Being a coach is easy if you have no idea what they are doing, because you have never done it.
You just do what everyone else does, and hope for the best.
A “normal” coach only knows what they learned. Tree of Knowledge. Not worthless, but not authentic.
Most coaches have a mixed bag: they did some things, and learned others.
And a master coach is someone who not only has done it, but has done it successfully… and has produced success.
I have never played team sports… I am an introvert, and I also hate competing with my own team mates. So no, I have never done team sports…
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Why? Because trying to go across to where you really wanted to go, without going back, is fraught with death traps. Humanity, some seven thousand years ago, took a wrong turn. In just a few words: they started to replace reality with word pictures in the mind. Concepts. This took us to where we are now: not a pretty place. Any and every human is afflicted: no one is exempt. An “avatar’s” job is to take you backwards so you can find your way from there… They have to have earned the right… by going back personally, backtracking themselves. Most teachers try to cut across… oh the The way humans examine things to make sense of them is by taking them apart. It works relative well with people, but with a living thing, it is not that effective. So humans make up parts and elements… and some seem to work to one degree or another, but nothing quite works perfectly. The mechanical models medical “sciences” use doesn’t work well at all… we have more diseases than before… The psychological models of ego, and subconscious, and beliefs, and such don’t work well either… How do we know? Because the results are temporary, or there are no results. Life is simple… The resu I have built a latticework, but I did not do it consciously. I just noticed that I had it and others didn’t. As usual I wrote down the question before i went to sleep last night, but the answer wasn’t there this morning. Only the question. Urgently. So I came to my computer, and the first link I clicked took me to an answer. Maybe THE answer. No accidents there… I clicked on a link on a website I normally don’t click on anything. Regardless, I am continuing on the theme, because this is one of the stumbling block for most of you… so although you don’t know what is eating your lunch… although you have no idea how you are screwing up, I do, and I am here to help you till you get it. I already have a third article in the pipeline… ;-/ About a month ago I finally and suddenly got ready to pick a marketing mentor. Terry Dean is his name… and as soon as I can aff Accurately assess… as opposed to have an opinion, have a good feel, or guess… Is that a skill, a capacity, a virtue? What is it and how do you get it? A have a new “most visited” post, the 31 quotes that give you chills… Why? Because it promises an experience… an experience you crave in the consistently dull and painful life you have. Wanting to get chills without any other benefits says a lot about you and your life. What does it say? For one: you are a mystery to yourself… I have said it before… humanity bars its way to evolution by thro Is a human like a assembled faucet? When it drips you have to replace the whole thing? I energize my water in a 5 gallon (20 liter) plastic containers with a spigot. The spigot is replaceable, but I am not strong enough to unscrew it. I have the replacement spigot… I bought it a year ago, but is still sitting on my kitchen counter. I still need to be mindful that the old spigot, which is just another word for water tap… still drips. In the Starting Point Measurements the vocabulary number is what indicates this. I originally intended to call this clarity, but then I decided that if it refers to words, then maybe it can be instructive. It hasn’t been. So this article will be, mostly, about words. Whatever you don’t have words for, whatever you mislabel, whatever you just have feelings or emotions about, no accurate words… are not conscious awareness. I will add: accurate w You see, in my family I was the dunce… meaning stupid. And even though I had straight A grades, and I was good at everything I tried, I remained stupid for my family. How this works I don’t know. But this seems to be the dynamic: people make a decision about you, and then they never really look at you again. You take it on, as the truth, and freeze into it. You allow it to guide you through life. My brother, my older brother was the Continue reading “I don’t think you understand how humans are “designed”!” Returning to the fork in the road where you took a wrong turn
If you find yourself on the wrong road… trace your way back to where you went astray… and choose a different road. The puzzle that is called “human”. Your theory matters…
Humans are unpredictable, a mystery, and therefore have given rise to many many theories. How to start preparing your brain to build a latticework to hang new knowledge on?
I woke up with a question: how do you build a latticework to hang all your knowledge on?
Can you predict the future? Can you pick the next big winner?
My last article, the shotgun method has missed its target… few even understood what the heck I was talking about. More on the 10 dark years theory… or why it is more like 30-40 years or never…
Most winners in life master one thing in particular: they are astute. Astute: having or showing an ability to accurately assess situations or people. How true is your truth? Do your teachers have theory induced blindness… the world is still flat where human behavior is concerned?
This article is about the inner workings of a human… that if you get it wrong, the price you pay for the error is your life.
Conscious awareness… what is it really? And what does your vocabulary have to do with it?
We throw about big words, and we pretend that we know them. Even “scientists” just pretend. If they didn’t, they would be explaining, clarifying the words, but they don’t.Whenever we say conscious awareness, we are talking about words. No words, no conscious awareness.
Fighting windmills? No time to do good stuff, let alone great stuff?
I just learned something terrible about myself. A lot of people hear me as if I were their father.With me it was a little different, because I am defiant. I am not defiant to the person who speaks it, I am defiant to the saying. I am going to prove them wrong.
I don’t think you understand how humans are “designed”!
You are born with potentials but no skills. Even breathing is a skill you need to learn. Skills are the atoms of actions. Each action, like a molecule is built of atoms, each activity is made of parts that we …