Most authors, most gurus, most spiritual/money/prosperity/marketing teachers contributed one distinction to me… if any.
Actually, most didn’t… Famous ones, successful ones, amazing ones… nothing. I was left with nothing.
One of these distinctions, by Robert Scheinfeld, is considering that all you see when you look is through the limited
In my weekly coaching call with my only business/marketing student last night, I went deep into the causes of why someone with a degree, why someone who is making a living, cannot move further up the life-satisfaction, life effectiveness scale.
I have found two blatant holes in him, that my guess is shared by all of you, or most of you.
So how do you fix that? You don’t.
When you find something that isn’t working or isn’t working as well as you’d like it to, your knee jerk reaction is to fix it. Or change it. Or stop doing it.
We throw about big words, and we pretend that we know them. Even “scientists” just pretend. If they didn’t, they would be explaining, clarifying the words, but they don’t.
In the Starting Point Measurements the vocabulary number is what indicates this. I originally intended to call this clarity, but then I decided that if it refers to words, then maybe it can be instructive.
It hasn’t been.
So this article will be, mostly, about words.
Whatever you don’t have words for, whatever you mislabel, whatever you just have feelings or emotions about, no accurate words… are not conscious awareness.
I will add: accurate w
Developing the habit to look before you leapYou have habits, thought patterns, beliefs, practices that guarantee that your life will not change, especially won’t change for the better.
When you do a course, read a book, or talk to a coach, you want to do and change the most important thing about your life: drop 30 pounds, start a new business, or leave your husband.
You are unprepared.
You are like a medical student: you need to practice surgery on cadavers before you cut open your mother or father… translating for those that can’t see the forest for the trees: you need to develop the practices that are building blocks for a good life.
Regardless of what you do, how you do it, how good or bad your life is… you are always stuck… Stuck in some deep bad place, or stuck on a plateau… stuck is stuck.
So learning what keeps you stuck and how to unstuck yourself, at will, is one of the most important things you can do… and the sooner the better. Because being stuck is not fun.
Cognitive biases, those knee jerk reaction tiny pieces of automatic responses, are at the root of your misery.
You have two options. You need to choose. You need to choose the option that has the lower cost to your reproductive success if it turns out to be wrong. Now, I suspect, that almost none of us think about cost in terms of reproductive success, but according to evolutionary psychology, you are a mere vehicle to your genes, your genes are only inte I could also have made the title: your horoscope and your ego’s role in it, or your soul correction and your ego’s role in it. There is a lot of different ways people define ego, but what if the ego is none of those. Not what Freud called ego, not what gurus call ego. What if the ego is simply the mechanism by which the Selfish Gene perpetuates itself… like an old dog that is un You can also watch your behavior. Observe it when you can, observe it when I ask you to. Now, go back to the article, Not all complaints are created equal… or just think about the word “complaint.” Watch if your knee jerk reaction is to turn away from it. MY knee jerk reaction is to tell you to go away. But I’ve noticed it, and I know that asking you to leave will want you to stay… so I’ll just shut up, and let you fall off by yourself. You know the joke: Go read the rest of the article http://www.yourvibration.com/14087/knee-jerk/ The Quickening by Keith Wyatt awakening as one I got an email from one of the Pioneers of The Planetary Ascension project. He sent me a link to this movie, below, The Quickening . He said that in this movie I will see why I am doing what I am doing. My knee jerk reaction was to summarily dismiss this, but at 900 you know better, chuckle, so I watched the movie. Hey, when you are being a knucklehead… does it mean, you ARE a knucklehead? Or you are just doing the only exercise most people do: jumping into conclusions. Listen if you can recognize yourself in these stories: A lot of my clients 
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