I just had a revelation: we want the people around us to NEVER tell us what we do wrong, funny, that we snore, that we have bad breath, that we are bloated, etc. etc. etc.

We pick people who will never say anything like that to us, so we don’t have to deal with it. Including coaches and teachers and gurus that you pay…

But… but at the same time we pretend that we want to be better, that we want blah blah blah.

B.S. and we know it.

So we are so far divided inside, that we can’t be alone, can’t look in the mir