What’s the opposite of fear? What is the opposite of stinginess? Updated

When you ask someone: what is the opposite of fear, they say “courage”. But they are mistaken. Courage will never take you to the other side of fear… fear won’t disappear with courage. The opposite of fear is neither fear …

Humans are designed to be continuous learning machines. If you aren’t a learning machine, you have stopped being a human.

Humans are designed to be continuous learning machines. If you aren’t a learning machine, you have stopped being a human. New people to interact with, new ways to do things, new way to accomplish, new things to experience and interpret …

Can you change the world by changing yourself?

The question in the title is as vague as a question can be vague… But it is still a good question. If you look at yourself, you, I bet, knew what the question was, even though none of the words … Continue reading “Can you change the world by changing yourself?” Related Posts: Vibrational reviews: […]

Independence Day

Independence makes you free from something. I have found that the two kinds of freedoms, 1. freedom from and 2. freedom for are a team. People have a different level of craving for one of these freedoms, and that’s what …

Agenda vs. Possibility: Can’t decide what to learn, how to grow? between two chairs…

Being stuck with two diametrically opposing world views is tough, because often neither is going to take you where you could live a life worth living.

This podcast is a personal coaching session… chock full of nuts.
Some coarse language…

When your cleverness trips you up

Bad things used to come in threes… Not any more. Nowadays it is more like three good things and one bad thing. The bad thing today could be turned into good… maybe writing this article helps. Some clients buy stuff …

You want money? Are you a producer or are you a consumer?

In this article I examine you and your world and help you see if you are a consumer or a producer. Only producers benefit from my work. If you are a consumer, you can become a producer but it is hard… and worth it. As a producer you can become all you can be with […]

Are you disappointed with yourself for not being higher minded, and achieving more in life?

be an empty spotFor years I’ve seen that humans, humanity, are stuck in a place where happiness is impossible, accomplishment is not predictable, and health is touch and go. I’ve had big hopes, selfish hopes, that I will be the one to unstuck … Continue reading “Are you disappointed with yourself for not being higher minded, and achieving more in life?”

Updated: When you don’t hurry, time doesn’t hurry either. When you are prepared you can afford to not hurry

Hurry is a reliable sign of the Fixed Mindset. Fixed mindset and growth mindset describe the underlying beliefs, the invisible part of the iceberg of your beliefs that crash the Titanic! you have about learning, effort, and intelligence. When you believe they can get smarter, you may understand that effort makes you stronger. Continue reading

Smart people don’t have to look… Creativity is genetic… and other bullcrap from the Tree of Knowledge

I have started to put my old videos on my video site I also listened to one… how you lose your creativity, how to get it back… Brilliant. I mean the video. I like it. I talk about how you … Continue reading “Smart people don’t have to look… Creativity is genetic… and other bullcrap from the Tree of Knowledge”