What Is The Most Important Capacity To Master?

Ever since Saturday I have been observing myself putting myself down, de-valuing myself. Telling people I am not such a good coach, etc. etc. etc. I know what happened.

What Is More Important: Who You Are Or Your Reaction To Who You Say You Are? How To Hire Me As Your Coach?

What Is More Important: Who You Are Or Your Reaction To Who You Say You Are? This is a tricky question, so don’t just shoot from the hip and leave (like you always do)… let me show you something that you probably didn’t know.

Making A Difference… How Can YOU Make A Difference?

I have been nurturing this sense that I can make a difference in the world forever… I even remember at age 3-4 thinking about that, so it must have come from before birth… Of course, life doesn’t seem to prove it. As a coach I may be able to change someone’s behavior, maybe even contribute to them being high-minded, but all in all, my life, from the point of view of making a difference, has been a failure

What’s the difference between a presidential candidate and an internet marketing guru?

American citizens, eligible to vote, are divided. But whether you will vote to Obama, McCain, or stay at home and let others decide, one thing is certain, no one is looking at the real issue: The skill it takes to win the votes of the majority, i.e. win an election is a very different skill from the skill of running a country. Unless running it to the ground qualifies as running it…. 😉  as we have experienced, time and time again. Just like in politics, the same is true for teaching anything, including internet marketing. The skill it takes to be a successful internet marketer is a vastly different skill from the skill of causing another person’s success. We all look to our guru to teach us what to do and how to do it, so that we can be successful like them, and we all get very frustrated and very weary, because what they say and what they do are often different, and even if and when we did exactly what they said to do, we meet with meager success. How come? We seem all very surprised. Well, let me ask you this: have you ever heard of a successful football or basketball coach that played real well? Or the reverse: have you ever heard of a successful player that was also a great coach? Most successful players play from their “other than conscious mind.” Their conscious mind doesn’t know what they are doing: they feel their way. They say that chess masters use their other than conscious mind to play with lightening speed, that their conscious mind doesn’t even comprehend. I play freecell (a computer game). In the beginning I looked and looked, and only made moves that made sense to me. As the years passed, I am catching myself that when I give my other than conscious mind a good look at the computer screen with the game open, it knows what to do and wins the game for me. Thank you other than conscious mind. So what does this have to do with internet marketing? Unfortunately, a lot. They say internet marketing is simple but not easy. If we stay with the freecell computer game, the moves are real simple. but it is rare that someone can score a 100. why? Because you can make the simple moves ONLY in a certain order, and be successful at the same time. The pull to pick the low hanging fruit, and make the easy moves first, will certainly get you in trouble. And here are we, back where we started: The advantage of a good teacher is to give us a step by step plan… which the chess-master type guru can’t. He never did what he did consciously, so he can’t give you the plan. So what is the solution? What can a ‘guru’ give you that will make you succeed? I have come up with two possible solutions that look hopeful: 1. give people chunks of ready made pieces of the puzzle, and a simple assembly plan. i.e. do it FOR them. 2. give people and environment where they can do it with others, and guide them I am going to give you solution #1 today. I have prepared for you six websites, each designed to self-run itself and become successful with just a little help from you. And I have prepared for you a marketing goldmine: 103 different small and big strategies that you can follow to help nature in its work, and make the sites more successful, even take them to the top.

What is "Natural Growth" and how to Accomplish it, Spiritually, and in Business

Most of the people I know are either stagnating because they don’t put themselves in a situation where they need to grow, or they put themselves in the courses and seminars and coaching programs to grow, but they don’t grow because …

Two main reasons you don’t have the life you want

As you know I am a coach, and I don’t have to think much to find something to teach… hey, my clients is a never ending source of inspiration for writing. I want to share something about the kind of life you live… because I want you to sign up to the 100 day challenge, so consider that I am selling you… shamelessly, pushing you, pressuring you: because it is that important.

Making A Difference: How Can YOU Make A Difference?

A really great movie that shows how and what way we can all make a difference… It’s not trite, actually it’s a very great nature movie. Watch it!

What Doesn’t Make Sense in Internet Marketing Training

I am a coach. I coach internet marketing, I coach mindset… and I love it, when I do. Sometimes. But lately my clients and students are clueless, after having paid thousands and thousands of dollars to other coaches… here is my rant

When and How You Should Argue with Your Coach?

As a coach, I often experience people taking my remarks as criticism, and are compelled to protect or defend themselves. I normally “fire them” as clients. Why? Because they are missing the point. And I am not about wasting my “Light” on black holes…