I saw something today that can be important to for you to learn, because I don’t think you know. It was prompted by an article by James Altucher, a blogger (personal vibration: 170) who I like and feel disgust for at … Continue reading → Related Posts: Your sphere of influence and your vibration: what […]
My 67 step coaching program was inspired by a Neal Stephenson novel
The inspiration to coach using Tai Lopez’s 67 steps came from one of my all time favorite books, the Neal Stephenson novel, Diamond Age.
In that novel, science fiction, far in the future, a scientist puts together an interactive book, a primer, for a rich and influential client’s grand daughter. And then he steals it… meaning: duplicates it without permission.
He means
How your past self is creating your future and what you can do about it
There is a Landmark Education distinction that no one gets…
It has a huge overlap with the distinction “you live in a world of your own design”.
This, the “you live in a world of your own design” is somewhat like the Law of Attraction: you attract what you are… but much deeper. It is BEING that, not feeling, or thinking only, though you may feel and think it as well.
But thinking and feeling don’t create being… the reverse, the opposite is tr
Why is the “need to meet others’ expectation” so important, and why it’s a mistake to not honor it?
And how it doesn’t mean to please everybody, or even one person. You’ll see…
Our language is so corrupt, it is hard to find a person who means what they say… I mean the words. You’ll see what meeting others’ expectation is… Not what’s on the illustrations… 🙁
The most willfully ignored need, in my experience, is the need to meet others’ expectation.
What prevents you from honoring that need is a misunderstanding. Or we could say: the mis-weighing bias. All biases are misunderstanding how things work, shortcuts that give you a different result than what you expected.
In not honoring but ignoring this need, your chances for success, your chances for love, for self-expression, for happiness are so greatly diminishe
The biggest reason you are stuck… on a plateau or in a ditch, but stuck nevertheless
Regardless of what you do, how you do it, how good or bad your life is… you are always stuck… Stuck in some deep bad place, or stuck on a plateau… stuck is stuck.
So learning what keeps you stuck and how to unstuck yourself, at will, is one of the most important things you can do… and the sooner the better. Because being stuck is not fun.
Cognitive biases, those knee jerk reaction tiny pieces of automatic responses, are at the root of your misery.
No matter what pleasure you seek, what makes it pleasure is the contrast: there needs to be pain for pleasure to exist. ((Hunger makes food pleasurable… lust makes sex pleasurable… tiredness makes sleep pleasurable…)) Although I could write about pleasure that you earn through hard and sustained work, and I have written hundreds of articles about it, people with too small capacity for pain rarely turn around and become people who want to earn their pleasure. So in this article I’ll a Arrogance is unearned boastful superiority. To the uninitiated, they look and sound the same. But they aren’t. You only need to scratch the surface. I have detected a certain ancestral commonality in that behavior. And have been pondering why and how and for what purpose are certain nationalities arrogant. Since then I saw that even seeing the horizon is blocked… Blocked by seven boulders, lined up one behind the other, blocking your view, blocking your movement. So, in my coaching practice, when I ask people to set a direction, and they can’t see any, I am inclined to suggest that they choose the direction: living a meaningful live, or a fulfilled life… without specifying what it is. This includes inner healing, faith healing, etc… And when you start from something wrong… like “I am sick”, you are on your way to create a context that is misery every step of the way. If I needed to define what negativity is, it’s that “what is is wrong, and it needs to be fixed.” Yesterday I was leading my Theta State training webinar, and I felt horrible. Partially, because I wasn’t feeling well myself. Partially because my students didn’t feel well. And yet partially because one of my students wrote to me, and I nee There is a myth humans hold onto, that if they stay angry and something or someone, then they are better people than who All pretense… which is bad in and of itself, but there is more… When you are mad at something you did, or mad at someone who did something you recognize… then you are hooked. Hooked in that angry mode of existence. Locked in the anger, locked out of freedom, future, happiness. As long as you hold onto that anger. I think it may be useful to di
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Pleasure seeking behavior… or more aptly let’s call it: avoiding pain behavior
There are two kinds of pleasure.
Arrogance.
I have been dealing with arrogance in my students.
Most people don’t know, don’t care because they themselves are not achievers… but you can have confidence that is justified by your accomplishments, your superior knowledge. What if you have something blocking you from growing? The Seven Boulders principle
Some ten years ago I learned a valuable way of looking at making life meaningful, or living a meaningful life. The teacher suggested that we pick a horizon, a direction, and then look what’s blocking the way of getting there. Healing… is that a negative word? Is that a sign of negativity?
Did you know that if you say: I need healing, what you are saying is that you are sick? How to have all the skeletons in your closet come alive and conspire against the future you invented, the future you desire?
they are angry at.