Accomplish it, Spiritually, and in Business

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Well, what comes after that because is what this article is about.

I was in Landmark Education for 20 years, and I went from seminar to seminar, from course to course, from training program to training program.

In the past three years I probably have done 20 programs, seminars, coaching programs… But only 3 in the past year. What happened?

Good question. I grew.

Very much the way you grow a muscle (especially if you are a body builder), one day you use/overuse a muscle, the next day you allow it to rest, and then do it again.

People that follow the pattern I followed for the 22 years leading up to this year, when I actually grew, actually NEVER grow. They use seminars as a way to avoid actually growing. I was guilty of this, myself. Secretly, in my heart, I knew that my parents were right, that no matter what I did, I would not amount to anything.

A year ago this all changed. I met this amazing woman, Pam Ragland, in a coaching program, where we were both students, ha-ha, how ironic. We struck up a conversation and she said that she can wipe away all my negative thoughts. I was desperate for my negative thougths to go away. Living with the pretense, that some day I was going to use all I learned… while that one day never came, was horrible.

I booked her for a private session, and from that one session I suddenly saw that maybe I was wrong, and maybe there is something I could do with my life. And, to my surprise, I found myself in action. That is when I saw how passionate I am about speakers’ success, and how much I would like to teach speakers to be effective at this craft.

Later I enrolled in Pam’s eight-month program that teaches how to drive this new me, that is now a Ferrari instead of a jalope.

I never doubted again that I can do it. I stopped going to seminars, I even cancelled two seminars I fully paid for. I am working, but I am working purposefully. Much like I used to work on a puzzle when I had the box showing the finished picture… fully knowing that all the pieces are there, and it only takes time to put it all together.

I can tell you, a dream life begins with that box cover… and that certainty. Some people can see it themselves, some people are lucky: some committed coach sees it for them. I am that kind of coach. I have never had a client that did not accomplish what I saw possible for them (boxcover).

Are you still going to all the seminars, reading all the books, buying all the programs, but the results you can show for all that learning are meager to say the least?

The natural way to grow, is to grow in spurts, and then consolidate. Grow intensely, and then harvest the benefits (use the knowledge) until the growth almost starts to slow down. The start it all over again.

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Are You A Knucklehead?

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The information that follows is one way to look at this information, and after reading the article you are free to form your own opinion. Whether or not you agree with the subject matter is up to you, and you are certainly free to make up your own mind about the material presented here.If you would like to know more about the subject – then you will want to read this article. It includes plenty of information about this subject that is sure to help you better understand the ins and outs that seem to confuse most people. It really does not have to be difficult to understand.

The information that follows is one way to look at this information, and after reading the article you are free to form your own opinion. Whether or not you agree with the subject matter is up to you, and you are certainly free to make up your own mind about the material presented here.Hey, when you are being a knucklehead… does it mean, you ARE a knucklehead? Or you are just doing the only exercise most people do: jumping into conclusions.

Listen if you can recognize yourself in these stories:

A lot of my clients find themselves in a trap…

For example, they make a mistake. They are frustrated. Or they are scared. Or they are angry. Or they are devastated. Even suicidal.

They say to themselves: Here I go again!… I am never going to get it right! I better give up while I am ahead! I am stupid! I am a loser! and on and on and on I could go with the examples how people abuse themselves.

Other times someone compliments them, and their ego swells, and they feel that they are good looking, a winner, well liked, smart, even brilliant.

Often, someone else makes a mistake, and they decide that the other person is no good, and isn’t worth investing their time into whatever they were doing together.

Parents do this to their kids all the time. My parents did it to me too…

I was dyslexic and I was near sighted… Reading was not my strong suit, in fact I didn’t really learn to read until I was about 9 years old. I figured out a method of stabilize my head, block out the peripheral vision, and then, and only then, I could read… if I was calm enough, if no one was watching, etc.

Until this day, my knee jerk reaction, to everything, is smart/stupid. I am not alone, right?Eight years ago I had a health issue and I had to be operated on. I had no money, no insurance, so a doctor operated on me as a favor to his friend who was my client.The operation didn’t go too well, and I came out of it with serious vertigo, and as it turned out later, a massive drop in my I.Q. I call it brain damage, though it was never diagnosed, because I wowed never set foot in a doctor’s office again.

Some intellectual functions were untouched, but basic survival functions were seriously limited. I could not figure out simple things, what to do first, and what to do second, I could not combine change to pay for the toll on the highway, it was bad.

I could drive. And one day my truck broke down and luckily I wasn’t alone. We called AAA and a tow truck came to pick us up.

The truck driver, a good looking lad around 30, was obviously retarded. Happy, talkative, but a simpleton.

I asked how he managed to be so happy. He said: when made mistakes as a child, his mother never called him names, simply said: “You just made an error in judgment.” So he never told himself that he was stupid, or he couldn’t, or any of the crap we tell ourselves… he grew up a happy man, useful in the world, fairly successful as well. Nowadays making a living is success in and of itself. Coupled with happiness: a big success.

I found his story very inspiring. I remembered that I used to be smart, and I set out to come back to that. It took me 4 years, and today I am as smart as I used to be.

So what is the point, you ask?

If and when you can tell apart who you are (an unlimited being in physical form) and who you are being in the moment (even if that moment is a long one!) then you can easily return to who you really are, smart, powerful, generous, kind, loving… and won’t be trapped by your own judgment of you.

Do you have a story to tell? Please don’t hesitate to tell us in the comment form. We would all like to learn from story.

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Did Your Personality Get Put Together vs. You Were Born That Way?

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We provide detailed resources like photos, articles, videos and links that may be of good use for those who want to make a more detailed study about it.I got a thank you note today.

Your Personality: your code of behavior put together

This note reads

Today was a huge success. I did not even recognize myself. I was attempting to have a conversation with my sister when she became extremely aggressive upon trying to control me and failing. She was in my face yelling and pacing around in circles. I remained calm and did not attempt to defend myself as the lies flew at me. I was able to stick to the subject and not accuse. At this point her husband jumped in and tried to intimidate me, pointing his finger in my face and yelling. They both looked like mad men ganging up on me. I did not raise my voice or get emotional. This is the first time in my life I had no fear in a confrontational situation and it felt GREAT! To be honest I think it frightened my sister & her husband. They did not know what to think of me, I have had many weaknesses in the past but now I am strong.

This person, let’s call her Josephine (not her real name) was given up for adoption at an early age. A loving couple with two children over 10, adopted her.

The birth children never accepted her as a real sister. That shaped her personality.

In her mind, in her thinking, in her words, she was abandoned by her mother. She put together a strategy of being meek, never speaking up for herself, always seeking approval, taking care of everyone, etc. to prevent the “inevitable”, being put out, cast out, not wanted…

She is a bright and sprightly 50 year old today, alas with children that disapprove of her, with a nasty divorce behind her. The ex never paid a dime child support. You see personality: willing to be abused, disapproved of, worthless, right?

She could have continued living this movie, except the soul has been banging, nudging her, so she decided to become her own person.

She got “thought shifted” by Pam Ragland and started to work with me.

We started with her automatic statement of “being abandoned by the mother” and changed it to “her mother loved her so much she wanted her to have a better life she herself could provide her”.

We did not stop there (most methodologies do!) and started to “build legs” to this (we create actions and behaviors and attitudes consistent with that new being, so that it can become a sequel to one’s movie, unlike the original script).

The purpose is that this new idea can have a life of its own, independent of her saying so. A rounded “being”, with matching look, feel, actions, attitudes, and history. A personality has all that!

So we went, and created new ways of being, new attitudes and new behaviors in different, specific to her, situations. Ways of being, attitudes, and behaviors that are “informed by” and based upon this new story, that she had a loving mother who wanted the best for her, and she was indeed lucky, her new parents loved her dearly.

We invented a new way to behave when her children chided her for her view of the world. Instead of choosing to be wrong, or making them wrong for thinking differently, she learned to say simply: “I understand you have a different point of view from mine. That does not make you wrong, or doesn’t make you right. We just have a different point of view”

We invented a new way to behave with her siblings, especially her sister. Earlier this year their mother died and left a large inheritance equally distributed among the three children, natural or adopted. The natural daughter is refusing to release Josephine’s inheritance. She is feverishly trying to spend the money to not have to give any money to the adopted one.

The note said it better than I could ever say: Josephine stood up to her sister and brother in law, and will do whatever she needs to do to get the money her parents left for her.

Inconsistent with the early story? You betcha! That is the point! Create a new personality and have your future be by your choosing.

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