I doesn’t matter what you think you believe. I am starting to notice that what you say you believe is one thing, what you actually believe is expressed a lot more truthfully in your actions and in your reactions. One … Continue reading “How do you know if you have a fixed mindset or a […]
When your cleverness trips you up
Bad things used to come in threes… Not any more. Nowadays it is more like three good things and one bad thing. The bad thing today could be turned into good… maybe writing this article helps. Some clients buy stuff …
Weird is the necessary ingredient to getting a cult following
I spend some of my “entertainment credits” to shore up my cultural understanding of the country I live in, the United States. It is still study… it is still doing my work. I read books you had to read in … Continue reading “Weird is the necessary ingredient to getting a cult following”
Are you disappointed with yourself for not being higher minded, and achieving more in life?
For years I’ve seen that humans, humanity, are stuck in a place where happiness is impossible, accomplishment is not predictable, and health is touch and go. I’ve had big hopes, selfish hopes, that I will be the one to unstuck … Continue reading “Are you disappointed with yourself for not being higher minded, and achieving more in life?”
Updated: When you don’t hurry, time doesn’t hurry either. When you are prepared you can afford to not hurry
Hurry is a reliable sign of the Fixed Mindset. Fixed mindset and growth mindset describe the underlying beliefs, the invisible part of the iceberg of your beliefs that crash the Titanic! you have about learning, effort, and intelligence. When you believe they can get smarter, you may understand that effort makes you stronger. Continue reading
Smart people don’t have to look… Creativity is genetic… and other bullcrap from the Tree of Knowledge
I have started to put my old videos on my video site I also listened to one… how you lose your creativity, how to get it back… Brilliant. I mean the video. I like it. I talk about how you … Continue reading “Smart people don’t have to look… Creativity is genetic… and other bullcrap from the Tree of Knowledge”
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Change vs. Becoming. Fixing vs. Becoming… the dead end paths away from raising your vibration
The Mindset book is the perfect accompaniment to the Reclaim coaching program, and the From Upset To Communication course where we learn the fields inside which all of life plays out. I have questions coming at me that shed light … Continue reading “Change vs. Becoming. Fixing vs. Becoming… the dead end paths away from raising your vibration”
When you have to move on…
In 1975, somewhere early spring, I was hugging my soon to be ex boy friend as hard as I could. He packed his car and was moving back to his parents. I was sobbing. I told him I loved him. … Continue reading “When you have to move on…”
Your password… how it tells me a lot about you
What do your passwords say about you? I get to see your password, at least when you sign up. Otherwise they are encrypted, so I can’t read them. Most of you could be “diagnosed” from your password on my site. … Continue reading “Your password… how it tells me a lot about you”