I am finding out that you’ve been thinking in terms of to-do lists to get things done. I find to-do lists daunting. The biggest problem with to-do lists is that it kills the spirit in things. The second biggest problem …
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I don’t feel like writing an article. It feels like unless I am careful, I am slipping into a depressed state. This happens around Daytime Savings Time… I get confused and sleep too much. And the body decides that … Continue reading → Related Posts: The essence of teaching is that someone learns, not the […]
Note: this is an important article… please read. It summarizes a lot of what is not working about you… and what you can do about it.
I really enjoy the work on people’s hydration.
I love seeing how they get things done (or not) and it is a source of a lot of amusements.
Am I laughing at them? No. Laughing at someone is laughing at their expense.
For example, this picture, above. Very educational. It shows a lot to learn from.
You can see a polar pitcher with the mini speaker inserted in the bottom: the water is a perfect 653:
Everybody writes about recognizing other people’s emotions, or recognizing your own emotions… but that is talking about the 14th floor in a building that stands in thin air… They write about what they know… because no one knows there is a missing 13th floor, because the science isn’t built for the 13th floor, or not quite. It has begun by a nobody in Hungary… And the science is valid. ((Read the books.))
The 13th floor is the floor of feelings. And the whole world of feelings we have been discouraged to explore, no one teaches it, because a person who is grounded in their feeli
This article shows the state of official science for emotional intelligence.
Psychologists are not interested in the groundbreaking work developed in the books Feelings and Words…
Although when you can already recognize your feelings, their inner dynamics, what they want you to do, what trap you my have stepped, unwittingly, the advice below is quite good.
Until then I don’t think it’s useful… Or may not be useful.
Even though emotional intelligence is really important to live a good life, to have good relationships, to get things done, to be well… for all of life.
OK, here is the article from Wikihow
Emotional intelligence (EQ) is the ability to tap into your emotions and use them to make your life better. Being in touch with your feelings allows you to manage stress levels and communicate effectively with other people, two skills that enhance your life both personally and professionally. Unlike IQ, which remains constant throughout your life,
This morning I am running on fumes… (or how to increase your Twitchy Little Bastard ((TLB – Twitchy Little Bastard; a person who is counterproductively anxious for results. Who has no ability to control his urges…)) score)
Some activities fill you up, some activities drain your energy.
One of the most important capacities one can develop is to tell the difference… and start managing one’s energy.
Sometimes you give your energy to another and get back nothing… Maybe money, but money does not fill you up. Money does not give you energy. It may buy groceries… but even groceries only give you physical energy.
The depletion is of psychic energy, of spiritual energy, of intellectual energy. But if you suck the energy sparingly, if you are more worried about the battery than about building something with the energy… at the end of the day energy is left in the battery. You charge it overnight, and next day the battery will show full, but its full is only the 70% you used the day before… And little by little, your sparing the battery attitude, your stinginess leaves you with hardly any energy to get things done, to think, to dream, to imagine, to be Your story can be your personal story. Telling what happened from your personal point of view. No creativity is required: it’s already applied generously. Why? How? Anything that happened is turned into words… and words, whenever applied, create a story, a story line, an interpretation. Filters added creatively… Skewed. Your story can be the story of your heritage. No matter how you tell this story: it is filtered through opinions, beliefs, and other filters. You think a story tells something about the past. But a story tells your future: reliabl A likely story is a lie. We, marketers, are taught: facts tell, but stories sell. And so every sales letter is one story of another. I used to be a liar, because I didn’t think life was interesting enough, so I embellished it. I was caught, and it didn’t matter. I just kept making up interesting stories, mostly sob stories about myself. I was selling myself… and because I didn’t think I had anything to offer, I lied.
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It was 1988, and around February I got fired. It was my fault… I forgot that I was supposed to lie to cover for my employer… and I let the truth slip. So I got fired. Then I got really depressed. I got thrown out of a program I loved and was really good at in Landmark… I had no income, no hopes for income, and I was depressed. I started to go to a 12-step program and with a little help, ok, a lot of pushing, I did start to look what I wanted to do with the rest of my life, now that everything I knew was closed for me. I read the “What Color is Your Parac
One model for a satisfying life is the battery.
If you suck the last little bit of energy out of your battery and then charge it, next day it will give you a little more… ((I just read that this is not true for all types of batteries… well, it is true for most people…) The story. Your story. It is either inspiring or it is depressing…
The story. Your story. It is either inspiring or it is depressing… either way it’s the context of your life All marketers are liars. The likely story… that likely happened but not really
I have been muscle testing, diligently, if the stories that sell products, courses, software, are facts or made-up likely stories.
Getting things done… fast (12-week Mastery review)
In this article I will share with you a period of my life when things happened with a lightening fast speed, and I made those things happen.