Cognitive biases, blind spots, a sticky point and a “remedy”

We are all born seeing ourselves as the center of the world. We don’t know we are the center of our world… we just don’t know there is any other vantage point to look from.

Most of us never learn it.

Like one of my students: every time I recommend anything, she answers: “I agree…”

She hasn’t crossed that threshold, that divide between infant and even toddler… absolutely and completely ignorant to the fact that using the personal vantage point is ineffective, because it is delusional.

This is also true if and when you can see that other people see things differently from how you see them, but your view is accurate and theirs is inaccurate.

Same delusional,

Self trust… a linchpin capacity… or how do you develop yourself to be able to move forward?

Many of my coaching students are at a crucial point in their lives where unless something happens, they probably won’t move forward.

Fear, unclarity, self-centeredness, belligerence…

The main attitude is different. Not one person resembles another in what seems to block their path.

It’s the coach’s brilliance, creativity, insight that will either make a difference or not. What is clear is this: unless someone or something helps them through… they will stay this side of the great barrier.

Great responsibility, but I am up for it.

What is the capacity I need to be OK with this responsibility? It is self-trust. Self trust says: I can dea

Posted on August 26, 2016 by University in Evolution Modalities | Tagged 67 steps, ability, accident, action, actions, activate, article, attitude, avoidance, being, being stuck, belligerence, benefits, biggest barrier, blind, body, boundaries, boundary, Brilliance, bring, calm down, capacities, capacity, care, case, cause, choose, circumstances, clear, coach, coaches, coaching, coaching program, coherence, coherent, collapse, correction, Courage, creativity, darkness, deal, deep well, depending, disaster, energy, example, eyes, face, famous, fast, fear, fire, fly, glasses, growth, happy, harmony, head, health, help, humanity, hunch, hunger, idea, image, Imagination, inconvenience, insight, integrity, intelligent, it, lack, leaves, life, linchpin, lives, living, lol, losing, lost, making, matter, meaning, mentor, mistake, mistakes, Money, nature, negative, no matter what, number, original, original article, pain, path, people, person, play, point, positive, positive thinking, potential, preparation, principles, program, promised, relationships, responsibility, results, right, risk, root, rose, seeing, self, sense, should, sick, sight, situation, soul, soul correction, spite, spouse, state, steps, stone, stuck, students, stuff, the self, thinking, thought, time, tools, trained, training, trust, trying, unless, vantage point, willing, wings, work, world, wrong, you don't know, your soul, your soul correction | Leave a comment

How do you see yourself? how accurate is your self-image?

The inner view and the outer view of who you are are vastly different. Your chances for success, love, happiness depend on the accuracy of your self-image. ((self-im·age
noun
noun: self-image; plural noun: self-images

the idea one has of one’s abilities, appearance, and personality.
“sickness is an affront to one’s self-image and dignity”))

Do you know that people see you differently than you see yourself? And both you and other people see you differently than you actually are.

You may see yourself worse or better or just plain different than you really are… and so do others.

Your life would work better if the two views were closer. You’d h

Posted on August 20, 2016 by University in Raise Your Vibration | Tagged accurate, actions, air, answer, argue, article, attitude, awareness, ball, behavior, being, beingness, big picture, bigger picture, black, blind, body, books, boss, calls, capacities, capacity, chances, change, circumstances, coach, coaching, coaching program, colleagues, connecting, connecting to source, constant, contribution, control, conversation, conversations, dance, day, demeanor, desert, Dignity, distance, download, eating, economy, emotions, expression, eyeballs, eyes, face, free, freedom, friends, fun, genome, glimpse, goals, good life, growing, Happiness, harmony, healthy, high, history, home, humans, hung, idea, illusion, image, inside, interesting, it, job, jobs, keep, kind, life, Likely, living, lost, love, manner, Matrix, Matrix movie, matter, matters, mean, meaning, mind, mirror, mother, movie, my teachers, night, observer, one thing, original, original article, outward, pdf, people, perfect, person, personality, picture, pictures, plural noun, point, practice, present, procrastination, program, reading, reality, relationship, relief, resistance, right, rules, sake, school, seeing, self, sense, should, sight, sleep, smoking, source, spiritual, spiritual capacities, spiritual capacity, spouse, Start Living, statement, status, status quo, step, step out of the mind, steps, stock, story, strings, students, stuff, success, sync, teachers, the big picture, the good life, the observer, the self, things, thinking, thoughts, time, trying, understanding, unless, Useless, version, videos, view, views, Wanting, water, werner, werner erhard, winner, work, working, world, Worse, wrong, you don't know | Leave a comment

There is laziness and then there is lazy-ness. Is lazy learned helplessness?

This laziness thing came up again today.

During shopping. Is a fruit bowl worth the extra $3? It was 9.95, and it’s now 12.95… she says, and I have no idea how to answer. She has no idea what the weight of the fruit is, what the fruit would cost if you bought it and chopped it up yourself.

Just the question, out of context… is it worth it?

So what the heck is really this phenomenon: lazy, that is not lazy at all… but what is it really, if it is not actually lazy?

Download the pdf version of this article at the end of the article

The problem with language, any language, is this: words don’t mean the

Posted on August 9, 2016 by University in Evolution Modalities | Tagged ACT, action, alone, answers, being, big difference, blind, Brain, brains, Brave New World, change, circumstances, coach, component, context, correction, cost, Daniel, Dyslexia, effects, effort, english, Enthusiasm, filter, flowers, food, force, god, group, groups, guy, Happiness, hardest thing, head, health, human, human being, humanity, humility, immersion, important thing, issue, jesus, Knowledge, landmark, language, lazy, machine, mass, mathematics, meaning, mercy, opinion, parts, path, percent, perception, permission, phenomenon, planet, power, PPS, prepare, problem, problem with, process, questions, reason, reasons, relationship, results, root, rule, rush, satisfaction, savior, science, scratch, selfish, sense, solution, soul, soul correction, sounds, source, spite, stuck, stupid, supplements, Thank, the problem, thinking about, to.learn, tree, University, view, water, weight, werner erhard, words, work, world view, you don't know, zombies | Leave a comment

Knowledge is power… but not all knowledge

People want to become the person they are in their dreams…

They are not that way… obviously.

Becoming that person is like being a Michelangelo at the stone quarry looking at a block of marble and seeing if the sculpture they see with their mind’s eye fits it.

If it doesn’t fit, you need a bigger block of marble.

But no matter how big a block you choose, it will take two kinds of work to get to the David of your imagination: the work of awareness and the work of chiseling.

Chiseling is the easy part… honestly. I bet you thought that was the hard part.

Posted on August 7, 2016 by University in Evolution Modalities | Tagged actions, alone, anger, astuteness, attitudes, awakening, aware, awareness, being, blind, Brain, case, child, choose, coach, corner, correction, david, desert, development, distinctions, dreams, emotions, Feelings, human, human being, hungry, Imagination, journey, language, light, main difference, methodology, pattern, perfect, phenomenon, present, process, seeing, sounds, starting point, steps, stone, study, teaching, the light, universe, unknown, urge, water, word, work | Leave a comment

You can’t fix being human

You can’t fix being human

..that is one of the disappointing things you learn when you do work with me. I won’t feed you balooney like “you are a spiritual being having a human experience…” and other garden variety horse manure.

The other half-sentence is just as disappointing: “you can’t get out of this life alive…”

These two half-sentences address 70% of the popular delusions of humanity.

When you internalize these truly, when you start to be energized by them then your vibration will jump 50 points or more.

Download the pdf version of this article at the end of the article

Posted on July 29, 2016 by University in Raise Your Vibration | Tagged acceptance, accurate, ACT, acting, action, activation, activator, alive, altruism, anger, area, areas, article, attachments, attitude, balance, behavior, being, believe, birth, blind, boy friend, Brain, bring, capacities, care, cell, cell hydration, center, central, chances, change, charge, cheating, choice, choices, choose, choosing, clarity, classes, coaching, coherence, comedy, commands, communication, connecting, consequences, correction, current, date, day, deal, death, degree, delusions, denial, depression, diet, ditto, divine, doom, download, drama, email, energized, example, eyes, face, facebook, fast, father, favor, feeling, fix, food, forum leader, frame, fraud, friend, friends, Fulfillment, fun, game, genetic, gods, gold, good life, greed, grief, grieving, gurus, hand, Happiness, health, help, higher self, hope, hopes, horse, hospital, human, humanity, humans, hungary, idea, ideas, income, inner workings, intellect, intelligence, IQ, it, job, kitten, landmark, Landmark Forum, leader, learning, level, lie, life, link, list, Little Bit, living, lol, long time, lost, loved, lover, lower, machine, Magical, mean, method, mind, mirror, miserable, mother, nature, number, numbers don, original, original article, participant, participants, past, path, patterns, paypal, pdf, people, person, personal, picture, planning, play, point, point of view, power, powers, practice, pretense, problem, process, procreation, psychodrama, questions, rackets, real, reality, remedy, remember, responsibility, running, sake, seeing, self, self-improvement | vibration, self-interest, senses, sentence, sentences, sick, sleep, social, soul, soul correction, source, spiritual, spiritual being, spiritual capacities, step, stuck, students, stuff, suppression, survival, taking responsibility, teachers, test, the good life, the machine, things, Tiger, time, tools, toxins, turning point, unless, USA, variety, version, Vibration, view, voice, water, weight, willing, work, working, works, world, wrong, www.yourvibration.com, your machine, your soul, your soul correction, yourvibration, yourvibration.com | Leave a comment

For every complex problem there is an answer that is clear, simple, and wrong.

What I didn’t say in the last article about conscious awareness and discipline, is probably as important as what I did say.

Lots of people argue that your subconscious or your ego are more important than what you are aware of consciously, but that may not be true.

Your ego, your drive given to you by the genes and their selfish desire that is so often counter to your conscious desire: unless you know thine enemy, the enemy will always win.

Your decisions from the past that are now not in the conscious part of your brain: ditto. If you don’t know at least the most important decisions that have taken you to where you are… then they will continue to run the show, that is your life

Posted on July 16, 2016 by University in Raise Your Vibration | Tagged ability, abundance, action, activator, allow, allowing, ambition, answer, answers, area, argue, article, aspects, attention, attitude, avatar, avatar state activator, aware, awareness, background, behavior, being, blah blah blah, blind, Brain, bring, bummer, capacities, capacity, cause, choose, clear, conscious awareness, consciousness, control, correction, day, decisions, desire, development, discipline, ditto, domain, download, ego, energetic support, fact, faith, false, fighting, fix, force, forceful, forcing, free, gene, genetic, get better, growth, Guidance, gurus, Happiness, head, health, healthy, Heart, ideas, important thing, influence, it, keep, life, love, low vibration, management, mean, mind, moment, nation, natural, nature, Negativity, nothing to fix, nothing wrong, observation, original, original article, osho, past, pdf, Peace, peace of mind, people, point, potential, presence, problem, questions, quote, reality, reason, reasons, remember, respect, results, schizophrenia, self, self-development, self-improvement | vibration, selfish, sheep, sick, Simple, simple answer, solution, soul, soul correction, source, state, stress, subconscious, success, suppress, suppression, teachers, tendency, terms, test, time, tool, training, truth, unless, urge, values, version, Vibration, video, watch, work, world, wrong, you don't know | Leave a comment

The Juice Exercise: what gives you “juice” in life?

I have been coaching people for many years now. The goal was always to take people on a journey to become their best Self.

Now, the task is easier when someone knows who they are. When someone has a Self.

Most people don’t. They have a persona for each group they interact with, the family persona, the student persona, the friend, the gossiper, the entertainer, the this and the that.

Those personas (roles you play) are not you. They were created by a perceived demand in the circumstances, a perceived demand in the environment.

They leave you empty, they leave you being jerked by the

Posted on June 22, 2016 by University in Raise Your Vibration | Tagged alone, article, attraction, b.s, bad news, beautiful, being, blind, bring, bubble, capacity, cause, choose, circumstances, clinton, coaching, computers, control, conversation, craving, death, deathbed, degree, divine, eating, empath, energizing, Energizing Water, energy, enlightenment, environment, everybody, evolution, Exercise, expression, family, focus, food, free, friend, goal, group, growth, guide, healing, heaven, horizontal, human, hundreds, indigestion, Inquiry, instant, it, job, journey, juice, juice exercise, leave, life, lower, lower self, machine, matter, moment, news, original, original article, people, play, point, priorities, Puppet On A String, room, self, sense, sentence, should, shoulds, Simple, smart, societal, string, student, task, the self, tool, tool box, trump, truth, trying, understanding, vertical, vertical self, Wanting, watch, water, willing, work, working, world, wrong | Leave a comment

How do you decide if you have value or not?

How do you decide if you have value or not?

This article’s purpose is to widen your understanding of value… so you can start valuing yourself, at last.

The current state of this area: deciding on your value is abysmal… and keeps you anxious, worried, and not happy.

You always think that your understanding is the correct understanding of reality.

Posted on June 5, 2016 by University in Evolution Modalities | Tagged ability, actions, answer, answers, anxious, area, article, articles, attention, base, based, being, big picture, bigger picture, blind, body, bring, bunch, capacity, certainty, change, children, Comment, company, context, control, current, current state, day, default, different ways, doesn't work, download, Ease, education, email, evaluation, event, example, explained, fact, fame, feedback, focus, food, force, future, Grace, happier, happy, health, high, how much money, independent, intelligence, intelligent, it, landmark, landmark education, leader, leaders, leave, life, lives, making, making money, mean, medication, mercy, miracles, mobile, Money, movies, natural, opinion, opportunities, original, original article, participants, participation, pdf, people, person, picture, place, potions, pressure, public, purpose, question, questions, reality, reason, remember, results, right, sales, session, sick, state, story, students, stupid, teacher, teachings, the big picture, understanding, unless, vegetables, version, virus, water, work | Leave a comment

When something isn’t working consider that it’s because there is something that you don’t know.

When something isn’t working consider that it’s because there is something that you don’t know.

Whether the something that isn’t working is money, love, health, business, school… the answer is always “there is something you don’t know.”

The brilliance of this statement that turned a broke loser, a serial nebbich, Harv Eker into a multimillionaire T. Harv Eker. The brilliance is that because you don’t know what it is that you don’t know… you need to open yourself up to looking. At everything. And a lot… Expose yourself to seeing stuff. He did it, and he is now rich. This one sentence, this one stateme

Posted on May 24, 2016 by University in Evolution Modalities | Tagged advice, agenda, allow, answers, areas, aware, awareness, being, best way, blind, blind spot, Brilliance, business, challenge, chance, change, coaching, coaching program, consciousness, curiosity, degree, desert, expectation, experiment, eyes, Feelings, focus, force, fun, future, good news, hate, health, human, hunch, hundreds, long time, love, mistakes, mode, Money, potential, power, present, price, reality, regard, school, seeing, sentence, statement, step, stupid, success, t. harv eker, work, you don't know | Leave a comment

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Human Evolution Modalities

Cognitive biases, blind spots, a sticky point and a “remedy”

Self trust… a linchpin capacity… or how do you develop yourself to be able to move forward?

How do you see yourself? how accurate is your self-image?

Knowledge is power… but not all knowledge

For every complex problem there is an answer that is clear, simple, and wrong.

How do you decide if you have value or not?

When something isn’t working consider that it’s because there is something that you don’t know.