When you find something good, then hold onto it, make it your permanent tool or partner. How do you know if what you have found is a good thing? This can be in any area of life, health, wealth, love, … Continue reading “A good tool keeps on giving, and giving, and giving”
Wrestling back the steering wheel of your life from ADD, frustration, depression, anger, and more
“It is not what you do for your children, but what you have taught them to do for themselves that will make them successful human beings.” Of all the 10 starting point measurements, the most telling is your TLB score. … Continue reading
4 principles of a life that is enjoyable, fulfilling and financially rewarding at the same time.
I look at my dreams as guidance. Now, you need to know that I almost never dream a whole story… I dream moods. Some situations. Last night I dreamed about going back to Israel, meeting people I had known, experiencing … Continue reading
Scientists are trying to keep you on the 15th floor. Why? Because it is super easy to influence you on that level.
Suddenly I am noticing the many articles that try to access your emotions, the advertising, the movies, all to keep you stuck on the 15th floor of your being. ((
- Some examples from today’s articles: The Scientists Who Control Your Brain’s ‘Buy’ Button
- The “Untranslatable” Emotions You Never Knew You Had
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Your emotions are moldable, like clay, and there is nothing that you can do about it… on that level. Because your emotions is the 15th floor, it is
Why don’t you trust? Why can’t you trust?
This is a hypothesis that will need to be confirmed with tests. I could also say: it’s a hunch.
And my hunch is that the less trustworthy you are the less trust you have. Period.
Hah, but trust, as a verb, is transitive.
So let’s see what COULD you trust, if you did:
- 1. trust in yourself… aka self-trust.Trusting that what comes out of your mouth is the truth
Trusting that you can
Trusting that you will
Trusting that your “beliefs” are accurate
Trusting that you can meet your own expectations of yourself
Trusting that you can meet other people’s expectations
and probably a lot more.We’ll talk about “beliefs” that everyone seems to know what they me
Beingness… the inner guidance that gives your behavior, actions, and ultimately your results
Not surprisingly, I hope, the difference between homo sapiens (thinking man) and Human Being is this elusive “thing”: beingness.
Beingness does not respond to words.
- Beingness does not respond to words.
- It doesn’t respond to force, not even to force of will.
- It doesn’t really respond to feelings either.
- And: IMPORTANT! is not created by doing
It is a whole different ball of
The original sin… how you can stop paying, how can you stop suffering?
As I promised, the next step in creating your life that discouragement is only a rare guest in, instead of a tenant…
I am going to start with a somewhat gossipy story: my conversation with my mentor, Gyõzõ Margóczi, the brilliant engineer who wrote the books “Feelings” and “Words”.
I suggested that he thinks about developing a feedback device, that gives you valuable feedback on your feelings… because being in touch and understanding the dynamics of feelings is the hardest thing for a regular human.
And everyone is a regular human… 🙁
His answer, pay attention, was that there must surely be a rich man, like Bill Gates, who would want to stand behin
No energy? Likely you are Twitchy Little Bastard… A Marshmallow eater…
This morning I am running on fumes… (or how to increase your Twitchy Little Bastard ((TLB – Twitchy Little Bastard; a person who is counterproductively anxious for results. Who has no ability to control his urges…)) score)
Some activities fill you up, some activities drain your energy.
One of the most important capacities one can develop is to tell the difference… and start managing one’s energy.
Sometimes you give your energy to another and get back nothing… Maybe money, but money does not fill you up. Money does not give you energy. It may buy groceries… but even groceries only give you physical energy.
The depletion is of psychic energy, of spiritual energy, of intellectual energy. I am reading a book ((Return to the brain of Eden by Tony Wright and Graham Gynn. Truth value: 7%. Careful, that means 93% b.s. If it is such low truth value: why am I reading it? Because, as you’ll see later in this article, I can tell truth from falsehood, because I read with my right brain, I can get from the book what I need, and none of the b.s. You can’t… yet. I just started the book, but my hunch, at this early on is that what they say about food is what’s off… )) that says that humans used to be able to live from their right-brain, meaning they were a lot more intelligent. The book sa – Life Mapping (Bill Cohen) Display and existence. These are two Landmark distinctions. As I am looking at my students, the biggest missing is not intelligence, not diligence, it is these two distinctions. I am still doing the preparation series for the mapping your life, or lifemapping workshop: I want you to come and do the work, instead of listening to me doing teaching. Every learning is 5% input, and 95% you doing what you need to do, practicing it, using it, putting it into action. So this is what these distinction and the article about
How the left brain blocks all your attempts to evolve as a person…
What will it take for you to steer your life to the good life? Not what you think!
I don’t want to change you into my vision of you. Rather, I want to motivate you into becoming the person you are capable of becoming.