Master your fears The opposite of fear is not courage, not fearless… it is abundance. And Abundance is mastery. Mastery comes from work. Often hard work. Focus. Knowing what you are up to, knowing why you are doing it. You can see that all the requirements for abundance, and mastery, and the good life meets […]
Good relationship? Abundance comes from mastery. Relationship mastery for relationship
This is what I have been trying to avoid all my life… Everyone and their brother says that connecting with people is the area of life where you have the most pleasure and happiness, and the most discord, and unhappiness. Given my childhood, I am afraid of people, I am afraid of pain, and I […]
Can’t see the forest for the trees? You probably don’t like math… What is astuteness?
Distinction vs examples One of the reasons you are not as astute in life is because you can’t see the forest for the trees. But why? Seeing patterns is a higher function of the brain, and needs to be developed and nurtured. I call this astuteness, or the using the astute capacity. Everyone’s brain is […]
Your life story is like a black hole. Your Bach Flower profile shows how…
Your tendency is to remember the story. Not what happened but your story. And to tell the story in a predictable manner… always the same way, always showing you in the same role, the same exact way. A story is a narrative of reality. It talks from one particular vantage point, and therefore it is […]
Building something worth building… A life, a business, a relationship… what is missing?
The more details you can see, accurately, interpret accurately, the higher your vibration, and the more results you can produce. We call this astute, and I haven’t been measuring that… Now, obviously it takes something to be able to be astute… Tai Lopez, whose 67 steps product I use to teach with… hell, he is …
Already too busy? Stressed? Always busy? Always in a hurry? Trying to start a new project?
Stressed? Always busy? Always in a hurry? These are all signs of you living on the competitive plane, the horizontal, the Valley of the Shadow of Death. I have a book that I can see from my bed. It is called “The Life You Were Born To Live” The title immediately creates desire and hurry …
Check your premises. Your success depends on your ACCURATE seeing of cause and effect
A disproportionately large percentage of “knowledge” available on the internet is false. Some of it is intentional propaganda. But most of it is the result of wrong world view, false beliefs, Tree of Life undigested stuff, accepted as the truth. So given the amount of crap, it is you who needs to be a “truth …
Measuring Self-Esteem distortion: how accurate is your self-evaluation?
The new measure I am including in the Starting Point Measurements is Self-Esteem. Or more precisely: how distorted your self-esteem is. Esteem, the word, comes from the Latin appraise, estimate, measure the value of, the size of… through French and Middle English (as a noun in the sense ‘worth, reputation’): from Old French estime (noun), …
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You hope you have high vibration… but what if you don’t know what high vibration is?
I am getting hundreds of requests for Starting Point Measurements. That includes me measuring your vibration… human vibration, vibrational frequency, whatever you call it… Ultimately there is one thing in common among the emotional responses: disappointment. A lot of people think that their numbers, their vibration should be higher. Why? Because they are good people. …
The invisible undercurrent that is running your life, unbeknown to you.
The invisible undercurrent, undertow of self-made rules… Or if you prefer, the invisible strings that move the puppet… What they talk about when they say “there are known knowns… etc.” Donald Rumsfeld stated: Reports that say that something hasn’t happened are always interesting to me, because as we know, there are known knowns; there are …
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