This article starts out very philosophical. If you can’t stand that, jump to here…
What is health?
No one has defined it yet, because just like “good” was until Dr Robert Hartman came along to define it, existed only in a context of good this or good that.
What Robert Hartman said is that good is that which fulfills completely its design. That which is most fully itself.
Now, the task is easier when someone knows who they are. When someone has a Self. Most people don’t. They have a persona for each group they interact with, the family persona, the student persona, the friend, the gossiper, the entertainer, the this and the that. Those personas (roles you play) are not you. They were created by a perceived demand in the circumstances, a perceived demand in the environment. They leave you empty, they leave you being jerked by the The Indian sages, including the Buddha, skipped the extrinsic. They taught people not to live there. They had a disdain for it. But work is on the extrinsic level, making money is on that level, so skipping it means living a life of charity. Living a life where you cannot value another person on all levels… because you don’t value the values of that level. The article asking: where do you look to define your value got a lot of “hits” and comments. Reading the answers I saw that some fundamental distinctions are missing, in spite of the fact that I have written about all of those before, on this blog. So after reading the article about the three levels of valu For example the only person I ever saw as compatible, left after a few weeks, without saying good bye. I could grieve it, but I think it was fortunate. I loved him too much… When you love someone or something too much, you put your own self interest on hold, and become a slave to that person or thing… In hindsight this is why I was so disproportionately captivated and mortified by a “Criminal Minds” episode, where the wo As you probably don’t know, judgment comes from ego, from comparison. I am smart and you are stupid… that is judgment. You are stupid isn’t judgment unless you feel something in your chest or throat as you say it. Unless it means something about you. I feel nothing, or maybe sadness, when I ask these assessment question… that help me make sense out of the convoluted picture each person is. So I measure your vibration… and it’s, for example, low. Then I changed my diet and the sense of smell came back. Surprisingly I often smell things that didn’t seem to be there… Bringing up memories of the times I smelled the same… good smell, bad smell, neutral smell. It’s hot here, unseasonably hot, and to accommodate it I am taking cold showers and I am eating differently. I made a dip-like thing I used to love in Hungary and I hadn’t eaten in 35 years… a simple dish mixing spices, butter, and goat cheese, and if you have it, onion or onion powder… the goat cheese is salty enough, so use sweet unsalted butter, and saltless onion powder, or it w What I saw is where religion, the popularized version, and where modern spiritual teacherdom overlap and join forces to dupe you. Before I start: No? I didn’t think so. Now, settle down for a few minutes of pondering: If that is so, if that is not your experience, If you have ever been pinned down, not able to free yourself… …your trust of life, your trust in people, your confidence has dealt a big blow. Recovering is not guaranteed, and the wound can be torn open again quite easily.
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It is human nature to be self-critical, it is because of our ambivalent nature of feeling everything and the opposite. There is no one on the planet who is all good. It is not possible. It is a physical impossibility. It’s unnatural. You have to be good and you have to be bad, and you have to have high t
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The Juice Exercise: what gives you “juice” in life?
I have been coaching people for many years now. The goal was always to take people on a journey to become their best Self. Back into light… The counter cultural way to become your higher self, no matter where you are.
Living in the three levels of value, the systemic, the extrinsic, and the intrinsic, lived fully, and balanced, is the secret to the good life. How do you use the three levels of value in your “real” life to fall in love with yourself?
How do you use the three levels of value in your “real” life to fall in love with yourself? It’s my 45th anniversary that I graduated from architecture school. I am old…
It put me into a walk-down memory lane mood, and I revisited some events in my life I haven’t remembered in decades.
Call me blunt, call me judgmental… I don’t care.
I am going to share, in this article, some of the judgmental sounding questions I ask when I try to get a full picture about someone who is asking for help.
That which does not kill us, makes us stronger
A few years ago I lost my sense of smell. Build your house on rock: Starting from what is, instead of a delusion
My disastrous conversation with the zealous Christian on the other end of the phone opened my eye to something I could not see clearly before.does your experience of yourself match these principles:
–you are already perfect.
–You are already divine, you just don’t know it. Why is rape so traumatic, while sex is so commonplace?
If you have ever been forced to do something you didn’t want to do… anything…
What is the vibration of being right?
One of the most desired possibilities, one of the most desired life anyone can have is a life where you are free to be yourself, warts and all.