This article reveals the tip of a significant iceberg.
Icebergs are huge chunks of ice, shaped like a pyramid. The tip of that pyramid shows above the water level, the rest of the iceberg is underwater wreaking havoc. ((
The other way to illustrate this is by looking at a duck… calm, collected, smooth… but under the water level the legs of the duck work feverishly. ))
With most things in life, the invisible part, what is under the water level is what works against you, unless you bring
My name is Sophie Benshitta Maven
I am a true empath, and energy master, and a coach. I coach people to become expanding human beings… the next level of human evolution.
my site is yourvibration.com
This podcast is about The path to happiness, fulfillment, and a life lived well?
there are two dramatically different approaches to self-growth.
The first will give you advice on what to do and promises that all those many actions will surely take you to where you want to go.
The second will use the Anna Karenina principle… where Lev Tolstoy says: Happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.,
The Anna Karenina principle describes an endeavor in which a deficiency in any one of a number of factors dooms it to failure. Consequently, a successful endeavor (subject to this principle) is one where every possible deficiency has been avoided.
My understanding is that if you teach that the strait and narrow of finding your way leads through avoiding all possible deficiencies, faults, and false moves, will lead you through the strait.
You may be able to see people ahead of you in the strait, but no matter how hard you look, their actions may inform you, but the same actions, done by you may land you on the rocks… because most of what those people did was below the visible, even below their consciousness level.
On the other hand you also see people who have landed on the rocks, and their failures, mistakes, delusions, and wrong approaches are more visible…
Your job is to learn from both
But how?
You need to become a master of patterns and distinctions.
It is not an accident that there are so few happy and successful people on the planet.
Success without happiness is very frequent.
Happiness without success is rare… happy people don’t advertise that they are happy.
Deficiency in any one of the areas of life will lead to diminished success and diminished happiness.
Areas as sexual attraction, money issues, parenting, religion, in-laws
Or for a life well lived, you can’t neglect your health, your finances, your social relationships, and your mental well being. thinking biases, cognitive.
In my coaching, I take people through 67 steps where they contintually re-examine their lives in the face of 100 or so distinctions, patterns, and principles.
Through this examination, people grow towards the light, even thought the principles were at what to avoid.
This is the best coaching I have ever found and the results talk for themselves: people whose purpose is to grow, grow tall and straight and in the direction of happiness, success, and health.
“It’s easier to evaluate your results through drunken delusion than to gaze soberly in the mirror and face the truth.”
The most frequent error people make is assume that what they know, how they know it, is going to make a difference.
The truth, the missing knowledge, unfortunately lies in the gray area of what you don’t know that you don’t know.
Unless something gets teased out, plucked out from that vast grey area, life will never change.
That vast gray area,
My stunning discovery that my conscious thoughts don’t direct my actions may spell out why you are where you are, and why you can’t move from where you are to where you’d like to be… without energetic support.
Now, truth be told, I should have discovered that fact earlier, after all I have read it, but there is a difference between reading something and nodding, and actually discovering it for yourself.
Here is a below the conscious element, you have if you are a Christian or if your religion is “manifesting” or the Law of Attraction: “If somebody else will do it, you’ll never do it.. why bother, why interfere in fate?”
Here is another one: “I can’t.” And unless you build a below the conscious reality in which you can, in which you are someone who can, it will run your life, no matter what affirmations, what mind-movies you expose your conscious mind to… because this is how it works.
The difference is the difference between Tree of Knowledge and Tree of Life… mind
Is ADD and ADHD a nature or nurture phenomenon? There is a surprising answer: we compare American and French children with regards to ADD…
Based on an article by Marilyn Wedge, Ph.D. “Why French Kids Don’t Have ADHD? French children don’t need medications to control their behavior.”
First off: what is ADD and ADHD?
Attention deficit disorder is a symptom. According to Dr. Daniel Amen, when an ADD/ADHD person wants to concentrate, at a certain point their prefrontal cortex shuts down… much like your computer crashes when you overload it.
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You may be one of the many people that find it hard to pinpoint what would be the best use for your life… what direction your life’s purpose lies. This article dives into that, and also into how to get rid of wasting your life away.l