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The hardest pull to resist is the pull of your “how” nature. Or what type of activity do you rush into… headfirst…
The hardest pull to resist is the pull of your “how” nature. Or what type of activity do you rush into… headfirst… That activity can be four kinds… four conative types, four types of conative actions… reading, planning, action, and execution.
Scientific name for your “how” is Conation. It is innate, and it is NOT changeable.
Regardless… I have been looking at taming my own… I find that it is not tamable. It is what it is.
But I have come to suspect that what you do after you do what your Conation makes you do is when the magic happens.
You see, all people belong to three types. People who make things happen, people who watch things happen, and people who wonder what happened. But
The “and” game… What your resistance says about you
I got lucky today. I got to see something I haven’t seen in a long time.
It’s been many years that I “shared” with anyone.
Sharing is a Landmark Education distinction: you talk about some gain in your life, in a particular way, and if you did it well, the other person gets a tiny bit more than just a whiff of what you are “sharing”; they get a taste of it. A taste of your gain…As if you’ve given them a bite of your triple chocolate fudge cake… lol.
We were both early for the exercise class, and she was really relieved that she wasn’t going to be the only student…
As I was changing to shorts, and gym shoes, I asked if it would be OK with her if I bragged..
How is living is like writing a book? Good writing is re-writing…
Let’s see how you write… and then we’ll see how you live your life.
Most people first-draft-people… they never re-write. Others carefully craft the format, but don’t touch what they said… the content. And then others wait until they think they have something profound to say… and that is rarely.
All good writing is re-writing. Both writing literature and “writing”, crafting your life, your story. ((Most people never re-write. They present their first draft in everything. A real good secret of how not to amount to anything or much)) If you are not willing to write badly you are not willing to write well either. And if you can’t see that your first draft is bad, you will never look at it again.
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What is the typical reason people don’t do anything with their lives?
What is the typical reason people don’t do anything with their lives?
That’s a loaded question, but it’s a valid question.
I have done a lot of observation and thinking on this.
I have come to the conclusion that the core issue is stinginess that results in scarcity thinking and scarcity behavior.
I will list a few variations: I am sure that you’ll find yourself…
This is how it goes:
- You don’t quite know what you want from your life. So you postpone doing anything until you know… which is never.
- You know what you want to achieve, what you want from your life, but there is no path that you can see. You
The biggest stumbling block you have to growth that will fail you
Parents are not trained educators. They don’t allow you to be a child: they only care about themselves… not you, no matter how much they pretend, even to themselves. You, as a parent, are the same way…
You would be better off living in a children’s home where everyone is trained in personal growth.
Because parents are much like those fraudulent personal growth, get rich, get well and thin, “take a tablet and become forever young/pain free/etc.” marketers.
Why? I guess a stupid person cannot teach another to be smart.
What is smart? It is smart to Learn from Life. Life has been around, successfully, way longer than you and me.
As you may know, I like to watch those… I learn from them as much as from any course, while I am entertained as well. The quality of a person’s life, your life, boils down to actions… and each and every action is a result of a choice. The accuracy of your actions is a function of how many patterns you recognize in the world. I am talking about good stories. I am talking about shows with good or passable actors, good directing… And yet the show is scarcely enjoyable because the character doesn’t fit. the inner world of the character is off… tells a different story. Like the serial killer in The Fall… more about it later. I have been pondering this for the past few months when there are less and less stuff to watch, and I have less and less ambition to fill my day with work. And finally I got it. In fact some movie director lead me to it. He said: I prefer to let an actor do Because while industry, science have advanced, humans, the race, has gone backwards. As a race. Backwards in intelligence… intellect, emotional, social, relationship, etc. And obviously in vibration. Pam Ragland‘s theory was (is?) that it is negativity that is doing it. But I watched the 26 people in her course, where she wiped the negativity, and people’s behavior, their affinity to learning new tricks, growing, did not change. I worked as a friend and coach with some of them, and I can tell you: wiping aw You have habits, thought patterns, beliefs, practices that guarantee that your life will not change, especially won’t change for the better. When you do a course, read a book, or talk to a coach, you want to do and change the most important thing about your life: drop 30 pounds, start a new business, or leave your husband. You are unprepared. You are like a medical student: you need to practice surgery on cadavers before you cut open your mother or father… translating for those that can’t see the forest for the trees: you need to develop the practices that are building blocks for a good life.
The quality of your life boils down to actions… and each and every action is a result of a choice
The current state of human intelligence… and I mean the overall intelligence, can be easily tracked on detective movies… British ones are more honest than American movies.If nothing changes about you, your future i
Casting errors in movies and what you can learn from them for your life
What is wrong with movies, TV series, that I can’t stomach… or barely?
You are trying to eat soup with a fork…
It’s perplexing to watch humans trying to eat soup with a fork.
Never practice surgery on your family and other lessons for life…
Developing the habit to look before you leap