Change vs. Becoming. Fixing vs. Becoming… the dead end paths away from raising your vibration

The Mindset book is the perfect accompaniment to the Reclaim coaching program, and the From Upset To Communication course where we learn the fields inside which all of life plays out. I have questions coming at me that shed light … Continue reading “Change vs. Becoming. Fixing vs. Becoming… the dead end paths away from raising your vibration”

A good tool keeps on giving, and giving, and giving

When you find something good, then hold onto it, make it your permanent tool or partner. How do you know if what you have found is a good thing? This can be in any area of life, health, wealth, love, … Continue reading “A good tool keeps on giving, and giving, and giving”

When you have to move on…

In 1975, somewhere early spring, I was hugging my soon to be ex boy friend as hard as I could. He packed his car and was moving back to his parents. I was sobbing. I told him I loved him. … Continue reading “When you have to move on…”

Who do you like? Who do you love?

Or here is another question for you: Who are you? If you asked back: What do you mean? you did the smart thing. Because the question: who are you? can be asked from so many vantage points, we can spend … Continue reading “Who do you like? Who do you love?”

How do you pick a life philosophy, how do you pick a guru?

Tons of people come to my site to read my valuation of many gurus’ vibration. When they are done, they choose… How they choose, what they choose says everything about them, not about the guru, not about the method, not … Continue reading → Related Posts: Choice is: selecting freely, AFTER consideration. More on being […]

A piece of the vibration puzzle just fell into place

Today was one of those days where the plenty resulted in only confusion and nothing got finished. I started four articles, and ran out of steam, or focus, or attention after half a page or 120 words. I was a … Continue reading

How some questions you ask will determine your whole life, the moment you answer them

This morning I have been experiencing an emotional roller coaster… as I am cycling through tens of people as I accidentally connect to them. Some gurus, Murakami, his wife, a marketing guru, my next door neighbor, my brother, some students, … Continue reading → Related Posts: The unanswerable question trap: it holds you by the […]

Why your brain doesn’t make you a winner… Or is your brain to blame?

I just had one of the most productive Sunday Rant call ever… and I just finished the third book in the Freak series, Think Like a Freak. Because it is about thinking, and because it is about frames it is … Continue reading

The secret of life is to be alive, feel alive, look alive, act alive…

This life, which had been the tomb of his virtue and of his honour, is but a walking shadow; a poor player, that struts and frets his hour upon the stage, and then is heard no more: it is a … Continue reading

We are never smart enough, knowledgeable enough, clever enough to accomplish what we really want to accomplish.

Life comes without a manual. And our parents, our schools, our “teachers” know as little as we do. No one has taught us how to live. Here is a little teaching… We are never already enough to accomplish what we … Continue reading