How does your personality effect your life? Some 44 years ago, when I was in high school, and a celebrity of sorts, I was presented with a lesson that did not land until just today. Back in 1963, my friend, Pamacs an I, applied to a talent show. She sang, I sang, she could strum the guitar, I was an accomplished guitar player. We opted to sing two Neil Sedaka songs, in English, instead of my native Hungarian. We stayed in the competition for quite a few rounds, and became everyone’s favorite Bambi. Duo, as we called ourselves. I have seen photos taken from the Television show, and we looked sweet, fresh, and just adorable. Everyone who watched TV watched that show: that was the only TV station in Hungary, back in the olden days š Every Saturday, Pamacs showed up at our house, and we went dancing. She danced the whole evening, I danced maybe two songs. At the end of the night hordes of boys wanted to walk her home, no one cared about me. I was prettier than Pam. I was dumbfounded… Fast forward a few years… a few months ago Pam got in touch with me: the magic of the Internet. She now lives in London, married to a famous and absolutely smashing guy, step mother of an Oscar Best Actress winner, has a striving psychology counseling practice. I am not married (have never been), live alone, so you see, the story continued as it started. What is the difference between Pam and myself? If you guessed: her personality, you guessed it right. So that means that I am screwed, right? Now, I happen to agree with you, but we are both wrong. Potentially… Because in my new course, to be released soon, “Design Your Winning Personality” I have good news for you! You are not stuck with your personality, warts and all… You have built it, you can build another one. One that will get you what you want, the right guy/gal, the right job, the right connections, the right income, the right mood: happiness. Let me ask you a question: if you could change anything about yourself: what would you change? What do you think would happen different in your life, if you could successfully changed that? Please post a comment below. Looking forward to hearing your answers. xoxo Sophie PS: In my next post I will write about a real-life example, another friend of mineāsā¦ how she changed from a needy wallflower to a married, happy, successful architect. Tags: personality,+persona,+character,+nice+person , winning , persona , the+face+of+your+business , mindset , change
Nick Vujicic… a public speaker you can learn attitude from
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Your sphere of influence
I have lots of clients that struggle. One of the common characteristics I can find is the fact that they are trying to do something big, but are surrounded by small thinking people. Another one is that they have a small sphere of influence. And the third one is that they don’t know how to get more people to join their sphere of influence. You will never be able to do anything really big, if you are isolated, and the “echo” that you hear about you is from people who think you are small, insignificant or crazy. Many people go to seminars, they hang out with others there, but when they go home, they are back in their own backyard where they are considered just another wannabe. What is the solution? What is you ARE a wannabe, but have the potential to influence thousands? One great tool I found is twitter. And a great tool I found to build a list of followers is at , which is a free tool. If life worked like it is “supposed to”, it would build you a group of followers to the tune of millions, but of course life doesn’t work the way it is supposed to. But still, it is worth a try. All it takes is a minute or two…
What can being organized and goal driven accomplish in 100 days
I am not sure. I can just share one thing: In 1987, I was still working as an architect, I participated in a program called “More Time Workshop” It was about 15 hours long. We learned very simple time and results management methods… so that wasn’t what made the difference. What made the difference, and I’ll tell you in detail, in a minute, what the difference was… so what made the difference is that we had to promise to do everything we learned for 30 days, no days off… It was simple: you had a short term, a middle range, and a long range goal. You needed to look at them every day and then create 5-7 actions for the day. Priorotize them, and then schedule them into your calendar. At the end of the day go over your actions and see if you have done them or not. If not, move them to the next day, and schedule them. Once a week look at a long list of “I always wanted to do this” items. I found that after 30 days it was a no brainer. It did take an extra hour on my schedule to do this stuff, but I slept better than ever I had more energy and enthusiasm than ever before Things got done. What I invented for myself at the course was to become a magazine publisher. It was completely outside of my reach… By the end of 1988 I was a magazine publisher, and I published my publication for 11 years with great success, and I loved it. I got this result because I had a method to my life. A 100-day challenge can do miracles, this is why I signed up to the 100-day challenge… You can join me in it, if you want, you can do so till September 30. Here is the link: If you sign up and email me, we could become a support group for each other… I can definitely help you! Are you coming? Success is not waiting for anyone.
Another inspiring clip of Nick Vujicic
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Diets Don’t Work, In Fact They Make You Fat
Diets don’t work
I know, I know, I am not the first person to say this. but…
I myself heard the expression, for the first time, about 15 years ago. There was a book written by a guy who owned a gym, I think in Texas, and the book starts with one of the best lines in history, he said “I had to call in fat one morning…”
That’s very funny, right? The word you expect is “sick” so when he says fat, you crack up. At least I did.
Who Were My Teachers in Transformation and Mindset… ?
Well, this could be a real long article, even a book. I wonāt go thereā¦ writing a book is way too long for my ADHD personality. But there is one teacher, who I admire, Colin Wilson (of āOutsiderā and ā The Mind Parasites ā fame, who wrote a book, ā
Two main reasons you don’t have the life you want
As you know I am a coach, and I don’t have to think much to find something to teach… hey, my clients is a never ending source of inspiration for writing. I want to share something about the kind of life you live… because I want you to sign up to the 100 day challenge, so consider that I am selling you… shamelessly, pushing you, pressuring you: because it is that important.
Shock Therapy
The strongest motivator for me is to think what it would be like on my deathbed if I died today. I always take several actions every time I imagine the scenario and my regrets. Here is a video that says it better than I could ever say. I bet you’ll have several actions as soon as you watch it. ZD YouTube FLV Player
How To Melt an 800K Debt? Begin it like thisā¦
I am reading Abraham/Hicks: The Power of Deliberate Creation. I find one fundamental thing really useful, and I am surprised that this is the first time it occurs for me anywhere, but then again, I watch my students, watch my clients, and a I am no longer surprised.