Without integrity you can’t communicate…
You can talk, but your word has no power. It doesn’t get things done.
Communication is making things happen… making what you intend to happen happen.
Communication is having people want to do what you want them to do. Anything less is not communication. It is merely talking.
Read the original article: If you have low integrity, your communication has no power
Sometimes having someone to talk to, someone who can listen, instead of trying to solve your problems, is the best thing that can happen to you.
But there are things that are hard to share.
And then, if you are the one who is supposed to be there for others, no one expects you to have problems, or to be there for you. You are alone, and that is that.
All my life I have been the strong one, and no one ever expected me to need them to listen to me. So when I needed someone to listen, I had to pay them. It’s expensive. And now I don’t even trust anyone to just listen… so it’s tough.
Read the original article: I have been having suicidal thoughts… What does the echo say?
Can the much maligned ego be the answer to your prayers? Praying to get unstuck?
Ego is a strong driving force… if it is encouraged to be so.
It is also a strong anchoring force.
Read the original article: Is the Ego a friend or a foe? Let’s look!
You are born with potentials but no skills. Even breathing is a skill you need to learn.
Skills are the atoms of actions. Each action, like a molecule is built of atoms, each activity is made of parts that we call skills. Some actions are complex, others are quite simple… mirroring the diversity of the physical reality.
Atoms are building blocks… If you don’t have atoms, you can’t build anything… If you don’t have skills you can’t build actions. No actions… no success… And no good life.
No food, no money, no paper, no house, no life…
And yet… you are trying to build a life without the building blocks… because… Yeah, why?
Why you don’t have many skills? Why don’t you get busy developing skills… gathering skills? Why don’t you fill your ingredient box, your pantry, your tool box with what you may need for the good life?
Why are you waiting for opportunities to start learning anything? Why are you looking for your life’s purpose before you’d do anything?
Because you think it is a waste of time to dig a well, unless you are already thirsty.
I could say that this is true about every person I encounter online, but I would be lying. I have met so far 10 people for whom it wasn’t true… 10 out of thousands.
So what is underneath this attitude?
Read the original article: I don’t think you understand how humans are ‘designed’!
I am afraid of ridicule. I am afraid of being thrown out. I am afraid of being called a witch.
Yup, fear is normal. You, me, would not have survived without fear.
I am also afraid of bugs. Of mice. Of a lot of things.
The question is: am I going to honor that fear as my “Higher power” or am I going to honor something else?
Read the original article: Yup, I am afraid, too
When I say ‘feeling’, I often include the other perception organs…
The most obviously not ‘mind’ feeling is the physical sensation of pressure, heat, blockage, itches, tickles, nausea, headaches, pain, burning sensation, orgasm, warmth, butterflies in your stomach. When I say ‘feeling’, I don’t mean emotion, even though emotions have feeling-components. For example all 48 Bach Feelings feel in a certain way in a certain part of the body.
But what I mean: the uninterpreted raw sensation, that either comes from the outside or from the body itself.
Read the original article: Feel your way out of the Matrix, out of the limbo
No Matter Where You Start, No Matter Which Direction, As Long As You Start, And As Long As You Stay Connected
I will start with an admission: Staying connected is not easy.
Life steals away your attention. You are tired. You are hungry. You have to pee.
Your car isn’t starting. You are worried. You are angry. You are sad.
So no wonder, that even I, who teach people to connect, get disconnected, hopelessly, from time to time.
Read the original article: Start Something. No Matter Where You Start, No Matter Which Direction, As Long As You Start, And As Long As You Stay Connected
As I am working to strengthen the integrity of my site (slow going and a lot of mundane work) I re-read some of my earlier articles, and I am amazed how good they are.
I wish I could just take a metaphorical funnel and pour them all in your brain… But…
You probably would not be able to use any of it.
Anything you don’t earn, or you don’t feel your earned will be rejected by your higher self…
At some period in my life I wrote articles about strippers and strip clubs, and was stupefied by the strippers’ behavior. They earned their money in a way that their higher self did not condone, so they had to get rid of all their money, and fast.
Some, where this inner conflict didn’t exist, invested their money and became rich.
Life, money, success, failure is how you look at it.
This is what this article is about…
Read the original article: Success? Failure? The difference between success and failure: it’s how you look at it.
Do you ever wonder how life would have turned out, had you made different decisions? Different choices?
The other day I didn’t feel like working at all… so I watched two movies in a row.
Both were interesting, but the one… about choices, made a deep imprint on me, and made me look at this issue: choices.
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There are two planes where existence can be experienced: the horizontal plane and the vertical plane.
They are not different places, they are different dimensions of the same thing, different ways to look at them, from different places in reality. Continue reading