Being a coach is easy if you have no idea what they are doing, because you have never done it.
You just do what everyone else does, and hope for the best.
A “normal” coach only knows what they learned. Tree of Knowledge. Not worthless, but not authentic.
Most coaches have a mixed bag: they did some things, and learned others.
And a master coach is someone who not only has done it, but has done it successfully… and has produced success.
I have never played team sports… I am an introvert, and I also hate competing with my own team mates. So no, I have never done team sports…
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It can be sharing with someone we’re not used to sharing with. It can be opening up with someone we’re not used to opening up to. It can be calling someone with whom we’re holding a grudge and wishing them well and saying something nice, some words of wisdom. It can be anything. It just has to be an unconditional stretch. As a certified est-hole and Landmark junkie, I have heard the urging “Share, share share.” So I am going to announce some sales for this coming week. I’ll make them good… so you’ll buy. Now, about the successes that lead me to a huge insight. All that people do is guided by memes, and they think they decided to do it. And you think they decided to do it from the goodness of their heart, from the badness of their heart, whatever seem to be the case. But in fact they never decided anything… It is the memes that are doing the deciding. This is a totally different way to look at people, at life, and at what’s happening. In my quest to find like-minded people, who want to better humanity, I am watching videos, and am exposed the feelings of the speaker, commentator, or whoever is in the video. What prompted this article is a bout of weeping… for no reason. I am sitting here examining the context inside which this happened, and I Have had no reason to be sad, to weep. So I ask, somewhat late, this usual question: is this mine? The answer is NO. Does this belong to one of my students? no. one of my readers? no. to the speaker on the video? yes. Now, this was today. But whenever I watch a sales video… or maybe even read a sales email… I get the feeling of the person who wrote it.
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And my hunch is that the less trustworthy you are the less trust you have. Period. Hah, but trust, as a verb, is transitive. So let’s see what COULD you trust, if you did: When you look at what I wrote and your life, you may get depressed, feel inferior, and go into despair. Don’t. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_4IRMYuE1hI Here is dark stuff in mine… I am writing this article, so that you know Why? Because if it is likeable by the masses, then it probably is full of low vibration stuff. The other day I didn’t feel like reading heavy duty stuff, I was craving story. Stories are very important to humans: you get that as you can. Most, alas, gets it in gossip. Facebook, trash sites, click-bait and such. The vibrational level of gossip is 70. Adjust your vibration to get closer and closer to 70. Sitting in the living room, pretending to do your own work, while others gossip: you would be sitting in your bedroom if you would ever want to be higher vibration.
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And it is the overwhelming habit of readers of my site. But to make it even worse: it is the habit of some of my 67 step students. Useless, waste of time, unless all you want is entertainment. Then I understand. So if you actually wanted, what you read/listen to, to make a difference for you, what should you do?
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One of the big issue I see with people is this: You have big desires… but you don’t consider doing the things you have to do to attain them worth your while. Catch 22. Your desire for comfort and doing nothing conflicts with your desire for what you say you desire. Something has to give. It’s been many years that I “shared” with anyone. Sharing is a Landmark Education distinction: you talk about some gain in your life, in a particular way, and if you did it well, the other person gets a tiny bit more than just a whiff of what you are “sharing”; they get a taste of it. A taste of your gain…As if you’ve given them a bite of your triple chocolate fudge cake… lol. We were both early for the exercise class, and she was really relieved that she wasn’t going to be the only student… As I was changing to shorts, and gym shoes, I asked if it would be OK with her if I bragged.. Sharing. The misused word… just share… i.e. sell?
I know the word sharing gets thrown around in these emails quite a bit. Sometimes we become numb to the word. To get back to basics, sharing means giving something of ourselves.
In Landmark they mean “Bring more chumps like you so that Landmark can becom Want to be the one who is making the decisions in your life?
This week has been a success for Life, and a disaster financially. Everyone was spending their money on turkey, I guess.You can use this to re-interpret your past.
What is the purpose of life… and how to live it on Life’s terms?
Most often: hope+fear:Â A perfect prescription for misery. ((
Why don’t you trust? Why can’t you trust?
This is a hypothesis that will need to be confirmed with tests. I could also say: it’s a hunch.
Trusting that you can
Trusting that you will
Trusting that your “beliefs” are accurate
Trusting that you can meet your own expectations of yourself
Trusting that you can meet other people’s expectations
and probably a lot more.We’ll talk about “beliefs” that everyone seems to know what they me
You… the good, the bad, and the ugly. Team you…
Yesterday I shared with you the evolution of my Self. It’s like Beethoven’s Fifth… Victorious.
My little contest to move you into a capacity you need
I am always suspicious of things, books, movies, series, that are best sellers.
The habit of reading, nodding, and moving on…
Talk about useless activity! Tree of Knowledge, mind candy, justifying self… all the bad stuff. Bad for you… keeping you exactly where you are… and if that is a bad place… then it keeps you firmly anchored to that bad place. Internal and external barriers to growth, changing, success, the good life
Is that a distraction? Does that get me closer to my target?
The “and” game… What your resistance says about you
I got lucky today. I got to see something I haven’t seen in a long time.