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Can you become astute? And if you can… how?
This article deals with what it is that you need to become astute, or even just to become a candidate for me to activate astute as a DNA capacity for you…
One of the invaluable benefits I gained from the 67 steps is the idea to consider getting tired in the noonish hours a signal that it is time to lie down and read.
This midday break disrupts the societal pull to do the useful, the purposeful, the goal-oriented stuff… that makes us dull, dutiful, and lopsided… boring.
I have a timer that turns on t
Feeling deeply and effortless abundance… what is the connection?
It’s a normal day to me: I went deep inside the energy body of a person in Singapore and got in touch with her life, her urges, how she thinks, and what pains she has. I pulled her energetic attachments. … Continue reading
If you are human, you are hungry for stories — the power of reading
It seems that to be human is to crave stories. So, if you are reading this, you crave stories.
The question is: where are you get your stories from?
Most of you get it in gossip.
Many get it in soap operas as well… not much better than gossip.
I recommend that you read. Quality novels or short stories… It enriches, while gossips or gossipy TV shows don’t.
Neither do romance novels…
You need to satisfy the hunger, but just like with food, some foods nurture, others fill you up with crap.
So choose wisely.
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noun: self-image; plural noun: self-images
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