Everything you ever wanted is available to you, if…
… if you are willing to look at see what is so about you and your life.
The truth. Naked. Ugly. Often shameful.
Here is a correspondence I had with a client today:
She said: “I’m interested in changing my context since it’s part of what keeps me stuck.”
“… answering the questions: what am I doing? Why am I doing it?
Unless you have done the work of identifying what you have been doing, and why you have been doing it, no way you can shift the context. You cannot catch what you can’t see. And you cannot change what you can’t catch.”
To the degree you are able and willing to do that, to the same degree you can change your life. ((
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I remember saying to myself: my money is not good enough for you? and wept. I had no idea how I “accomplished” that… in 20/20 hindsight it is still a little spotty. What wasn’t clear to me, never even occurred to me, how my attitude effected the service provider. My “To what degree you think of yourself:” starting point measure was, at the time, 70%. From my behavior I would have guessed it was higher. Mainly I overrode what they said. I argued, I knew better, I acted with contempt… What I didn’t know then is that being a service provider needs to be a win, or no service. A customer who is not happy is a “It’s lonely at the top. 99% of people are convinced they are incapable of achieving great things, so they aim for mediocre. The level of competition is thus fiercest for ‘realistic’ goals, paradoxically making them the most competitive.” -Tim Ferriss Most people will never be truly successful. The pull towards mediocrity is too strong. As David Schwartz once penned, “All around you is an environment that is trying to pull you down to Second-Class Street.” Most people will never escape the pull. Much of the thinking around us is small-minded. Most people are overly conce The way to find the strait and narrow of happiness (See The Anna Karenina Principle) is to watch the feedback … and self-correct. Yesterday I added integrity to the starting point measurements. so far all people I measured ranked on 3 out of 100. Wow. I had an exchange of text messages with a guy, […] This is how it goes: I write something. I think I know what i am saying. but hours later it hits me… wow. So I wrote in my previous article, this morning, that all pain and suffering you experience is experiencing your own resistance… resistance coming from the 14th floor words: “This should not be…” So, consequently all non-physical pain comes from your resistance to feedback. OK… I said more or less this… but how true and how general it is just hit me. Here I am sit This has been one of the most brilliant things I have ever decided to do. Without feedback one may imagine a lot of things, but with feedback, eventually you arrive to the truth, to reality, and there is no room for imagination, fancy, or any other unreality. The reality is this: The Water Energizer works… you don’t. There are not many “moving parts” of a water energizer setup. There is I am a reader. I read a lot. But yet, a whole new world opened up for me when I started to read on the Kindle. Why? Because it has a built in dictionary. As a result, I have added, to date, 2,000 words to my vocabulary. It was very cumbersome to read with a dictionary before… I would lose my place, etc. But the Kindle has made it possible. I find the word… but sometimes the word in the dictionary is not useful. I am reading Seneca, the person with whom my teaching of how to live life, how to be happy, i In my quest to find like-minded people, who want to better humanity, I am watching videos, and am exposed the feelings of the speaker, commentator, or whoever is in the video. What prompted this article is a bout of weeping… for no reason. I am sitting here examining the context inside which this happened, and I Have had no reason to be sad, to weep. So I ask, somewhat late, this usual question: is this mine? The answer is NO. Does this belong to one of my students? no. one of my readers? no. to the speaker on the video? yes. Now, this was today. But whenever I watch a sales video… or maybe even read a sales email… I get the feeling of the person who wrote it.
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I am going to start with a somewhat gossipy story: my conversation with my mentor, Gyõzõ Margóczi, the brilliant engineer who wrote the books “Feelings” and “Words”. I suggested that he thinks about developing a feedback device, that gives you valuable feedback on your feelings… because being in touch and understanding the dynamics of feelings is the hardest thing for a regular human. And everyone is a regular human… 🙁 His answer, pay attention, was that there must surely be a rich man, like Bill Gates, who would want to stand behin The challenge, for the participant, is to accurately feel their feelings, and maybe even what the feeling wants them to do, the inner dynamics. My experience is that despite what everyone teaches, you cannot get to what you want through words. But you can get to what you want through the feelings level and the through feelings level to the beingness level: the creative plane. If the “Law of Attraction” or the “Law of Similars” has any water to hold, if being in energetic alignment with what you want does actually allow you to go for it, having, use it, keep it, then this is the most important skill you want to develop. <
Should you become a client? Would I even accept you as a client?
For decades one of my sore spots was that people refused to serve me, even though I paid them. Why Most People Will Remain in Mediocrity
Most people will never become truly successful. Love feedback or else… Make it a feedback loop…
The non-physical pain of being devalued…
There is a very interesting phenomenon and I just experienced it full blast.And most non-physical pain you experience comes from the devaluation of the “I”… or the perceived devaluation… and the feedback that is causing it is resisted.
Why you don’t want what you say you want…
I am working, one-on-one with people who submitted their pictures of their setup of the water energizer.
The connection between your vocabulary and your deserving factor
The connection between the number of words you can correctly use in writing or in speaking and your intelligence, your worth a damn factor, and your deserving the good life… or not. What is the purpose of life… and how to live it on Life’s terms?
Most often: hope+fear: A perfect prescription for misery. ((
The original sin… how you can stop paying, how can you stop suffering?
As I promised, the next step in creating your life that discouragement is only a rare guest in, instead of a tenant… The missing science so you can start mastering your beingness: the Real Kabbalah
Today’s “What’s the truth about you?” workshop is the first experiment to get to beingness through feelings.