Being a coach is easy if you have no idea what they are doing, because you have never done it.
You just do what everyone else does, and hope for the best.
A “normal” coach only knows what they learned. Tree of Knowledge. Not worthless, but not authentic.
Most coaches have a mixed bag: they did some things, and learned others.
And a master coach is someone who not only has done it, but has done it successfully… and has produced success.
I have never played team sports… I am an introvert, and I also hate competing with my own team mates. So no, I have never done team sports…
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I have built a latticework, but I did not do it consciously. I just noticed that I had it and others didn’t. As usual I wrote down the question before i went to sleep last night, but the answer wasn’t there this morning. Only the question. Urgently. So I came to my computer, and the first link I clicked took me to an answer. Maybe THE answer. No accidents there… I clicked on a link on a website I normally don’t click on anything. It comes up for me 4-5 times a year, to ponder who had the true grit… the little girl or the big drunkard marshal? ((One of the main reason I love the Coen brothers in this movie is because they give opportunities to famous actors who never had a chance to prove they can act, an opportunity to act. Like Matt Damon. OMG… “It’s lonely at the top. 99% of people are convinced they are incapable of achieving great things, so they aim for mediocre. The level of competition is thus fiercest for ‘realistic’ goals, paradoxically making them the most competitive.” -Tim Ferriss Most people will never be truly successful. The pull towards mediocrity is too strong. As David Schwartz once penned, “All around you is an environment that is trying to pull you down to Second-Class Street.” Most people will never escape the pull. Much of the thinking around us is small-minded. Most people are overly conce This article shows the state of official science for emotional intelligence. Psychologists are not interested in the groundbreaking work developed in the books Feelings and Words… Although when you can already recognize your feelings, their inner dynamics, what they want you to do, what trap you my have stepped, unwittingly, the advice below is quite good. Until then I don’t think it’s useful… Or may not be useful. Even though emotional intelligence is really important to live a good life, to have good relationships, to get things done, to be well… for all of life. OK, here is the article from Wikihow Emotional intelligence (EQ) is the ability to tap into your emotions and use them to make your life better. Being in touch with your feelings allows you to manage stress levels and communicate effectively with other people, two skills that enhance your life both personally and professionally. Unlike IQ, which remains constant throughout your life, Success leaves traces… as in footprints in the sand If you look at what people did, how they did it, the tracks converge and become the “strait and narrow’, exactly the way Leo Tolstoy says it in the Anna Karenina Principle. So there is no wonder that I am finding articles nowadays that I could have written myself, if I were a success writer. Because while industry, science have advanced, humans, the race, has gone backwards. As a race. Backwards in intelligence… intellect, emotional, social, relationship, etc. And obviously in vibration. Pam Ragland‘s theory was (is?) that it is negativity that is doing it. But I watched the 26 people in her course, where she wiped the negativity, and people’s behavior, their affinity to learning new tricks, growing, did not change. I worked as a friend and coach with some of them, and I can tell you: wiping aw You have habits, thought patterns, beliefs, practices that guarantee that your life will not change, especially won’t change for the better. When you do a course, read a book, or talk to a coach, you want to do and change the most important thing about your life: drop 30 pounds, start a new business, or leave your husband. You are unprepared. You are like a medical student: you need to practice surgery on cadavers before you cut open your mother or father… translating for those that can’t see the forest for the trees: you need to develop the practices that are building blocks for a good life. The ones that come around tell me that after a while they actually could see what I pointed out. I respect them for that. Ever since I embraced being stupid, integrated it into my personality, stupid became a phase rather than a conclusion. What do I mean? Listen up, this is important! I left a 2000 book library when I left Hungary. that was 34 years ago. Every book is an opportunity to shatter my view of the world. And many do. Sometimes not directly… sometimes through the effect the book has on other people. This is what is happening with this book I am currently reading, The Upside of Your Dark Side. And previously with the book “Curiou How to start preparing your brain to build a latticework to hang new knowledge on?
I woke up with a question: how do you build a latticework to hang all your knowledge on?
Your soul correction in your favorite movies, the ones that come up in your memory again and again
One of my favorite movies is a Coen brothers movie, True Grit Why Most People Will Remain in Mediocrity
Most people will never become truly successful. How to Develop Emotional Intelligence… what do psychologists say?
Success leaves traces… as in footprints in the sand
Success literature, books, articles, movies about success… are they worth following?There are three types of success writers and success coaches.
You are trying to eat soup with a fork…
It’s perplexing to watch humans trying to eat soup with a fork.
Never practice surgery on your family and other lessons for life…
Developing the habit to look before you leap
I expect you to hate me from time to time. It is part of the process.
Some people come around at some point. Some sooner than others.
When you look at something, you see what you see. (Same with hearing!) You see wh You want it effortlessly… Want thrilling, want pleasure, want abundance…
I read a lot of books. About 100 books a year. Cover to cover. I don’t subscribe to Tai’s reading method…