During the summer of 1966 I ran into a girl I knew from elementary school. Turns out she applied and was accepted to the same school I was going to start in that September.
We were having a chat. I remember thinking to myself: Compared to her I know everything… why am I going to school?
We both graduated. I am sure she still thinks she knows everything. My experience is that I know less and less as time goes by.
Whether you can identify with my 19 year old person, or my 69 year old person, and to what degree will be important, so jot it down.
I am getting a lot of requests to teach people how to become people who live a life worth living, who excel in all four areas, all four pillars of the good life.
My answer is almost always: Sorry I can’t help you.
But why?
Today I got lucky and got my answer in a pristine form.
My University classmate, Panni called me. We talk once a month. She is, of course an architect: we were classmates in architecture school, a five year study.
Everything you ever wanted is available to you, if…
… if you are willing to look at see what is so about you and your life.
The truth. Naked. Ugly. Often shameful.
Here is a correspondence I had with a client today:
She said: “I’m interested in changing my context since it’s part of what keeps me stuck.”
“… answering the questions: what am I doing? Why am I doing it?
Unless you have done the work of identifying what you have been doing, and why you have been doing it, no way you can shift the context. You cannot catch what you can’t see. And you cannot change what you can’t catch.”
To the degree you are able and willing to do that, to the same degree you can change your life. ((
For decades one of my sore spots was that people refused to serve me, even though I paid them.
I remember saying to myself: my money is not good enough for you? and wept.
I had no idea how I “accomplished” that… in 20/20 hindsight it is still a little spotty.
What wasn’t clear to me, never even occurred to me, how my attitude effected the service provider. My “To what degree you think of yourself:” starting point measure was, at the time, 70%. From my behavior I would have guessed it was higher.
Mainly I overrode what they said. I argued, I knew better, I acted with contempt…
What I didn’t know then is that being a service provider needs to be a win, or no service.
I get a number of applications to help people raise their vibration. And there are many people who offer this … many videos on youtube.
Whatever method of raising your vibration to pick, you will need to decide a couple of things beforehand.
Among the most important and most sobering steps is discovering what is your vibration when you start.
There are well-meaning individuals out there who will measure your vibration, whatever way they do it.
According to their measures you could be in the Unconditional Love zone …
But my experience with individuals is that their vibration is much more in the neighborhood of suffering, anger, and cockiness, than in the Unconditional Love zone …
It is, in my personal opinion, not helpful to know only your vibration value, people also refer to it as vibrational frequency.
Why is that? Simply because your one indicator won’t say a great deal.
This is a lot like if I wished to steer you to a healthier lifestyle, but all I would have is your shoe size.
If I truly intended to assist you, I ‘d get a whole lot more information, how big you are, etc. And then I ‘d know, or would be closer to know if I can assist you, and what way.
I am a True Empath.
What is a True Empath? A True Empath is unique. A True Empath can connect to any one thing or everything, accurately, and dependably, if there sufficient info.
This means that I can connect to you if I have, for example your photo.
How will I know I am connected? After a few seconds I experience myself in your shoes, and feel your sensations.
The number two reason it’s important to be able to connect to something accurately is this: unless I am connected to an unbiased third party who is all-knowing, I am only going to shoot in the dark.
So this is what occurs: I link to you. And then I connect to Source aka All-Knowledge. Now we are actually a triangle.
And then I ask questions. And All-Knowledge has a signal system with me, very similar to what applied kinesiology utilizes … with the difference that I am not using my own body to tell the truth, I am using my own body to receive the response from All-Knowledge.
I have a set of question, that I ask All-Knowledge about you, at the same time I am feeling your feelings.
Source’s feedbacks are yes, no, yes/no, or wrong question.
I term these 14 measurements your Starting Point Measurements.
They are a snap shot of you, vibrationally speaking.
The majority of the questions are about your attitude, your focal point, your mindset, your capacities that are either activated or not.
And with that much data, it is simpler to answer the question: what can I do now if I desire to raise my vibration?
From your figures I now know what is important to you … not what you say is important to you. You might deceive yourself, but you are not able to trick All-Knowledge.
When you have your scores, I’ll send them to you along with my recommendation.
OK, below is the payment button if you want to know your Starting Point Measurements. Even when you don’t do anything with them, it is an useful information …
A considerable number of those who ask, actually begin doing what could make them raise their vibration … And I am very happy about that.
Sophie Benshitta Maven is a True Empath. She can connect to anything defined clearly enough… and communicate with it. She is an award winning architect, plus one credit short of an MBA. Also creator of Source inspired energies that make a difference. my siteGet your Starting Point Measurements
I get a ton of requests to help people raise their vibration. And there are many people who offer this … many videos on youtube.
Whatever modality of raising your vibration to pick, you want to decide a couple of things beforehand.
One of the most important and most wake up call like steps is finding out what is your vibration when you begin.
There are well-meaning individuals out there who will measure your vibration, whichever way they do it.
Based on their measures you may well be in the Unconditional Love region …
But my experience with people is that their vibration is much more in the area of anguish, anger, and arrogance, than in the Unconditional Love zone …
It is, in my expert opinion, not valuable to know only your vibration score, people also refer to it as vibrational frequency.
Why? Because your single number doesn’t say enough.
It is a lot like if I wanted to direct you to a healthier lifestyle, but all I would have is your foot size.
If I really intended to assist you, I ‘d obtain a whole lot more information, how big you are, etc. And after that I ‘d know, or would be closer to know if I can assist you, and how.
I am a True Empath.
What is a True Empath? A True Empath is unique. A True Empath is able to be connected to anything or every single thing, accurately, and reliably, if there sufficient information.
This means that I can connect to you if I have, for example your picture.
How do I know I am connected? After a few secs I experience myself in your boots, and feel your sensations.
The second reason it’s important to be able to link to something accurately is this: unless I am connected to an unbiased third party who is omniscient, I am just going to shoot in the dark.
So this is what happens: I attach to you. After that I connect to Source aka All-Knowledge. Now we are a triangle.
And then I ask questions. And All-Knowledge has agreed on a signal system with me, very similar to what applied kinesiology uses … with the difference that I am not testing my own body to tell the truth, I am using my own body to receive the truth from All-Knowledge.
I have a set of question, that I question All-Knowledge about you, while I am experiencing your emotions.
Source’s replies are yes, no, yes/no, or bad question.
I term these 14 measurements your Starting Point Measurements.
They are a snapshot of you, vibrationally meaning.
Most of the questions are about your mental attitude, your purpose, your mindset, your capacities that are either activated or not.
And with that numerous information, it is simpler to answer the question: what can I do now if I would like to raise my vibration?
From your figures I know what is important to you … not what you say is very important to you. You might deceive yourself, but you can not hoodwink All-Knowledge.
When you have your measurement, I’ll send them to you with my recommendation.
OK, below is the payment button if you wish to know your Starting Point Measurements. Even if you don’t do anything with them, it is an important information …
A significant number of those who ask, actually start doing what might make them raise their vibration … And I am very happy about that.
Sophie Benshitta Maven is a True Empath. She can connect to anything defined clearly enough… and communicate with it. She is an award winning architect, plus one credit short of an MBA. Also creator of Source inspired energies that make a difference. my siteGet your Starting Point Measurements
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