This article’s purpose is to widen your understanding of value… so you can start valuing yourself, at last .
The current state of this area: deciding on your value is abysmal… and keeps you anxious, worried, and not happy.
You always think that your understanding is the correct understanding of reality.
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Your vibration is an accurate snapshot of where you are on the vibrational scale today .
Your guru, your spouse, your boss… or yourself could jump to a whole new level of vibration even without any spiritu
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As you probably don’t know, judgment comes from ego, from comparison. I am smart and you are stupid… that is judgment.
You are stupid isn’t judgment unless you feel something in your chest or throat as you say it. Unless it means something about you.
I feel nothing, or maybe sadness, when I ask these assessment question… that help me make sense out of the convoluted picture each person is.
So I measure your vibration… and it’s, for example, low.
Posted on June 2, 2016 by University
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Why is rape so traumatic, while sex is so commonplace?
Why is slave labor so traumatic, while working is so natural to us.
If you have ever been pinned down, not able to free yourself…
…your trust of life, your trust in people, your confidence has dealt a big blow.
Recovering is not guaranteed, and the wound can be torn open again quite easily.
Posted on May 25, 2016 by University
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ONCE, WHEN THE HASIDIM WERE SEATED TOGETHER
HE WAS SURPRISED AT THE QUESTION,
BUT THEN HE WENT ON TO TELL THEM THIS STORY..
SINCE HE LOVED THEM THE KING WANTED TO SHOW THEM MERCY,
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Needing it
I have a student whose company moves earth. That is their business. Parking lots, roads, leveling the ground.
Unless you have a clear picture, a clear and accurate mental representation of what a job entails, you can’t bid successfully on it: you may lose your shirt if your mental representation was off. ((The doctor’s mental representation of the state of my injured ear was neither clear nor accurate, and therefore his suggestions to me were way off the mark. This was the topic of my article yesterday …))
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I loved the book ‘Peak, the new science of expertise’, until almost the very end. Then I got angry.
Somewhere around 90% of the book I noticed that he uses an expression, a phrase, that means something to him, the author, but meant nothing to me.
Now I know how you feel when you read my articles…
The expression he used was “Mental Representation “.
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I didn’t know. But “god” works in mysterious ways, the book I am reading has an answer that shows me what has been missing for me on Sunday and all my life.
The book, Peak, the new science of expertise, calls it Mental Representation.
Mental Representation is being able to see the finished product in your mind’s eye, and also see the process getting there, so you can anticipate missteps, and can correct, given that you
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Huh?
So I went back in my memory to different stages of my business, or the different businesses I had. And lo and behold, I found something totally freaky: I was happiest when I had at least one person cooperating with me in my business. Even if the cooperation was minor, and we didn’t interact much. Just knowing
Posted on May 2, 2016 by University
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What no one seems to consider, that the saying “how you do anything is how you do everything” is more of a reason than you would consider.
One of them shows up an awful lot on my site: assuming to know. That is a how … falsely certain.
Falsely certain about what?
You are sure yo
Posted on April 30, 2016 by University
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How do you decide if you have value or not?
…it doesn’t mean that they are a bad person. Or that vibration, that future is set in stone…
I am going to share, in this article, some of the judgmental sounding questions I ask when I try to get a full picture about someone who is asking for help.
In this series of Osho talks he examines stories from different ancient cultures. This is an excellent companion to what I teach. Enjoy!
Mental Representation… an incredibly useful distinction and an incredibly rare capacity
I lead a workshop on Sunday. I had knowledge, I had strategy. I executed it. It was sloppy. What was missing?
As you may know, I am doing my second round of the 67 steps. In step 13 Tai says something like this: if you are not happy, don’t throw everything away. It is possible that the unhappiness is due to a mismatch of your current lifestyle with your social needs…
When Tai asks you, what is in the way of you growing, and starting to live the good life, most people have a ready answer. An answer they are sure is true. And an answer that they had seen a million times.