In spite of The sight, and other capacities newly available to you, you don’t seem to be able to change…

You have been unsuccessful getting their guidance, getting your information from outside of the mind.

This manifests, among others, in the inability to muscle test correctly.

The question is why?

The phenomenon, what actually seems to happen is this: you understand where to look, how to look, and you nod rapidly. You bring great examples to show how you just succeeded in using the new capacity… but I can smell the mischief… you are trying to throw me off my tracking.

Now, I say “you” but who is this “you”? What aspect of a person am I talking about?

In this case, the dominant aspect, the ego.

The ego is interested in you staying alive, and it will enforce the actions you have already performed, the knowledge you already have, after all you are still alive. Proof positive for the ego.

So, if you have been sick, but alive: it will push the actions that you performed to get sick and stay sick… it demands that you continue them… and repeat the “knowledge” that lead you there.

Same with miserable, unhappy, ineffective, unsuccessful, loser, addict, fat, slob, inconsistent, lazy, self-centered, complaining, lying, cheating, thieving, using, abusing, pleasure seeking, holier than thou, pretentious, etc.

I could have filled this page with the way you got to where you are… and you are here.

I suggest that you do something different, have a different attitude, a different mindset, a different way of being.

You can see that it might work, that it might take you to where you want to be, how you want to feel, but the moment you get off the computer… you are facing the Opponent.

You can win with the Opponent, but you cannot win against the Opponent.

The Opponent, the Ego, is part of your team, and it needs to be enrolled to help you get where you want to be, feel how you want to feel, about yourself, about your life.

But…

There are two issues here,

1. one I have talked about, the lack of skill, or even willingness to negotiate, the inability or unwillingness to enroll the ego in your cause.
2. The other is new: I just saw it this morning:If you have unfinished business in your life, in your childhood, you can’t win the ego over: first you need to finish the unfinished business.

Examples of unfinished business perpetuated by Ego:

1. I once had a friend who, no matter what he did, no matter how much work he did on himself, he easily slipped back into “I am not bright enough.”He was beating an incident to death… where some uncle asked him a question and he was not fast enough to answer… but handling that incident did nothing to change his predicament.Then, in a very intimate conversation we had, I managed to get him share that as a little boy living in the arctic area of Canada, he used to wet his pants, instead of having to go in the house, undress and pee…

   Play was more important to him… but then he was humiliated by his parents.

   This gap in what he wanted and what the world wanted was the basis of his life. Maintaining this gap was Ego’s main job: have what you want different from what the world wants.

   As an employee, he abused his phone privileges and spent hours on the phone on personal matters, chatting… and make the employer pay the long distance charges from Canada to the United States.

   And he did this everywhere: in his marriage: he flirted and dreamed about running away with every woman that gave him an ear.

   You cannot succeed in this gap: because you need to have worldly success one thing and what you want to be different.

2. A woman, married with two children, is in contempt about her husband. She blames him for everything.After some digging we find that she is emulating her mother’s marriage…Her children are brought up in this “gap” where they are torn between the mother and the father… but they are surviving.

   Ego, the Opponent, will make them repeat the same family dynamic, unless somewhere the chain is cut… and the truth is told…

3. I spoke with my brother yesterday. It was a short conversation: he hung up on me.He has a history of being disagreeable, knowing what he is supposed to do instead of what the boss tells him to do, how stupid it is, and he has been unemployed most of his adult history.He cannot even see it… that’s why he hung up: it sounded to him like I am taking the side of the employer… against him.

   He cannot see that I am on his side, because Ego, over there, can only see survival if he continues to be blind that there is another way.

4. I have a history of depression taking me out… and me losing nearly everything I worked for through inaction.I woke up at five and the bed was so warm, and it was so cold in the room. I closed my eyes, and next time I woke up, it was six o’clock.Ego whispered that there is no harm in sleeping in… But I, the not Ego part, I know that this is the slippery slope that takes me to depression…

   So I commanded myself to get up.

   It will be like this, wresting every morning, until I come to terms with something that is incomplete… I have no clue what it is I need to complete from the past.

   But now that I have asked the question, The Sight, Consciousness will help me find it.

I didn’t tell you stories of ill people… but it is the same with their illness…

Something from the past needs to be completed.

It may be insignificant, and it may be something that will make you shudder, sob, but once it is complete it is complete.

Or you can expect life to continue the way it has been.

What DNA capacities might help?

Without The Sight capacity you can’t see anything different than what you have already seen.

Without humility you act as if you knew everything and nothing new, including this information, cannot penetrate… and you will stay the same…

Ultimately, these are the capacities without which you can’t even hope to change.

And a very high vibration capacity, the capacity that is underneath ambition, the desire that you have suppressed, the desire to grow with life, aligned with Life, aligned with your blueprint: the DNA.

I don’t have a name for it. I call it down by saying a word… ambition.

Warning: it is the wind beneath your wings. Don’t get it unless you are ready to fly.

Read the rest of the article: Why can’t you change? What is holding you back?