I started to read the book by Edward Deci, “Why we do what we do. Understanding self-motivation”.
This is the first book, that I know, that defines self the way, or similarly the way I do…
To become a person, to have autonomy, self-determination, self-expression, integrity, self-motivation, the most important job is to find the self, by distinguishing what is the driver of all your actions, whether it is inner or outer.
And if it is inner… is it the self, or is it the “not-self”?
Greed, narcissism, hate… area inner motivators, but they are all the not-self. So are all the “negative” emotions, like frustration, haste, the desir
I just finished a Talk-to-me call. It’s a call available for people on my mailing list, where they can ask any questions and get answers, coaching, whatever they need. The call was a breakthrough in a lot of ways.
First off, I distinguished for myself, for the second time, that unless I fall in step with the person I coach, they can’t get what I am saying as contribution and cannot act on it.
Falling in step with music is obviously fun. Falling in step with a drum circle is fun. But falling in step with another person is a challenge. But unless you do, discord is the result.
94,000 people are at 295. The transition from 295 to 299 is tough, feels like stomach virus. If you are there, use the video on connecting directly to Source to make the transition fast and painless. Good luck. 450 people have raised their vibration to 299 so far is a post from: Raise Your Vibration
11:44:29 AM, August 4, 2011 Vikram: hi Sophie Maven: hold Vikur, I am in the middle of something Vikram: how r u doing Vikram: k Sophie Maven: I removed another attachment, it is your wife’s family, didn’t get a lock on who, personally. it was on the other side Sophie Maven: you need to learn to cloak yourself Vikram: who could it be? Sophie Maven: it is mostly a female Vikram: ok..what is this exactly… Vikram: is it some kind of a black magic