I am getting a lot of requests to teach people how to become people who live a life worth living, who excel in all four areas, all four pillars of the good life.
My answer is almost always: Sorry I can’t help you.
But why?
Today I got lucky and got my answer in a pristine form.
My University classmate, Panni called me. We talk once a month. She is, of course an architect: we were classmates in architecture school, a five year study.
And she is a mother and a grandmother.
It has nothing to do with the stuff, or the quantity of it. It can be great, it can be plenty… the context, scarcity or abundance will tell you what to feel, what to think, what to do. You can have plenty inside the context of scarcity, and feel that you don’t have enough. Enough time, enough stuff, enough happiness, enough whatever… …or the opposite, you can have little, but inside the context of abundance, you have what you have, and what you have is enough. ADMIRE AS MUCH AS YOU CAN! “Admire as much as you can. Most people do not admire enough.” – Vincent van Gogh Admiring people who are worthy of our admiration doesn’t cost us anything. Same with admiring animals and plants and natural phenomena: no pain involved. Same with admiring great accomplishments by our fellow humans: […] I saw something today that can be important to for you to learn, because I don’t think you know. It was prompted by an article by James Altucher, a blogger (personal vibration: 170) who I like and feel disgust for at … Continue reading → Related Posts: Your sphere of influence and your vibration: what […] This is how it goes: I write something. I think I know what i am saying. but hours later it hits me… wow. So I wrote in my previous article, this morning, that all pain and suffering you experience is experiencing your own resistance… resistance coming from the 14th floor words: “This should not be…” So, consequently all non-physical pain comes from your resistance to feedback. OK… I said more or less this… but how true and how general it is just hit me. Here I am sit In my quest to find like-minded people, who want to better humanity, I am watching videos, and am exposed the feelings of the speaker, commentator, or whoever is in the video. What prompted this article is a bout of weeping… for no reason. I am sitting here examining the context inside which this happened, and I Have had no reason to be sad, to weep. So I ask, somewhat late, this usual question: is this mine? The answer is NO. Does this belong to one of my students? no. one of my readers? no. to the speaker on the video? yes. Now, this was today. But whenever I watch a sales video… or maybe even read a sales email… I get the feeling of the person who wrote it.
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Abundance
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